Ikintu nifuza gusangira nawe uyumunsi nikintu cyitwa Ikibazo cya ACE. "ACE" bisobanura Ubunararibonye bwabana bato kandi amanota ya ACE ni umubare wubwoko butandukanye bwo guhohoterwa, kutitaweho, nibindi biranga umwana bishobora kugorana. Ukurikije ubushakashatsi bwa ACE, bwateje imbere ikibazo, uko bigoye cyane mu bwana bwawe, niko amanota yawe ashobora kuba menshi; ibi birashobora guhinduka mubitekerezo byamarangamutima mugihe gito kandi kirekire, ariko kandi ibyago byinshi kubibazo byubuzima nyuma.
Ndabikubwiye kuberako abana benshi barera bafite amanota menshi ya ACE.
Mubyukuri, hafi 50 ku ijana byabana muri gahunda yimibereho yumwana bafite ACE enye cyangwa zirenga; ugereranije, 13 ku ijana gusa byabana hanze yita kubana bafite ACE enye cyangwa zirenga. Byongeye kandi, nk'uko ubushakashatsi buherutse gukorwa bubigaragaza, “Abana barererwa nibura inshuro eshanu bashobora kugira impungenge, kwiheba ndetse / cyangwa ibibazo by'imyitwarire kurusha abana batarera.”
Ingaruka imwe ishoboka ya ACEs yo hejuru… ubundi bushakashatsi busa nkaho bwerekana ko hari isano hagati yabo no kwizizirwa no gukoresha ecran. Igitekerezo nuko ecran ituje, kuko yemerera guhunga twese dushakisha, ariko nibindi byinshi kumwana uturutse ahantu hakomeye; kwifuza guhunga bishobora kuza kenshi, cyangwa akumva ko ari ngombwa… birashoboka ko byaviramo ibiyobyabwenge.
Ubu ibyo byose bivuze iki kuri wewe nkumubyeyi urera? Nibyiza… birashobora gusobanura ko umwana wawe azagira ibibazo n'inzitizi zo gutsinda.
Ariko igitekerezo cyanjye muriyi nyandiko ntabwo aricyo cyose “umwijima no kurimbuka ”… rero uzirikane ko nubwo ari ikimenyetso cyibihe byashize, ikibazo cya ACE ntabwo ari ubuhanuzi byanze bikunze. Ntabwo bivuze ko ibyo * bishobora * kubaho * bizaba *; pabantu bafite amanota menshi ya ACE barashobora gutsinda cyane kandi bagakora neza mubuzima… ndetse barashobora no kurwanya zimwe mumitego ishobora guterwa nihungabana ryabana bato.
Umurongo w'urufatiro: all amanota ya ACE akora nukubwira ubwoko bumwe bwibintu bishobora guteza ibyago muri benshi. Ntabwo izirikana genetiki yumwana cyangwa imirire. Ntabwo izi niba umwana (tugiye gufata umwangavu ufite iyi myitwarire ariko ikibabaje nuko ntabwo byunvikana kubana bato) anywa cyangwa anywa itabi birenze urugero, cyangwa akora ibiyobyabwenge bitemewe… ibyo byose byagira ingaruka kumagara no mumubiri.
Ariko cyane cyane wibuke ibi kandi: amanota ya ACE ntuzirikane uburambe bwiza mubuzima bwambere bushobora gufasha kubaka imbaraga no kurinda umwana ingaruka zihahamuka. Bitewe no kugira umubyeyi ugukunda gusa, umwarimu ukumva kandi akakwemera, cyangwa umuturanyi wizewe ushobora kwiringira ushobora kugabanya ingaruka nyinshi z'igihe kirekire ziterwa n'ihungabana ry'abana bato; umubano umwe gusa wita, ufite umutekano hakiri kare mubuzima biha umwana uwo ari we wese ishusho nziza yo gukura neza. Iyi mikoranire myiza hakiri kare yerekanwe no gufasha abana kwiga nyuma no gusoma. Icy'ingenzi cyane, bizamura abana kwihangana, mubafasha kubaka imigereka itekanye… ubwo ni ubuhanga bazajyana nabo kandi bagakoresha mubuzima bwabo bwose.
Niba ushishikajwe no gufata ikibazo cya ACE, thano hari imbuga nyinshi kumurongo kuriyo ushobora kuyifata kubusa, kandi irashobora kuboneka byoroshye mugushakisha byihuse kuri enterineti.
Mubyukuri,
Kris