Nshobora kuba nsohotse ku gihimba (ok, ntabwo mubyukuri) hanyuma nkeka ko benshi muri twe bashobora kwemeranya ko Halloween ishingiye ku rukundo rwo gutinya… byibuze kurwego runaka. Noneho ngomba kwiyemerera ko njye ubwanjye NANGA ubwoba. Ndabyanga. Nanga gusimbuka ubwoba, nanga ibintu bigaragara, biteye ubwoba ushobora kubona. Nanze ALL.OF.IT.
Mubitekerezo byanjye rero, byibura, ibi bisa nkibisubizo byibiza iyo ubivanze numwana urera. Umwana urerwa birashoboka / birashoboka ko yamaze guhura nibintu biteye ubwoba, biteye ubwoba, biteye ubwoba birashoboka cyane ko byabasize ubwoba. Niba bemera ubwoba cyangwa batabyemera, imibiri yabo, byibuze, ibuka ibintu bibabaje cyangwa ibyabaye.
Ibyo byavuzwe, reka dusubire inyuma gato hanyuma dutekereze uko bigenda iyo ufite ubwoba. Umutima wawe uriruka, guhumeka kwawe kuba mubi, birashoboka ko ubira icyuya. Urashobora kumva ufite ubwoba bwinshi cyangwa ubwoba.
Kandi urashobora kujya mubisubizo byubwoba: kurwana, kurwana, cyangwa guhagarika; niba ubana numwana cyangwa abana baturutse ahantu hakomeye, iki gisubizo birashoboka ko kitazagutungura.
Nkumubyeyi rero wagize abana bafite ihahamuka, ubana murugo (kandi aracyabana numwe murugo) ndabona iki gisubizo cyubwoba. Kandi ntabwo ari hafi ya Halloween.
Kandi sibyo kuko bareba firime kugirango bishimishe kugiti cyabo, cyangwa banyuze munzu ihiga. Ni ukubera ko umubiri wabo watewe n'ikintu runaka! Kandi nk'umubyeyi urera, ntushobora no kumenya icyo aricyo. Umwana ntashobora no kukubwira, cyane cyane niba ari kwibuka, byinjiye mubwonko.
Ngiyo igitekerezo cyanjye muribi byose: ni bangahe kuvanga Halloween hamwe nabana barera? Kuri njye, bisa nkaho nta-bitekerezo, byibuze bivuye kumarangamutima. Kandi nanone niba utarigeze ubona umwanya wo kumenya neza umwana (nko mumwanya mushya) kandi ukaba udafite ibimenyetso byibyabaye na / cyangwa bigenda mubitekerezo byabo, umubiri numutima.
Ikindi kintu ku giti cyanjye ngomba gutekereza ni ubwinshi bwa bombo yakiriwe, kandi akenshi ikoreshwa, n'umwana nijoro rya Halloween.
Niba kandi ugiye mumitiba myinshi cyangwa ukavura ibikorwa muminsi ibanziriza, wongeyeho "Ibisarurwa" (niryo zina rikunze gukoreshwa muri Halloween Party kumashuri muriyi minsi), ingano ya bombo / isukari irarangiye rwose hejuru.
Ndashaka kuvuga ko wabaye mwishuri ryibanze bukeye bwa Halloween? Ni ubugome.
Noneho, ibi ntibishobora kuba ukuri kuri buri mwana, ariko bukeye bwaho Halloween akenshi biragoye kubwimpamvu zibiri: abana barabyutse bitarenze ibisanzwe mwijoro ryakeye, banyoye isukari nyinshi kurenza uwariwe wese, kandi barikubita hasi. hanze y'inzu. Ku mwana ufite insinga zo munda zishobora kuba zimaze kumva isukari, nkuko umuhungu wanjye abikora, bombo ya Halloween ntacyo imumarira. Inyungu Zeru. Ndashaka kuvuga, kutaba ku isabune ariko mubyukuri ntabwo ari byiza kuri buri wese muri twe… ariko ndabyanze.
Ingingo yo kuba: bisaba ko ngomba kuba umusore mubi, cyane cyane mugihe abandi bana bo mu kigero cye bashoboye kurya inzira kumurusha. Nzi ko ari inyungu ze bwite, ariko afite imyaka, na stage, no gukura… ntabwo arabibona neza. Kandi mvugishije ukuri, ntabyitayeho. Arashaka bombo… kandi birashimishije cyane abapolisi, reka mvuge.
Byumvikane neza, intego yanjye muriyi nyandiko ntabwo ari ukuvuga ko ababyeyi barera batagomba gukora Halloween. Igitekerezo cyanjye nuko wenda twakagombye kugerageza kugumya kuruhande rworoshye, niba byose bishoboka? Ahari kureba firime "iteye ubwoba" yoroheje nka Charlie Brown Halloween-ishuri rya kera, cyangwa ikindi kintu nkicyo. Ntakintu kizaba cyijimye cyane cyangwa gikurura. Ntakintu nakimwe cyo kubona intoki ibyuya cyangwa umutima utera.
Na none, birashoboka ko ari uburiganya-cyangwa-kuvura kumazu make hanyuma ukemerera umwana kujya mububiko agahitamo ibiryo bidasanzwe, ni kubwabo… kandi nibyiza ko munsi yisukari kuruta ibishishwa bya bombo. Kora ubwoko bumwe bwa Halloween cyangwa ubukorikori-bushingiye. Kandi byanze bikunze, reka bareke bambare… nibambare iyo myambarire, kuko ibiciro imyambarire imwe irasaze!
Hariho inzira nyinshi ushobora gukomeza kwinezeza no kwishimira ibiruhuko, kandi ntabwo buri gihe bigomba kuba byerekanwa cyane mugutera ubwoba.
Nizere ko ibiryo byanjye bike kubitekerezo bigufasha kuyobora ibiruhuko bishobora kurangira nkumunsi ukomeye.
Mubyukuri,
Kris