Amakuru & Isomero
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INAMA Z'ABAKOBWA BAKORANA HAMWE MU RUGO
Abashakanye kwisi yose barimo kwisanga mubihe batigeze batekereza ko bazaba barimo, ibyiza cyangwa bibi. Kwishyira mu kato hamwe na mugenzi wawe, ibyumweru cyangwa amezi, ni ikintu gishya cyongewe kumubano "gukora cyangwa kumena" muri iki gihe. Nigute abashakanye bakomeza umubano wabo?
NI IHANWA, CYANGWA KUGANIRA?
Iyo numvise ijambo igihano ntekereza nkiri umukobwa muto kandi ngomba gusukura icyumba cyanjye kumunsi wizuba; Numvaga ababyeyi banjye banyanga kuko batanyemereye gukina ninshuti zanjye. Ndibuka kandi impaka nagiranye n'ababyeyi banjye kubyerekeye amasaha yo gutaha mu mashuri yisumbuye. Numvaga ari akarengane mugihe inshuti zanjye zitagomba kuba murugo nkanjye. Iyo ntekereje ku bwana bwanjye, ntabwo ntekereza ku nkoni nakiriye kuko zari kure kandi nkeya, cyangwa koza umunwa n'isabune kubera ko nise Data izina ribi. Birashoboka ko byatewe nuko numvaga nkwiye ibihano byinshi mugihe numvise ibyo nkora atari byo, aho gukubita vuba gusa nta bisobanuro.
IBINTU 3 BYO GUKORA IYO GUSHYIGIKIRA UMUNTU MU GUKURIKIRA
Nkuko rimwe na rimwe dushobora kubishaka, ntidushobora gufasha uwo dukunda. None ukora iki mugihe umuntu witayeho cyangwa ukunda arwana nibiyobyabwenge? Nigute ushobora kubafasha gutsinda mugukiza kwabo kandi nigute ushobora kwiyitaho icyarimwe?
Ni ngombwa kumva ko ibiyobyabwenge ari indwara yo mu bwonko itavangura. Irashobora kugira ingaruka kuri buriwese, kandi kwiga uburyo bwo gushyigikira umuntu mugukiza kwe birashoboka ko atari urugendo umuntu wese ategereje gukora.
Inguni ya Kris - Hura Kris
Ku ya 23 Mata 2020 Kuba umubyeyi urera ntabwo ari icyemezo cyo kwinjizwa mu buryo bworoshye. Kurera kurera ntabwo buri gihe ari inzira yoroshye, ariko ibyo byavuzwe, ntabwo ari umunezero mwinshi… umunezero kubona abana bakira (haba kumubiri no mumarangamutima); umunezero kubona ababyeyi babyaranye ...
UBUHANGA BWO KURWANYA INYUMA
Muri iki gihe turimo guhura n'ikibazo kandi kidashidikanywaho. Kugirango dusohoke muri izo mbaraga zikomeye, dukeneye kumenya uburyo bwo guhangana namaganya yacu hamwe nibibazo byacu neza. Muri iki gihe, kurwanya amaganya yacu ni ngombwa kimwe no gutandukanya imibereho. Niba tudafite ubushobozi bwibitekerezo byacu, bigira ingaruka kumubiri kandi amaherezo birashobora kuturwara kumubiri. Guhangayika bifitanye isano itaziguye no guhangayika, kandi nk'uko Ishyirahamwe ry’amaganya no kwiheba muri Amerika (ADAA) ribivuga, “guhangayika karande bishobora kugira ingaruka ku buzima bwawe, bigatera ibimenyetso bituruka ku kubabara umutwe, umuvuduko ukabije w'amaraso, no kubabara mu gatuza bikagira umutima, kurwara uruhu, no gutakaza. gusinzira. ” Guhura nibi bihe bitesha umutwe birashobora gutuma urwara cyane kandi turi hano kugirango tugufashe kukubuza kuba indi mibare ya coronavirus. Hasi, urahasanga bimwe mubyo nkunda kugabanya kugabanya guhangayikishwa no kuguma kugenzura umubiri n'ubwenge.
KURWANYA INGENDO ZINYURANYE
Birasabwa ko abakorana nabantu bahuye nihungabana akenshi bahura nihungabana ritandukanye ubwabo. Ihahamuka rya Vicarious (VT) nigisigara cyamarangamutima yo gukorana nabantu basangiye inkuru z’ihungabana. Abafasha, cyangwa abumva, bahinduka abahamya b'ububabare, ubwoba, n'iterabwoba abarokotse ihahamuka bihanganiye. Ihahamuka nigisubizo cyibintu bibabaje cyane cyangwa bitesha umutwe birenze ubushobozi bwumuntu ku giti cye, bigatera ibyiyumvo byo kutagira gitabara, bikagabanya imyumvire yabo ndetse nubushobozi bwabo bwo kumva amarangamutima nubunararibonye byuzuye.
Wabwirwa n'iki ko ufite ihungabana rinyuranye? Ese inkuru wunvise zakoze igihe kirekire kuruta ingaruka ziteganijwe kumarangamutima yawe ya buri munsi?
IYO UMWANA AKUBWIRA BAKORESHEJWE…
Ihohoterwa rikorerwa abana rishobora kubaho muburyo bwinshi. Birashobora kuba kumubiri, guhuza ibitsina, amarangamutima no kutitaweho. Harimo kandi kuba mu rugo aho usanga ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo kuko ingaruka zo kubona ihohoterwa rikorerwa umurezi wibanze w’umwana ryangiza cyane. Ihohoterwa rikorerwa abana benshi rikorwa nabagize umuryango ninshuti zumuryango, ntabwo ari abanyamahanga.
Twaba tubizi cyangwa tutabizi, benshi muritwe tuzi umuntu mubuzima bwacu wagize ingaruka ku ihohoterwa rikorerwa abana. Ihohoterwa rikorerwa abana ribaho mu miryango no ku bana mu bwoko bwose, ubwoko, idini, ubwoko, imibereho myiza y'abaturage, ndetse n'urwego rw'uburezi. Muri kamere yayo, ihohoterwa rikorerwa abana riraceceka kandi ryihishe. Ibimenyetso birashobora kubura, kwirengagizwa cyangwa kugabanywa. Abakoze icyaha ni beza cyane mu kwemeza abantu ko ari abantu beza, bita ku bantu. Ariko, hariho amabendera atukura twese dushobora kumenya kandi tukitondera imikoranire yacu nabana nimiryango.
UKO NDAFATANYIJE GUTANDUKANYA SOSIYETE, GUKORA URUGO, KANDI KUBA MAMA.
Iyo abanyamahanga bumvise ko ndi umuvuzi nkunze kubona amagambo yubwenge nka "Noneho uri umuhanga mubibazo byabantu", cyangwa "Ukorana nabasazi." Igisubizo cyanjye burigihe "Oya, ntabwo ndi umuhanga kubantu. Niwowe muhanga wenyine. Gusa mfasha kuyobora abantu kubona ubumenyi bwabo. ” Cyangwa ku cya kabiri, “Twese dufite abasazi muri twe ariko rimwe na rimwe imihangayiko irazana byinshi mu bihe bimwe na bimwe by'ubuzima bwacu.” Iki cyorezo nikimwe mubihe umuntu wese ashobora kumva "umusazi". Icyo itubwira rwose nuko hari ikintu kibuze dukeneye kubona kugirango kidufashe gusubira mu kuyobora ubuzima bwacu bityo rero ubwacu.
IBINTU 5 BYO KUBWIRA UMUNTU UFATANYIJE NA COVID-19.
Mu gihe Covid-19 ikora inzira yayo ku isi, benshi muri twe turagerageza gutuza binyuze mu itangazo rigenewe abanyamakuru, aderesi za perezida, ndetse no ku mbuga nkoranyambaga. Twanze guhagarika umutima no kugura impapuro zo mu musarani ku maduka. Turimo kwitandukanya no gukaraba intoki - ariko abandi mubuzima bwacu ntibashobora kuba beza nkubu. Iyo ushyigikiye uwo ukunda urwana no guhangayika cyangwa guhagarika umutima, birashobora kugorana kumenya gufasha.
Iyo abantu bafite ubwoba, ubwonko bwabo bujya muburyo bwo "kurwana, guhunga, cyangwa gukonja" aho kubaho ari intego yonyine. Ibi bituma bigora gutekereza hamwe nabo, kubatuza, cyangwa kubarangaza ubwoba bwabo. Kugira ikiganiro gitanga umusaruro numuntu muriyi leta ntabwo mubyukuri bifatika, gerageza rero utange inkunga yibanze aho kuba impamvu. Gusa ube hafi yabo kugeza umutima wabo ugabanutse kandi ubwoba burashize.
IBIKORWA BY'UMURYANGO 50 BITAGIRA URUHARE
Imihangayiko iterwa n'indwara ya virusi iherutse irashobora kuba nyinshi, kugerageza gutegura umunsi (cyangwa ibyumweru) hamwe nabana murugo bishobora nanone kwiyongera kuri iyo mihangayiko. Amakuru meza ntabwo uri wenyine, kandi ibyiyumvo bibi muriki gihe nibisubizo bisanzwe. Ni ngombwa ko dufata umwanya wo guhuza nkumuryango kugirango tugabanye imihangayiko kandi twongere inkunga buri munyamuryango yumva muri ibi bihe bitoroshye. Kugira urutonde rwibikorwa bizaguha imbaraga zo kugerageza ikintu gishya kitarimo ecran.