Buri mwaka ukwezi kwa Kamena kwizihizwa nk Ukwezi kwa Ishema LGBT. Ibyishimo irashobora kubamo ibitaramo, ibirori, ibirori byo kuvuga, hamwe na parade y'Ishema itazwi - byose byizihiza abanya lesbiyani, abaryamana bahuje ibitsina, abaryamana bahuje ibitsina, abahindura ibitsina n'umuco w'abakera. Nubwo ibintu byubwibone bibaho umwaka wose, kamena yatoranijwe nkukwezi kwa LGBT Ishema ryo kwibuka Urukuta rw'amabuye: urukurikirane rw'imyigaragambyo rwatangiye muri Kamena 1969 rwabaye umusemburo w’umuryango uharanira uburenganzira bw’abahuje ibitsina.
Nkumugore wigitsina gabo, nshimishwa no kwitabira ibirori by Ishema. Nkunda kubona ababana bahuje igitsina bishimye bafatana amaboko, abahindura ibitsina ndetse nabantu badafite binary bigatuma amajwi yabo yumvikana binyuze mubuhanzi no mubikorwa, n'ababyeyi ba LGBT bishimira hamwe nabana babo.
Ishema ryabaye amateka aho abantu bo mumuryango wa LGBT bashobora guhurira hamwe bakishimira kuba abo ari bo. Nubwo Amerika yateye imbere mu muco, mu mibereho no mu mategeko, urwikekwe n'ivangura biracyahari. Ibyibone nibyingenzi kubantu LGBT bumva batigunze kandi bagashaka umutekano, umutungo waho.
Ubwibone nabwo ni umwanya ugororotse kandi cisgender abafatanyabikorwa bishyize hamwe bashyigikira umuryango wa LGBT n'uburinganire. Amashyirahamwe nka PFLAG urugendo muri parade kugirango berekane ko bashyigikiye abaturage kandi imihanda yuzuyemo abareba neza kandi bahuje igitsina. Nkuko Abanyamerika bagenda biyita inshuti, nubwo, benshi baracyavuga cyangwa bakora ibintu bishobora kubabaza abantu bashaka gufasha, nubwo batabizi. Hano hari inzira zimwe zo gukomeza ubumwe bwawe parade nibyabaye birangiye.
Iyigishe wenyine
Google ni igikoresho gikomeye kubufatanye bwa LGBT. Ahari hariho ijambo cyangwa ikibazo utumva, kandi nibyiza! Ntabwo abantu bose bazi byose, ariko ni ngombwa gufata iyambere. Kurugero: “ni irihe tandukaniro riri hagati ya transgender na genderfluid?” cyangwa “guhuza ibitsina bisobanura iki?” Nibyiza kandi kwiyigisha amategeko agenga umuryango wa LGBT no kwiga uburyo ushobora gufasha.
Hura abaryamana bahuje ibitsina cyangwa transfobiya
Kubantu benshi ba LGBT, kuvuga nabi abaryamana bahuje ibitsina cyangwa abahuje ibitsina bishobora guteza akaga. Nkumuntu ugororotse / cisgender uri mumwanya mwiza wo gukora ibi, hamwe ningaruka nkeya. Ntukihanganire imvugo y'urwango, "urwenya" cyangwa imyitwarire y'abahuje ibitsina. Ntushobora guhindura imitekerereze yumuntu ariko ushobora gutuma undi muntu mubyumba yumva afite umutekano muke.
Fasha kuzamura amajwi yabantu bafite ibara
LGBT abantu bafite ibara bahura nubushomeri bukabije, urugomo, nubukene. Sobanukirwa ko abantu bafite ibara mumuryango wa LGBT bazagira uburambe butandukanye hamwe nivangura, kandi bashyigikire abahanzi, abanditsi, nabaharanira inyungu baharanira uburinganire bwabantu ba LGBT kimwe nabantu bafite ibara.
Umva, wige, ushyigikire
Buri muntu mumuryango wa LGBT amenyekanisha muburyo butandukanye kandi azagira uburambe butandukanye nibiranga. Bamwe barashobora kuba "hanze" kandi bakishima, mugihe bamwe bashobora kuba bakiri mu kabati cyangwa kubimenya. Niba umuntu agusanze:
- Garagaza ko ushimira ko bakubona ko ufite umutekano kandi bakishimira ubutwari bwabo.
- Tangira mu magambo. Kumwenyura, umva, kandi niba bameze neza, ubahe guhobera kugirango bagere kubitugu byabo.
- Tanga inkunga: Kuvuga ngo "Ndi hano kubwanyu" birashobora gusobanura byinshi. Ubabaze niba hari icyo ushobora gukora kugirango ubafashe. Kandi icy'ingenzi: kubaha ubuzima bwite - ntibashobora kuba biteguye gusohoka kubandi kandi kubwimpanuka kubasohoka birashobora kwangiza cyane.
Ibintu bimwe ugomba kwirinda:
- Guhagarika umutima. Hashobora kubaho ibintu bizenguruka mumutwe wawe, kurugero: impungenge zuburyo societe ishobora kubifata. Urashobora kugira imyizerere ishingiye ku idini cyangwa umuco ituma bigora kubyumva. Wibuke gukomeza kubitaho no gutega amatwi no gutandukanya ibyiyumvo byawe nyuma.
- Kuvuga ngo “Nari mbizi!”
- Gutuma bumva icyaha kubera kutakubwira vuba.
Ntabwo nari mfite uburambe bukomeye "gusohoka". Nubwo mfite inkunga nyinshi ubu, nzi uburyo bigoye kugerageza no kumenya abantu bafite umutekano mubuzima bwawe. Witondere kubogama ufite nururimi ukoresha.
Ururimi!
Gusohoka nka transgender cyangwa nonbinary birashobora kuba bimwe mubintu bigoye umuntu ashobora kugira. Niba umuntu agusabye kubahamagara mwizina ritandukanye, kora! Niba umuntu akumenyesheje ko akunda insimburangingo, koresha! Indangamuntu ni ngombwa, kandi gukoresha imvugo bakunda byerekana ko ububaha rwose. Birashobora kugorana mbere kandi ushobora gukenera kwikosora, ariko umenye ko bizasobanura isi kuri bo.
Uyu mwaka, kubera COVID19 yabujijwe, parade y'Ishema isubikwa nyuma yumwaka. Ariko, kuba dukeneye gutandukana kumubiri ntibisobanura ko tudashobora guhuza undi!
Mu byumweru biri imbere, Indy Ishema Azatangaza amakuru arambuye a Kwizihiza Indy Ishema ku wa gatandatu, 20 Kamena guhera saa mbiri kugeza saa kumi.
🎥 Witondere gukurikira Indy Ishema kuri Facebook hanyuma wiyandikishe Umuyoboro wa YouTube. Indy Ishema ryakira ibirori ukwezi kose - urashobora kubona urutonde hano: www.indypride.org/ibikorwa
Urutonde rwibikoresho bya LGBTQ (harimo ubufasha kubo ukunda)