“Noneho numvise ko Kurera ari bwo buryo buhendutse bwo kurera… ibyo ni ukuri no ku mwana?”
Um… .ubuhanga yego ndakeka ko aribyo, kubera ko ikiguzi cyo kurera binyuze mu kurera kiri munsi yubundi buryo bwo kurera. Ariko, nta bana benshi bafite uburenganzira bwo kurerwa binyuze muri gahunda yo kurera, icyo rero nikibazo.
Noneho nzi neza ko utekereza, “Ariko Kris… tuvuge iki kuri aba bana bose bavutse barabaswe? Nzi ko mubisanzwe bakurwaho, akenshi bakivuka! Bite ho kuri bo? ”
Igisubizo cyanjye niki: kurera ntabwo arikintu kimwe no kurerwa. Reba inyandiko ya blog hano.
Nkuko twese tubizi, HARI abana baza kwitabwaho. Akenshi, bavuka barabaswe nibintu bitemewe. Ikindi gishoboka, nubwo gisa nkibidasanzwe, ni kiddo ikeneye ubuvuzi bukomeye. Niba hari icyo uzi ku nkuru yacu, uzi ko umuhungu wacu yari anomaly gato afite amezi atatu kumukuraho. Hatariho barumuna bawe, byashobokaga ko nawe, yaguruka munsi ya radar. Ariko, ubuzima bwe bwasobanuraga ko hari abaganga benshi nabandi bamureba.
Noneho kubitekerezo byihuse kuruhande: Abana bataragera mwishuri bari munsi ya radar; ibyo ni ihohoterwa ryabo no kwirengagiza mubisanzwe ntabwo bivugwa. Inshuti na / cyangwa abagize umuryango mubisanzwe nibo bakora raporo nkiyi kubana bari munsi yimyaka 5. Ariko, benshi muribo ntibashaka kubigiramo uruhare, nubwo bavuga ko bakekwaho guhohoterwa cyangwa kutitabwaho ari ibanga rwose. .
Ariko tugarutse kurera umwana kurerwa: hafi 99.9% yimanza zirera, bagomba kuyobora amasomo yabo. Abo bana baza kurera ntibemerewe n'amategeko kurerwa, muburyo bumwe nkabandi bana bose (akenshi bakuze) ntabwo bafite uburenganzira bwo kurerwa kuva urubanza rwatangira.
Mugihe cyo gutanga ibyiringiro byibinyoma, nzemera ko burigihe burigihe, umubyeyi ubyara (cyangwa ababyeyi) asinyira uburenganzira hakiri kare, mbere yuko ibintu bikurikirana neza murubanza. Ariko ntibisanzwe muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Ntabwo nagutera inkunga yo gushira ibyiringiro n'inzozi kubyo kuba uburambe bwawe hamwe no kurera.
Nibyo rero, benshi, ababyeyi benshi barera bafite impinja ZISHYIZWEHO (biragaragara ko sosiyete irimo), ariko ntibisobanura ko bazakira abana. Niba umwana yarangije kurerwa, akenshi usanga atari nkimyaka ibiri, imyaka itatu, cyangwa rimwe na rimwe ndetse akuze. Nkuko nabivuze haruguru, umuhungu wacu yashyizwe mumezi 3 kandi yari afite imyaka ibiri mugihe cyo kurerwa.
Ibibazo byo kurera bifata igihe, kandi nkuko nabivuze mu nyandiko ibanza, ababyeyi babyaranye bagomba guhabwa igihe n'inkunga kugirango bakore kugirango abana babo basubizwe. Ntabwo tuba mu gihugu abana bakuweho uburenganzira bwababyeyi burangiye bakuweho.
Ibyo byose bivuze: iyi ntishobora kuba inyandiko ishimishije wizeye ko izaba… ubwo rero niba ushaka KUBONA uruhinja, birashoboka cyane ko kurera atariyo nzira yawe.
Mubyukuri,
Kris