Ngiye kugukubita amagambo yavuzwe n'umubyeyi urera kurera ku irembo iki gihe: “Kwemera ubufasha ntibisobanura ko udashobora gukora ibi.”
Mwa basore… Ibi nabivuze mbere kandi nzongera kubivuga. Ntushobora kuba umubyeyi urera muri silo.
Nibyiza kuba mwiza… urashobora. Ariko bizaba bigoye cyane, kandi amahirwe yo kubikora neza aragabanuka. Nigute ushobora kubona ubufasha bwawe?
Navuze ku baturage bitaho kera kandi ubu ni inzira nini imiryango irera ishobora kubona ubufasha. Mugihe wasibye iyo nyandiko, iyi ni infashanyo yuzuye kubantu 4 kugeza kuri 6 (cyangwa barenga niba umuryango urera ufite abana benshi) kandi urashobora kuba isoko ikomeye, ihamye yinkunga yumuryango urera.
Ariko ntabwo abantu bose bafite amahirwe yo kubona Umuryango. Mubyukuri, ababyeyi benshi barera ntibakora… none bakora iki?
Ndashishikariza ababyeyi barera gushiraho uburyo bwo gushyigikira ahanini bugizwe nabandi babyeyi barera. Noneho, ibyo byavuzwe, byanze bikunze bikubiyemo no kubabyeyi batarera, kuko ninde wundi uzashakisha mubakurura buhoro buhoro mwisi yawe?!? Ariko mubyukuri byose, inkunga yawe igomba kuba igizwe byombi.
Noneho wasanga he abo babyeyi barera? Nabonye ibyanjye binyuze mu itorero no mu itsinda ryita ku babyeyi barera kandi barera. Ntugomba kumenya byinshi hanyuma noneho ni nkumwuzure ufunguye… hariho BENSHI muri twe kuburyo akenshi bigoye kwizera ko utigeze ubabona.
T.hrough iyi sano, shaka abantu bawe… abo ukandaho, "baririmba indirimbo imwe", abo mubyeyi nkawe (cyangwa uko WIFUZA ko wabikoze). Noneho genda gusa hamwe nabo… kandi birashoboka ko bazasubiza.
Imiryango itarera igiye kuba inshuti numuryango usanzwe mubuzima bwawe bashaka kugendana no kugutera inkunga muriki gice gishya.
None se kuki, mubyukuri, dukeneye aba bantu ninkunga yabo mubuzima bwacu?
Icyambere, ugiye kugira gahunda… gahunda nyinshi, so.manyinshi. Gushyirwaho kwa muganga no kuvura gahunda no kuburanisha urukiko no gusurwa nibintu byose. Byongeye kandi ubuzima muri rusange.
Y.ou bagiye gukenera ubufasha kubona umwana hano, hano nahantu hose… cyane cyane niba hari abana barenze umwe. Wigenga niba ukora amasaha yose, igice-cyigihe, cyangwa ujya mwishuri, cyangwa guhuza ibyo bintu byose, uzakenera ubufasha.
Noneho, no umuntu yumva ibyo uhura nabyo nkabandi mubwato bumwe, bityo bifasha rwose kubigira mumfuruka yawe. Ariko, inshuti n'umuryango (bashobora kutaba mubwato bumwe) rwose bifuza gufasha. Bashobora kutumva buri gihe ibibera mwisi yawe, ariko amahirwe barashaka gufasha. Noneho, ndagutera inkunga yo gukoresha inyungu zabo. Rimwe na rimwe, niba uhabwa ifunguro, cyangwa gufata ibiribwa cyangwa ikindi kintu kiri mu iduka… vuga yego kuri ibyo; burigihe yego!
Nzi icyo utekereza: rimwe na rimwe wumva biteye isoni, cyangwa bisa nkaho udashobora kubyitwaramo. Ariko mvugishije ukuri, birashoboka ko udashobora… byibuze ntabwo kuri uriya munsi. Cyangwa icyumweru. Kandi ibyo ni byiza.
Kwemera ubufasha ntibisobanura ko udashobora kubikora. Urashobora rwose, ariko birashoboka ko ushobora kubikora neza hamwe nubufasha buke kuruhande.
Mubyukuri ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose ukora gishobora gukorwa byoroshye ubufasha… kuki kurera abana byaba bitandukanye?
Mubyukuri,
Kris