Ibi rero birasa nkaho bidasanzwe, cyangwa byibuze bidakenewe niba umwana wawe asinziriye nijoro umwanya munini… ariko burigihe hariho amahirwe yuko bazakanguka bagukenera ikintu.
Kandi rero kuba mumitekerereze yumuskuti kandi "buri gihe witegure," birashoboka ko ibi byagufasha gutekereza kubitekerezo rusange BISHOBOKA nuburyo bishobora guhinduka imihango (cyane cyane niba umwana akuze kenshi kubwimpamvu runaka… cyangwa kubwimpamvu runaka atangira kubyuka hejuru kenshi mu gicuku).
Hariho ibintu bibiri "serial" byabaye / bizabera hamwe numwana wanjye, aho rero niho nzajya, ariko biragaragara ko ibyawe bishobora kuba bitandukanye. Mbere ya byose, umuhungu wanjye yari afite ibintu byinshi byo kugaruka. Kandi iyo mvuze "byinshi" ndashaka kuvuga ko yagombaga kurya buri masaha atatu, akazenguruka amasaha ibyumweru bike byambere ageze iwacu… hanyuma akuramo 6-7 muri ibyo biryo buri.single.day.
Byatwaye igihe kandi ibizamini byinshi n'imiti mbere yuko tubona reux. Nubwo, nubwo ubu bigenzurwa ahanini, rimwe na rimwe byongera umutwe wacyo mubi mu gicuku. Aho niho umuhango winjira.
Umuhungu wanjye aransakuza, cyangwa agaragara kuryama bwanjye akantangaza ibitotsi byanjye (ibyo burigihe birashimishije kubyuka, sibyo?) Kugirango umenyeshe ko yaba a) yataye cyangwa b) yumva ari we kujya. Noneho rero njya mubikorwa bimwe buri gihe. Mbere ya byose, nsukura puke (niba hari… akenshi atekereza ko yakoze b / c impinduka zimukubita asinziriye) amuvamo hanyuma uburiri. Noneho ndamushakira imiti yinyongera, yinyongera kugirango ibuze ibi ukundi nijoro.
Ndamufite potty no koza amenyo… kuko, neza… Ndatekereza ko uzi impamvu agomba gukaraba nyuma yo guterera. Kandi kujya potty birumvikana gusa… kuko rimwe na rimwe azasinzira gato niba adakangutse kubera gukenera kujya mu bwiherero (hagomba kubaho inyungu zimwe zo kubyuka mu gicuku, sibyo? ). Noneho ndamuhobera kandi ndasomana, nibutse ko ashobora kunterefona aramutse ankeneye, na “Ndagukunda!” Hanyuma mpita nsohoka mucyumba.
Nkuruhande, nubwo nkemura ibi buri gihe, ndimo kubona gaggy gato mvuga kuri puke, bityo… komeza!
Indi mihango ibaho iyo abyutse mu gicuku. Rimwe na rimwe arabyuka gusa ntashobora gusubira kuryama (kandi nzi neza ko byabaye kuri buri wese muri twe; kandi ikindi gihe inzozi mbi zatumye akanguka, icyo gihe dukurikiza imihango itandukanye. .
Igihe umuhungu wacu yari akiri muto, yaririmbaga hejuru y'ibihaha igihe yari akangutse nijoro. Twabyita "igitaramo cyacu cya nijoro". Imihango rero yari kumwemerera kuririmba iminota mike hanyuma akinjira, amushimira indirimbo, amubaza niba akeneye inkono, atanga ikinyobwa cyamazi (cyahoraga iruhande rwigitanda cye) kandi akoroha. y'ibiringiti bye, yitondera bidasanzwe kugirango ashyire kiriya kiringiti kiremereye hejuru. Noneho umuhe guhobera no gusomana, kwibutsa ko igihe cyo gusinzira no kutaririmba, na “Ndagukunda!” Hanyuma nahita nsohoka mucyumba.
Niba kuririmba byongeye gutangira, bikaba rimwe na rimwe (soma: kenshi) byakozwe, nabireka bikagenda indi minota 5 hanyuma ngasubira mucyumba cya encore yanjye. Inyuma rero imbere iyi mihango yagenda kugeza amaherezo asinziriye.
Noneho… niba hari inzozi zubwoko runaka zitera gukanguka, umwe muri twe arinjira aramukubita. Tuvugishije ukuri, ntukiri "hejuru" cyane kuko ari munini cyane, ariko aratwemerera kumuzingira muhobera cyane dushobora, kumukubita umugongo no kumuswera n'amagambo ahumuriza. Kunyeganyega kwe bimaze guhagarara, turabaza niba ashaka kuvuga kubyo yarose (ibyo atabikora mu gicuku) bityo dukomeza kuryama iruhande rwe, rimwe na rimwe tugaha igikumu cyiza ku kuboko cyangwa ku mutwe kandi gusa ubaze ibibazo bidasanzwe kugirango uhindure ubwonko bwe gutekereza kubindi bitari izo nzozi. Hanyuma, bitandukanye no kuryama, turyama hasi kuruhande rwe kugeza igihe asinziriye ibitotsi ninzozi mbi zirirukanwa, byibuze mugihe gito. Nubwo bisobanura kubura ibitotsi, bimwereka urukundo, kumwitaho no kumwitaho… kandi nubwo akenshi bitoroha, ni amahirwe rwose yo guhuza nawe muburyo ibindi bintu bidatanga.
Nkuko ushobora kubibona, nubwo ibyo byombi bikenewe bitandukanye, umuhango ni umwe: Kwitabira ibikenewe, hanyuma utange icyerekezo hanyuma werekane ubwitonzi no guhumurizwa… hanyuma usohoke (niba bishoboka).
Kandi nkuko nabivuze, imihango yawe yo hagati-yijoro irashobora kuba itandukanye cyane, ariko irashobora kugira gahunda kandi igatanga ituze iganisha kumutekano. Nizere ko ibi bigufasha kumenya ko nibintu bitakunze kubaho cyane bishobora guhinduka imihango uramutse ubyitayeho.
Mubyukuri,
Kris