Rimwe na rimwe umuryango urahari kugirango utwereke inzira… ariko rimwe na rimwe usanga bagize ikibazo. Kuva akiri umwana, Nick yagerageje ibintu bitandukanye yabonaga abikesheje umuryango we. Ku biyobyabwenge no mu biyobyabwenge mu buzima bwe bwose, yatangiye gucuruza, kandi amaherezo ibirori byamuviriyemo ibiyobyabwenge. Nick n'umugore we basangiye iyi ngeso mugihe barera abakobwa babo 2 bafite imyaka 7 na 8. Nick abona noneho ko bombi batibagiwe ububabare no kurimbuka ibiyobyabwenge byabo byatezaga umuryango wabo.
Ibintu byangiza ubuzima byatumye umunsi Nick atazigera yibagirwa - umunsi ishami rishinzwe serivisi z’abana ryakuye abakobwa be mu rugo rwabo. Umucamanza yamwohereje mu Miryango Yambere Kubijyanye no Gusezerana kwa Padiri Gucunga no Gukoresha Ibiyobyabwenge Gukoresha Uburezi & Kuvura hanze hagamijwe kongera kurera abakobwa be.
Nick yatangiye kwivuriza mu Miryango Yambere, ariko ntibyari inzira yoroshye cyangwa yoroshye kuri we. Amasaha atatu kumunsi, iminsi itatu mucyumweru byari bikomeye. Kimwe n'abandi benshi, ntiyashakaga kuhaba. Kugira ubwenge byari bigoye nyuma yimyaka yose yo kunywa ibiyobyabwenge. Ntabwo yari azi uko byamera kumererwa neza cyangwa kugira ibyiringiro.
Iki cyari igihe kitoroshye kuri Nick. Yatakaje abakobwa be bombi (bombi barezwe na sebukwe), yari arimo atandukana n'umugore we, nyina yitaba Imana mu buryo butunguranye. Nick ntabwo yarangije gahunda yo kuvura ugasanga yongeye gukoresha ibiyobyabwenge kandi asubira mu igeragezwa. Hanze y'urutare, Nick yongeye koherezwa mu Miryango Yambere, ariko noneho yashishikarijwe guhindura ubuzima bwe maze asubira mu nzira.
Nick yarangije kwivuza. Tekereza ku byamubayeho mu Muryango Mbere, yumva ko ugomba kwihangana, kandi ugaha umwanya wo gukora. Ati: “Niba ushaka ko bikora, bizashoboka. [Kubantu] bashaka rwose guhindura ubuzima bwabo, aha ni ahantu heza ho kubikora. Abantu hano baritayeho kandi bagerageza kugufasha, ariko ugomba kubishyiramo. ”
Noneho Nick arashaka guha abandi ibyiringiro. Yahisemo gusubiza umuryango we yitangira igihe n'imbaraga mumatsinda ya Mentor mumiryango Yambere. Aya mahirwe amwemerera gufasha bagenzi be basanzwe bahabwa serivisi, mugutegura ibikorwa byimibereho "bishya bisanzwe," kuba intangarugero no gutanga ibyiringiro.
Ati: "Njya mu masomo yo mu Muryango Mbere aho abakiriya bariho ubu nkabaganiriza kubyambayeho kandi nizeye kuzabafasha. Nari mfite umuntu wo mu Muryango Banza umfashe kunyura mu bihe bikomeye kandi icyo ni ikintu nshaka gukurikirana - kugira ngo mpugure abandi bantu. ”
Uyu munsi Nick yiga gushyikirana neza. Arimo gukora kugirango yizere abandi kandi asabe ubufasha mugihe abikeneye. Ati: "Ndanezerewe cyane, niyoroshya kandi ubuzima buroroshye." Uyu munsi icyifuzo cya Nick cyo gukomeza gushishoza ni abakobwa be. Ahora asura nabo buri kwezi kandi arashaka gukomeza kugaburira no guteza imbere umubano wabo nabo.
Ati: “Nishimiye iyi gahunda. Rwose bizamfasha gutera imbere nkoresheje ubwenge bwanjye no mu buzima. ”
* Nick ni umwe mu bantu 394 barangije neza gahunda yo gukoresha imiti ikabije yo kuvura indwara muri 2019.