Mbere yo kuboneza urubyaro, Donna na Jason Kempf ntibigeze batekereza ko bazashobora gukora ibyo bakora uyu munsi.
Abashakanye babaye ababyeyi barera mu 2007, igihe bahawe uruhushya rwo kurera umuhungu wabo Marat muri Colorado. Donna yabonye imbaraga zo kurera murumuna we, wari ufite icumbi muri Ohio, hamwe n’umunyeshuri babanaga muri kaminuza, bashishikajwe na ASL (Ururimi rw'amarenga rw'Abanyamerika).
Nyuma yo kubyara abana babiri mubuzima, Donna yashishikajwe no gutangira gukoresha ubuhanga bwe nkumusemuzi kugirango arere abana bafite ikibazo cyo kutumva.
Uyu muryango warebye hanze y’Amerika nyuma y’uko hashyizwe ahantu, harimo n’Uburusiya, aho bakiriye Marat w’imyaka 16, ufite ubumuga bwo kutumva. Bongeye guhinduranya ibikoresho nyuma yo kumenya umukobwa wo muri Indiana ufite ikibazo cyo kutumva no gukenera umuryango - Jezaya, ubu ufite imyaka 17.
Utekereza ko umuryango wabo wuzuye, ba Kempfs bimukiye muri Indiana, gusa bamenye ikibazo kijyanye no kurera abana. Abashakanye batanze impapuro hamwe na Firefly kugirango babihere uruhushya.
Donna agira ati: "Twabonye telefoni ya Indiana DCS itubaza niba twafata kiddo yo kwa muganga."
Bamenye ibya Eva, umwana w’amezi 5 na Cerebral Palsy, kandi nubwo atari muri gahunda yabo, baravuze ngo yego na Eva bashyizwe mu kwezi, hanyuma barerwa mu mwaka.
Ku mezi 3, Eva yasigaye iruhande rw'ubushyuhe bwo mu kirere igihe kitazwi, bituma agira ubwonko. Uyu muryango wahuye n’ibibazo bishya mu kwiga uburyo bwo kwita ku gicuri gikabije no gutandukanya imiti myinshi yo kuvura ubumuga bwe bukomoka ku byabaye.
Donna agira ati: "Twari tumaze koga kandi tugumisha imitwe hejuru y'amazi amezi menshi." Hamwe nitsinda ryita kubufasha no kwiyemeza guha Eva ubuvuzi akeneye, bize hamwe ninzobere ndwi zubuvuzi.
Mugihe abana bakuru ba Kempfs bahindutse bakuze, bongeye gufungura inzu yabo M, ufite imyaka ibiri. M ntabwo isuzumwa ryemewe ariko ifite ibimenyetso byinshi byagenzuwe numuryango ninzobere mubuvuzi 19.
Donna agira ati: "Turiruka cyane hamwe na Miss M."
Kempfs ubu bamenyereye gufatanya nabakozi bashinzwe ubuzima murugo rwabo, kuyobora abaganga na gahunda yo kuvura, no kubona parike ziboneka. Marat asiba kuryama ku cyumweru gufata M kugirango mama abashe kwitegura itorero.
Donna abisobanura agira ati: “Umuryango wacu wo kwizera urakomeye rwose, kandi umuryango wacu ubwawo wakomeje ibiganiro byeruye.” Ibiganiro bigoye byabaye nkenerwa munzira, hamwe no kugura bikenewe mumuryango wose.
Ku bijyanye no kurera abana bafite ubumuga, Jason akenshi atekereza ko abantu bareba impera ya pisine.
Jason agira ati: "Ntabwo twigeze dusimbukira, twarimo twinjiza amano mu nsi." Ati: “Ubu hano turi kumwe n'imodoka y'abamugaye. Ntabwo twari twatekereje ko ibi biri muri twe, ntutinye rero kwinjira mu kayira, kandi winjize urutoki. ”
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