Kris 'Inguni - Bifata igihe kinini kugirango ubone uruhushya

Ku ya 3 Nzeri 2020

Iki ni ikintu kimwe abantu rimwe na rimwe “wah wah wah” kuri njye… ”Bifata igihe kirekire kugira ngo ubone uruhushya.”

Ariko mvugishije ukuri, nibyinshi bijyanye nuburyo umuntu ashishikarizwa kubona uruhushya rwo kumurera. Nibyo, hari ibintu byerekeranye nuburyo bwo gutanga uruhushya udafite igenzura… cyane cyane iyo porogaramu yawe igeze kuri DCS kugirango iyemeze. Ufite igenzura rya zeru icyo gihe kandi mubyukuri nta buryo nyabwo bwo kuvuga igihe bizatwara nyuma yo kugera kuri "mile marker".

Ariko ubanza reka dusubire inyuma dusibe urutonde rwibintu byose bigomba kubaho kugirango dushyire mu bikorwa:

* Amasaha 20 yo guhugura mbere yumurimo… aha niho uzatangirira kumva ibyo winjiye kandi mubisanzwe mugihe uzakira impapuro.

* Umubare mwiza (abantu bamwe bavuga ko ari "byinshi") byimpapuro; igisubizo cyanjye nukubwira abantu ko bagomba gutekereza gukora form 1-2 kumunsi kandi bisa nkaho bidatwara umwanya na gato. Niba ugerageza kwicara ukagerageza kubikora icyarimwe, birasa nkaho ari byinshi cyane, ariko ifishi 1 cyangwa 2 icyarimwe birangira bifata iminota 5-10 yumunsi wawe. Caveat imwe nagira ngo mvuge nuko hano uzakenera kandi kwa muganga kugirango wuzuze urupapuro; ibi birashobora gutera gutinda mugihe cyagenwe niba iyi itari imwe muburyo ubariza hakiri kare. Igitekerezo cyanjye ni iki: teganya gukemura ibi ubanza mugihe umuganga wawe yafashe igihe hamwe nifishi!

* Imfashanyo Yambere / CPR / Kwirinda Universal… ariko niba usanzwe ufite iki cyemezo noneho icyo ugomba gukora nukwerekana ibimenyetso; ntugomba kongera gufata.

* Gucapa urutoki… ibi birashobora kukubabaza b / c gusa ugomba kubiteganya, kugirango ibintu bishobora gutinda mugihe gito mugikorwa niba amatariki n'ibihe bihari bidahuye na gahunda yawe.

* Kwiga murugo… iyi ni byibuze gusura 3 murugo kugirango ugenzure kandi ubaze ninzobere mu gutanga uruhushya. Muri iki gikorwa, inzobere mu gutanga impushya zizagufasha gutegura urugo rwawe kugira ngo rwuzuze ibipimo by’umutekano. Wowe nabandi bose murugo barimo kubona uruhushya (uwo mwashakanye, umufasha, inshuti) urabazwa, haba hamwe kandi kugiti cye. Abandi baba murugo nabo bazabazwa. Hanyuma, buri gihe ndondora ibisubizo byibyo biganiro nka "biografiya" yanditse kuri wewe, bizaba birimo nibindi bisabwa byawe. Kandi ntugahangayike: uzagira amahirwe yo kubisubiramo no kubisinyira mbere yo gushyikiriza Leta.

* Ibintu byose bimaze kurangira, paki yose yoherejwe muri DCS kugirango babisuzume kandi * twizere ko byemewe. Icyitonderwa: mubunararibonye bwanjye (hamwe nabandi benshi nzi) nukugira ikigo, nkibiro byabana, ninzira nziza yo kwemeza ko inkongoro zawe zose ziri kumurongo mbere yo kohereza DCS kuburyo hagomba kubaho bike kubusa gusubiza inyuma kubindi bisobanuro bikenewe.

Noneho menye ko bisa nkaho hari ibintu byinshi byo gukora kandi bishobora gufata igihe, ariko nkuko ushobora kubivuga kurutonde ko ibyinshi bishobora gukorwa kumuvuduko wishimye… bityo umuvuduko ukaba ahanini kugenzurwa nawe.

Ibyiringiro bigufasha kugutera inkunga yo gukurikirana uruhushya rwawe… ariko ndakuburira ko inzira yo gusaba ishobora kuba igice cyonyine cyo kurera uzagenzura…

 

Mubyukuri, Kris