Inguni ya Kris: Kwita ku baturage

Ku ya 25 Gashyantare 2021

Rero, ingingo ikurikira ndashaka gukemura munsi yinkunga yo kurera ni ikintu bita umuryango wita kubana. Amatsinda nkaya ashobora kubaho ahandi munsi yizina ritandukanye, ariko ndabazi neza nkimiryango yita kubantu kandi dore ibyo aribyo.

Imiryango yita kubantu ikorerwa mumatorero atandukanye muri leta (no mubindi bihugu). Buri muryango ufite abantu 4 kugeza kuri 6 (cyangwa abashakanye) bitanga kugirango batange infashanyo yumuryango urera.

Abaturage batanga ifunguro rimwe mu cyumweru, bafasha mu kurera abana ndetse rimwe na rimwe bakaruhuka igihe gito. Hariho kandi uruhare rw'abajyanama b'abana; ahanini igenewe gufasha umwana ufite umukoro. Aya matsinda atanga ubufasha bwo kurera abana nabandi bana murugo. Ingingo yumuryango witaho ni ugutunga umuryango wose.

Kurinda abana, buri munyamuryango wumuryango wita kubuzima afite igenzura ryakozwe na DCS. Igenzura ryimbere rimaze gukosorwa, abaturage biteguye kuzunguruka.

Umuganda uyobora serivisi zabo hamwe nifunguro, hamwe, murugo rwumuryango. Umuganda utanga byose, kugeza kumifuka yimyanda, amasahani yimpapuro nibikoresho. Bita kuri buri kintu cyose, harimo gusukura no gukuramo imyanda, kugirango umuryango urera wumve ko abaturage bivuze kubatera inkunga neza.

Bafite igihe cyagenwe (kuko bazi ko igihe ari ingirakamaro kumiryango irera) kugirango basangire ifunguro numuryango urera kandi bamenye bike kuri bo. Ubu buryo ni bubiri… butuma abanyamuryango bumva icyo umuryango ukeneye, ariko kandi bituma umuryango (cyane cyane abana barera) uhura nabantu bazajya basura urugo rwabo buri cyumweru, kabone niyo byaba ari ifunguro ryihuse.

Guhuza abaturage byateguwe neza kandi mubisanzwe bigenda neza. Hano hari urubuga rufite kwinjira rwihariye kuri buri muryango wita kuburyo amakuru yose abikwa wenyine. Urubuga ni kalendari cyane cyane abanyamuryango biyandikisha kugirango batange amafunguro, kimwe nubwitange kubindi bikenerwa umuryango urera ushobora kuba ufite.

Buri cyumweru, umuyobozi witsinda agenzura hamwe nababyeyi barera (nibyiza binyuze kuri terefone, ariko kenshi na kenshi birangira binyuze mumyandiko… byibuze ibyo byambayeho) kugirango barebe ibyo umuryango ukeneye. Noneho umuyobozi witsinda cyangwa umubyeyi urera barashobora kongera ibyo bakeneye byose kurubuga. Nigikoresho cyiza cyane kuko buriwese ashobora kubona ukora ibyo… ndetse nababyeyi barera bashobora kubona uwiyandikishije ninde uzana ifunguro cyangwa gutanga ubufasha mubundi buryo.

Ikigeretse kuri ibyo, itsinda riyoboye itsinda ryita kubaturage kugirango babamenyeshe ibibera mumuryango urera. Itsinda rirashobora gusenga, kohereza inyandiko zitera inkunga cyangwa gutera inkunga imbona nkubone iyo baretse ifunguro kandi / cyangwa gusura abana.

Umurongo w'urufatiro: icyo abaturage bitaho bashoboye gukora ni ugukuraho imihangayiko imwe mumiryango irera, mubafasha kumva ko atari bonyine mururu rugendo kandi hari abantu bafite ubushake bwo gusimbuka no kubafasha mugihe gito. Kuba abanyamuryango bashinzwe kwita kubaturage bishingiye kubegereye bivuze ko urugo rwumuntu rwaba rurenze iminota 15 uvuye murugo rwumuryango.

Kwita ku baturage basabwe kwiyemeza umwaka umwe, cyangwa igihe cyo gushyira, icyaricyo cyose kigufi. Iyo ikibanza cyongeye guhuzwa, kwemerwa cyangwa kwimurirwa mu rundi rugo, umuyobozi w’umuryango wita ku bana afata ibarura hamwe na buri munyamuryango wenyine kugira ngo arebe niba babishaka kandi bashoboye gukomeza gukora. Niba ataribyo, noneho abanyamuryango bashya bazanwa mububiko. Hatitawe ku bagize itsinda, barashobora gukomeza n'umuryango urera ubu (niba bagiye gufata ahandi hantu), cyangwa barashobora kwimukira mu rundi rugo rurera rukeneye inkunga (kandi mvugishije ukuri… urugo rurera ntabwo bakeneye inkunga?!?)

Kuba nararangije kwakira umuryango wita kubantu, sinshobora kuvuga bihagije kubyo uwo muryango wadukoreye. Inkunga y'amasengesho yari nini, ariko nanone kugira ifunguro ryatanzwe rimwe mu cyumweru byari agahengwe. Kumenya ko buri wa gatatu nimugoroba ntagomba guteka byari ibintu bitangaje. Umuryango utwitaho wari umugisha nkumuryango wacu.

Ubu, ntabwo dufite ubufasha bwabaturage ubu kuko turi urugo rwikiruhuko. Ariko, Ndi umuyobozi witsinda mumuryango wita kumyaka umaze imyaka irenga ibiri gusa. Makiya yabyo yarahindutse gato mugihe kuva umuryango urera wagize imyanya myinshi muricyo gihe.

Ningomba kubyemera, nkumunyamuryango, birashimishije kubigiramo uruhare. Abana bamenyana nabaturage babitaho. Ntabwo rero, umuryango urera wumva gusa ko bakorerwa, abana bazi ko hari abandi bashaka kubakunda no kubafasha kubitaho.

Gufunga, kandi mugihe utagurishijwe kumikorere yabaturage, ndashaka gusangira imibare. Ku rwego rwigihugu, 50% yimiryango irera yaretse, haba nyuma yumwaka wa mbere cyangwa nyuma yo kubashyirwa bwa mbere, cyane cyane ko batumvaga bashyigikiwe. Icyitegererezo cy’imiryango yita ku barwayi byagaragaye ko igumana 90% y’ijana ry’ababyeyi barera. . … Bisobanura ko imiryango 95 ikiri kurera aho kuba 50. gusa.)

Mubyukuri,

Kris