Kenshi na kenshi, umwana aje kwitabwaho, kandi nk'ababyeyi barera, tuzi bike cyane ku nkuru yabo. Kandi ukurikije imyaka yabo, barashobora kumenya bike kubusa kubijyanye ninkuru zabo.
Ariko… buri mwana agomba kuba ashobora kwandika inkuru zabo (uko bishoboka kose), kuko buri mwana afite akamaro. Kuvuga ibigaragara hano… biragoye cyane kwandika amateka yubuzima kumwana urera, kuko mubisanzwe ntituzi byinshi (niba bihari) birambuye. Kurugero, ntabwo dusanzwe tuzi ibintu nkuburemere bwamavuko, uburebure bwamavuko, cyangwa igihe cyo kuvuka.
Biragaragara, nshobora gukomeza no kubyo tutazi kandi akenshi bitangira uhereye mugitangira cyo gushyira.
Rimwe na rimwe, dufite amahirwe kandi dushobora gukusanya amakuru; niba dushoboye gutsimbataza ubwoko bumwe bwimibanire nababyeyi babyaranye. Cyangwa nyuma kumurongo, turashobora kubona dosiye zubuvuzi zahinduwe mugihe habaye kurera (byibuze biduha amwe muri ayo "makuru yavutse" nibindi).
Ariko tutitaye ko dufite amakuru amwe, ibitabo bisanzwe byabana ntibisanzwe bikora kubana barera; nkigisubizo, narangije kwandika igitabo cyumuhungu wumuhungu… kandi igitekerezo cyanjye mubyo nanditse uyu munsi nukugutera inkunga yo kubikora.
Kwandika inkuru birashobora gufata imiterere yose wifuza. Ntabwo bikenewe kuba muburyo bumwe nigitabo gakondo cyabana (nukuvuga aho usanga hari umwanya kugirango ibyo bisobanuro byose byuzuzwe.) Mubunararibonye bwanjye, ibyakora byose ni ugukubabaza (kandi birashoboka umwana nawe) kuko ugiye kugira imyanya myinshi yubusa.
Tuvugishije ukuri, hariho inzira nyinshi zitandukanye ushobora gukora igitabo cyamateka yumwana… ibitekerezo bigarukira gusa ku guhanga kwawe (kandi igihe… ibyo nabyo ni binini, kandi iyo wita kubana bava ahantu habi, umwanya ushobora rimwe na rimwe kuba ibicuruzwa bike.) Nuburyo bwose, ibi nibyo waremye!
Niba ufite amahirwe yo kugira amafoto, urashobora gukora igitabo cyamafoto kurubuga rumwe ruboneka.
Cyangwa, niba ushaka kubyandika nkaho ari ikiganiro, (kandi ibi nibyiza cyane birashobora kuba umunyamakuru wingenzi muri njye nsohotse) ushobora guhora wandika ikibazo hanyuma igisubizo; nkaho umuntu asubiza ibibazo mubazwa. Kandi ibi ntaho bivuze, ariko ndabivuze: shyiramo gusa ibibazo uzi ibisubizo!
Ibyo ushoboye byose bifasha inyama "ibiboneka" (haba mumagambo n'amashusho) ntagushidikanya ko umwana azashimwa cyane. Ariko rero, ntucike intege niba umunezero wigitabo ugabanutse kurenza ibyo wifuzaga, kuko ntibisobanura ko bidashimwa. Birashoboka niba batabishima nonaha, birashoboka ko umunsi umwe.
Inzira yarangije gukora neza kuri njye nukwandika nkinkuru. Ubwoko bwa "rimwe na rimwe," niba ubishaka. Nashizemo gusa amakuru nzi kandi nshyira mumashusho nari mfite (itari menshi yerekana igihe mbere yuko ahagera).
Noneho nzi neza ko bamwe muri mwe batekereza, “Ariko sinzigera menya amakuru arambuye y'ubuzima bwabo mbere yo kuza hano!” Kandi mugihe ibyo bishobora kukugora cyane (numwana), urashobora kubandikira igitabo cyinkuru. Andika inkuru uhereye kure nkuko ubizi. Bishobora gusobanura ko bitangira uwo munsi bageze murugo rwawe… kandi nibyo. Ntabwo ari sawa… biratunganye! Utitaye kumubare wamakuru ufite, birashoboka ko utazigera ugira amakuru menshi nkuko ubyifuza; ariko ibyo ntibikureba. Ukora uko ushoboye ukagerageza kureka abasigaye bakagenda.
Ariko iki kintu cyose ntigikwiye gutangira nta guteganya gato no kubitekerezaho. Ijambo ryihuse ryo kwitondera: nubwo iki ari igitabo bazizera ko bazagira igihe kirekire, gihuze nibyo utekereza ko umwana ashobora gukora mugihe cyo kwandika. Kurugero, kubwinkuru yumuhungu wacu, nabigize byoroshye / hagati yumuhanda. Yari afite amezi 3 ageze iwacu, na 2 ans mugihe cyo kurerwa. Igihe yari akiri muto, twaganiriye gusa ku mashusho, kubera ko atari ashoboye amarangamutima kumva neza bimwe mubitekerezo (kurera kuba kimwe murimwe). Amaze gukura, twashoboye gusangira inkuru nyinshi. No kuri ubu afite imyaka 7, ntabwo aracyari umusomyi ukomeye; nuko, tumusomera igitabo. Rimwe na rimwe, turabisobanura, cyangwa twongeyeho ibisobanuro birambuye ubu tuzi. Kandi uko agenda akura, turashobora kuzuza bimwe mubisobanuro uko ashoboye kubikemura.
Ku mwana urera, barashobora kumererwa neza hamwe nigitabo cyinkuru kirenze "hagati yumuhanda," kuko niba batazabana nawe ubuziraherezo, kandi ukakohereza hamwe nabo, byibuze bazagira amateka amwe yanditse ashobora gukundwa, no kugwa byibuze mugihe runaka. Biragaragara, ibi ntabwo bizaba byuzuye, kandi nibyiza. Uzandika ibyo uzi, kimwe nigihe ubifitemo…. ibyo birumvikana, kuko baramutse bongeye guhuzwa nimiryango yabo yababyaye, ntibari kugira inyandiko nyinshi muricyo gihe bari kurera. Ugiye kuzuza ibyo bisobanuro kuri bo mugihe bo (n'umuryango wabo) bashobora kwibaza nyuma. Nimwe muburyo wowe, nkumubyeyi urera, ushobora guhagarara mu cyuho cyababyeyi babyara kugeza igihe biteguye kandi bashoboye guhura numwana wabo.
Noneho ijambo rya kabiri ryo kwitondera: kora uko ushoboye kugirango witondere cyane kutagabanya cyangwa gutesha agaciro ababyeyi bavutse mugitabo cyinkuru. Nzi ko bishobora kuba mubyukuri, bigoye rwose iyo ubonye ukanibonera ibyo ihahamuka ryambere ryakoze kugirango umwana abeho, ariko amaherezo bizagutera kumera nkumusore mubi; bazahora mubice byumuryango wumwana (yaba abigizemo uruhare kandi basezeranye cyangwa batabigizemo uruhare) nibice byinkuru zabo. Kugabanya ababyeyi babyaranye birashobora kubonwa nko kugabanya umwana kandi ntakintu cyiza kizavamo… cyane cyane mumibanire yawe numwana cyangwa ababyeyi bavutse. Ku byerekeye umuhungu wacu, twavuze gusa ko barwaye kandi ko badashobora kumwitaho. Ibyo aribyo byose umwana akeneye kumenya. Ntabwo kugeza bakuze bashobora gukenera / gushaka kumenya amakuru yihariye kubabyeyi babo nko gutinda kumenya, kubatwa, cyangwa ikindi kintu icyo aricyo cyose.
Kandi biragaragara, urashobora guhitamo guhagarika inkuru aho ushaka. Twahisemo kubifata kugeza umunsi yarezwe… umunsi ku rukiko no mu birori nimugoroba. Kubera ko ari kumwe natwe ubuziraherezo, dushobora kuzuza ibibazo byose yakurikiraho ashobora kuba afite, haba nko muri kiriya gihe cyanditswe mu gitabo, cyangwa kuva icyo gihe nandika igitabo.
Twizere ko ibi bigufasha gutekereza muburyo ushobora gufata zimwe mu nkuru zumwana wawe urera ukazibika ubuzima bwawe bwose.
Mubyukuri,
Kris