Uyu munsi ndashaka kuguha uburyo buke bwo kunoza umubano no kwizirika mumuryango wawe. Hano hari byinshi muribi kandi ibi ni ukuminjagira. Kandi… kuvugisha ukuri rwose… ibi nibyiza gukoresha hamwe nabantu bose, ntabwo ari abana bava ahantu hakomeye, bityo rero wumve neza gukoresha ahantu hose kandi kenshi bikenewe. Abana bose bakeneye guhuza, kandi ibikorwa byo gushimangira umugereka ntibizigera bitakaza igihe.
Ahantu hanyereraKunyerera ahahanamye ubusanzwe bikorwa hamwe nabana bato. Muri iki gikorwa, ushyira amavuta yo kwisiga kumwana hanyuma ukigira nkaho ukuguru kwabo, ukuboko, ibirenge ari kunyerera.
Guhiga Guhiga scavenger hamwe nabana burigihe birashimishije cyane. Hariho byinshi ushobora gusanga kumurongo (kandi murubu buryo ushobora guhindura ubushakashatsi bwawe kumutwe runaka cyangwa insanganyamatsiko cyangwa imyaka-urwego). Tutitaye kubyo birimo, guhiga scavenger biha buriwese mumuryango amahirwe yo gushakisha ibintu hamwe no gukorera kumugambi umwe. Nkurugero rwumuryango wanjye ukora buri mwaka nyuma ya Thanksgiving ni Itara rya Noheri Scavenger Hunt, aho tugenda hirya no hino tugashakisha urutonde rurerure rwubwoko butandukanye bwamatara ya Noheri. Mubyukuri twakoze urutonde rwibintu byo gushakisha, nikindi gikorwa umuryango ushobora gukorera hamwe mbere yigihe.
Igishushanyo gisangiwe / Igishushanyo / AmabaraIki gikorwa giterwa numwana, kuko abana bamwe bararakara bakumva nkaho abandi mumuryango bangiza umushinga wabo. Ingingo ni: mbere yo gutangira iki gikorwa, ganira numwana hanyuma umenye niba bizakorana nimiterere ye. Urashobora kuba usanzwe uzi ko iyi iri kumeza murugo rwawe, cyangwa ntushobora kubyemeza neza kugeza ubigerageje. Ariko inama gusa: niba "ijya mu majyepfo" nukuvuga, witegure kubireka kandi ugire undi mushinga utegereje amababa niba bishoboka.
Ariko niba UKORA utekereza ko umushinga wubuhanzi usangiwe wakora, dore ubwoko bwigitekerezo rusange: umushinga uwo ariwo wose (gushushanya, gushushanya cyangwa gushushanya), shiraho ingengabihe kuminota 1, amasegonda 30, cyangwa ikindi kintu cyose cyitaweho kuri itsinda ry'imyaka. Saba buri muntu gutangira ifoto. Igihe kirangiye, shyira amashusho ibumoso; aha, uwo muntu agira uruhare kuri iyo shusho imbere yabo, kugeza igihe cyashize. Komeza amashusho yimuke kugeza buriwese yashushanyije / ashushanyije, nibindi kuri buri shusho kandi ba nyirubwite basubize amashusho yabo.
Ibibazo bitanu byihuse Iki nigikorwa gishimishije gukora mugihe cyo kurya cyangwa mumodoka, cyangwa gukata kopi yibibazo ugashyira mukibindi kugirango ukine nkumukino. Hano hari bike kugirango utangire, ariko urashobora guhora wihimbira nawe:
Ibibazo byo kubaza abana ibyabo:
- Niki wishimiye muri iki gihe?
- Niki watekereje bwa mbere mugihe wabyutse uyumunsi?
- Niki ushaka kugeraho mugihe cyamavuko utaha?
- Niba ushobora kuba icyamamare kubintu bimwe, byaba ari ibihe?
- Niki kintu cyiza mubuzima bwawe?
Ibibazo byo kubaza abana kubyerekeye umuryango wabo n'inshuti:
- Ni ikihe kintu ukunda gukora nk'umuryango?
- Ni ikihe kintu cyiza umuntu yakubwiye vuba aha?
- Ninde ugusobanukirwa neza?
- Ninde wagusetse uyu munsi?
- Ni ikihe kintu ukunda gukora n'inshuti zawe?
Ibibazo byo kubaza abana ibyisi:
- Imyaka 20 uhereye none, utekereza ko uzatura he?
- Ni ikihe kibazo gikomeye ku isi yacu?
- Niba ushobora guha abantu bose kwisi inama imwe, wavuga iki?
- Niba ushobora gushyiraho itegeko rimwe abantu bose kwisi bagomba gukurikiza, niki?
- Niba ushobora kwiga ururimi urwo arirwo rwose, wakwiga iki?
Ikibindi cya “Yego” Iki gikorwa gisaba imirimo yo kwitegura kuruhande rwababyeyi, ariko inyungu zirashobora rwose kurenza akazi. Gutangira, dore ibyo ukeneye (wumve neza kureka ikintu icyo aricyo cyose kurutonde udashaka ko umwana wawe agira igihe cyose abajije):
- Ikibindi kinini gifungura umunwa cyangwa ikintu
- Fidgets ntoya nudupira twinshi
- Inkoni
- Kwishushanya by'agateganyo
- Udukoryo twiza nkutubari twa granola, imbuto, uruhu rwimbuto, cyangwa inyama zinka
- Ibyokurya bishimishije nka kuki, ibinono, cyangwa amase
- Coupons yo guhuza ibikorwa nko gukina umukino na mama / papa, umugongo winyuma, nibindi.
- Popsicle ifata amazina yibintu bya frigo nkibiti bya foromaje, imbuto, cyangwa veggie
- Ibindi byose witeguye kuvuga yego KUBUNTU umwana wawe akubajije
Umaze kuzuza ikibindi cyawe, bwira umwana wawe ibyerekeye kandi witegure kuvuga yego igihe cyose akubajije. Ingingo y'iki gikorwa nuko nukwumva "yego" nyinshi, abana bava ahantu hakomeye baziga kwizera abantu bakuru bari kumwe; Nzi ko bisa nkaho bisubiye inyuma, ariko mubyukuri nukuvuga yego kenshi, dufasha umwana kwakira ibyacu bitakoroha.
Yego Jar ikora, rimwe na rimwe, ikenera kugira ibipimo. Kurugero, ikibindi gishobora kuzuzwa buri mugoroba mugihe umwana aryamye kandi bimaze kuba ubusa bukeye, noneho biba ubusa kumunsi wose. Cyangwa birashoboka ko adashobora gusaba ikintu nyuma yo kurya, cyangwa mbere yo kurya cyangwa ikindi kintu cyose wahisemo gushiraho nkamategeko yawe …… ariko gerageza udashyiraho imipaka myinshi kuko noneho iba iyindi ntambara murugo rwawe. Amategeko ni meza, mugihe cyose uvuze yego, ikindi gihe cyose umwana abajije.
FYI witegure mugitangira gukoresha amafaranga make kuriyi ubanza kuko umwana azasaba ikintu mubibindi OFTEN. Arashaka kureba niba koko uzavuga yego, BURUNDU, ariko mugihe atangiye kwizera ko uzavuga rwose "yego", uzabona kubaza bitinze.
Gukina Ibi bisa nkibyoroshye ariko gukina nabana bawe gusa. Ndetse iminota 5 kumunsi irashobora gukora kugirango wubake umubano mwiza numwana. Gukina umukino, cyangwa gukina gusa icyo ashaka gukina. Gukina kuyobora abana nabyo birakomeye; itanga ubushishozi bwukuntu umwana atekereza, akubaka ikizere kandi agafasha kwerekana imbaraga zisangiwe yemerera umwana "kuyobora ubwato".
Nkuko nabivuze… uru ntabwo arurutonde rwuzuye cyangwa rwuzuye muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose… gusa urutonde kugirango utekereze kuburyo uhuza umwana wawe nuburyo ushobora gukoresha ibyo bihe hamwe kugirango uzane gukira no kwizirika. Kandi ndashaka gutanga "Urakoze!" Kuri Jamila Nwokorie kuri Biro y'abana kumpanuro zose n'ubushishozi bwo gushyira hamwe iyi nyandiko.
Mubyukuri,
Kris