Amakuru & Isomero

… Urukiko rero ni kimwe mubintu byibuze kuri twe, ntabwo byavuzwe cyane mbere cyangwa mugihe twatangaga uruhushya. Nibyo rwose… Nshobora kuba numvise umubyeyi urera avuga ati: "Uyu munsi bari bafite urukiko." Ariko kubwimpamvu iyo ari yo yose ntabwo rwose ninjiye kugirango menye ...

Nabikozeho gato gato ariko ndashaka gushimangira iyi ngingo: ugomba guhinduka mugihe uri umubyeyi urera. Ibi buri gihe nukuri kumwanya wambere, ariko ibi bikeneye guhinduka BIZASHOBOKA, birashoboka cyane, kuyobora inzira zose zurubanza ....

Mwebwe basore… Nabonye ko nkeneye guhagarara hagati yuruhererekane rwerekeye "Icyo Nifuza ko Nzi" kugirango dusangire bike kubibera mubuzima bwacu kandi nshishikarize abo muri mwe bashobora kuba bahanganye nigitekerezo cya kureka umwana uva ahantu hakomeye akitabira a ...

Ngiye kugukubita amagambo yavuzwe n'umubyeyi urera kurera ku irembo iki gihe: “Kwemera ubufasha ntibisobanura ko udashobora gukora ibi.” Mwa basore… Ibi nabivuze mbere kandi nzongera kubivuga. Ntushobora kuba umubyeyi urera muri silo. Nibyiza kuba mwiza… wowe ...

Ntabwo rwose bizadutangaza ko iyo ubaye umubyeyi urera, igihe cyawe kirangira ugabanijwe ndetse kuruta mbere hose. Kandi rero, ugomba kwitonda mukurinda igihe cyawe nigihe cyumuryango wawe; gufasha hamwe nibyo, uzakenera gushiraho (cyangwa wige gushiraho) ...

Kubice 3 bya "Icyo Nifuza ko Nabimenya" ni ijambo rimwe ryababyeyi barera: Ntugategereze byinshi mubice byuburinganire bwababyeyi ba DCS, imyitwarire yababyeyi babyaranye, sura abagenzuzi / itumanaho ryabatwara ... burigihe! Kugumya gutegereza bike muri utwo turere ...

Buri muntu wese wabaye umubyeyi urera abifitemo uruhushya aba yiteze kubintu runaka. Birashobora kuba ibyiringiro byo gushyirwaho byemewe, cyangwa gutegereza kurera ingimbi, cyangwa gufata amatsinda y'abavandimwe, cyangwa kuba "ababyeyi barera bisanzwe" (bivuze ko ufite ...

Nifuzaga gufata ibyumweru bike biri imbere ngakora urukurikirane ruto rw'inyandiko zitwa "Kuva mu myobo: Icyo nifuza ko namenya". Kugira ngo mbone amakuru yanjye, nakoze ubushakashatsi kuri pisine y'ababyeyi barera ndababaza ibintu bifuza ko bamenya mbere yo kurera ....

Mu rwego rwo kwizihiza ukwezi kwahariwe kwita ku barera n’umwaka igihe ibiruhuko bishobora kubaho, natekereje gusubiramo “Ibiruhuko hamwe n’umwana wawe wareze” byari bikwiye. Ikintu kimwe nshaka gusobanura mbere yuko ntangiza: mugihe ufite kiddo kuva kurera, bazagira ...

Umunsi wababyeyi. Bimpa buri mwaka… kuva umuhungu wacu yaje kubana natwe. Icyampa nkavuga ko byoroshye; ariko, mubyukuri ibinyuranye nibyo. Ndatekereza kuri mama we wamubyaye cyane kumunsi wumubyeyi kuruta ikindi gihe cyose. Ndagerageza kwishyira mu mwanya we ntekereza icyo ...