Kris 'Inguni - Ndashaje cyane kurera?

Ku ya 27 Kanama 2020

Nibyiza, nuko rero hari iminsi ngira igitekerezo, "Ndashaje cyane kubwibi!" Ariko, nzi ko atari ukuri. Mubisanzwe, hashobora kubaho imyaka umuntu ashobora kuba ashaje cyane kuburyo atashobora kurera, bizatandukana kubantu… Ndaguha ibyo. Ariko, NINZIRA ishaje kuruta ibyo abantu bashaka ko ngerageza kwizera. Kandi nzi ko andusha imyaka!

Reka rero tube impamo kumunota. Abantu benshi (bamwe muribo kundusha kandi sindi URI mukuru… urashobora kumbwira ko nshobora kuba nkoraho ibi?!) Bambwira ko bakuze cyane kuburyo badashobora kurera. Ntabwo ari ikibazo cyubuzima, ntabwo ari ikibazo cyamafaranga, ntabwo ari ikibazo cyumwanya (ubusa-nesters, ndavugana nawe)… ahubwo bambwira ko bakuze cyane.

Um, oya… ntabwo uri. Reka nkubwire impamvu. Kuberako uko ukura, niko ubona ubwenge; ubunararibonye; kandi rimwe na rimwe urushaho kwitonda ubona. Kandi munyizere, kurera kurera nikintu cyanyuma abana bava ahantu hakomeye bakeneye.

Ntabwo ndi umubyeyi mugenzi wanjye, muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose (nta mpamvu yo kubigenzura hamwe nabana banjye, kuko bazanjugunya munsi ya bus). Ariko, rwose ndaruhutse cyane muburyo bwanjye bwo kurera kuruta uko nabanye nabana banjye bakuru (cyane cyane uwakuze… mumbabarire, musore).

Tekereza: sogokuru. Ibyo ntibisobanura ko uri sogokuru cyangwa ukuze bihagije kugirango ube sogokuru, ntukajye kure yiyi blog utekereze ko ndakwita umusaza, kuko sindi. Ariko na none, ushobora kuba sogokuru, kandi ibyo nabyo birakora rwose! Igitekerezo cyanjye hano ni iki: iyo usuzumye ba sogokuru beza nuburyo bashobora gushyuha, kwakirana urugwiro, gukundana no kugira ubwuzu bashobora… wongeyeho akenshi usanga bafite ubukonje buke muburyo bakora ibintu… ibi bisa nkuburyo bwiza bwababyeyi barera. , si byo?

Gusa kugirango byumvikane neza, gukonja ntabwo ari iherezo-byose-kuba-byose. Ariko, namenye ko rimwe na rimwe nkenera gutera intambwe inyuma yimyitwarire idakwiye yumwana no guhitamo niba nkeneye gushyira igiti hasi kubisubizo byanjye; cyangwa, niba nshobora kuguma niteguye kandi nkamenya guhitamo k'umwana cyangwa imyitwarire ntabwo arikintu kizakora cyangwa kimena umunsi. Iki ni igisubizo kuruhande rwanjye cyavuye mubihe n'uburambe hamwe na * gasp *… imyaka.

“Iyo tuzi neza, dukora neza”… kandi mubisanzwe kumenya neza no gukora neza bizana imyaka n'uburambe.

Mubyukuri,

Kris