Hejuru ikurikira mumihango umurongo: Imihango ya Dinnertime.
Mbere yuko ntangira, ngomba kuvuga ko nzi neza ko iki gihe gishobora kuba gifitanye isano n'imihango ya nyuma ya saa sita na nimugoroba / kuryama, ariko ndashaka kwerekana ibintu bike, nkuko nabigize hamwe nibindi bice byumunsi, umva rero ubuntu kunyerera abo aho bakwiriye hose mumuryango wawe.
Noneho, kumuryango wanjye, turagerageza cyane kurya mugihe kimwe buri joro. Kugeza ubu dufite umwana umwe murugo igihe cyose (abandi bari muri kaminuza) kuburyo byoroshye cyane. Ariko kuba warabaye mubandi babiri muruvange burimunsi, ndabizi mugihe ufite abana mubikorwa (niyo igikorwa kimwe gusa), ntibishoboka rwose ko habaho ifunguro rya nimugoroba aho abantu bose bashobora kuba bahari buri joro rimwe… mubyukuri, ndetse no kuri BYINSHI. amajoro.
Ariko nubwo haba hari akazi kenshi, nagerageza gusangira icyarimwe icyarimwe buri joro, nubwo umuryango wose utashoboraga kuhaba buri gihe… kuko ibi birashobora gutanga umutekano no guhumuriza umwana ufite amateka y’ihungabana. Ukoresheje uyu muhango, umwana azi igihe ifunguro rizabera kandi hazaba ibiryo. Niba igihe cyo gufungura gihindagurika (cyane cyane mugihe cyakera) birashobora gukurura abana bafite ikibazo cyo kubura ibiryo. (Kandi niba ubana numwana ufite ikibazo cyo kubura ibiryo, nzi ko ntakubwira ikintu gishya.)
Kandi ikindi kintu kijyanye nifunguro: Ntabwo bivuze ko ugomba kurya ifunguro ryatetse murugo buri joro. Kuramo, ibiryo byihuse, cyangwa pizza ikonje nibyiza rwose. Ihe uruhushya rwo gufata inzira yoroshye rimwe na rimwe; Ndasezeranye ko bizaba byiza. Kandi ndabizeza ko ndimo kwibwira ko nkuko nkubwira. Igihe cyo gufungura akenshi ntabwo ari ngombwa kubyo urya, ahubwo nibyo utanga… aribyo gutuza nandi mahirwe yo guhuza.
Kandi tuvuze amahirwe yo guhuza, mfite undi dusangira: Murugo rwacu, twarwaniye igihe kirekire kugirango umuhungu wacu muto yitondere kumeza. Akunda kurya, ariko ntabwo byanze bikunze iyo ahatirwa kwicara kumeza. Ntibisanzwe, kandi turacyarwana nyuma yimyaka umunani. Ariko igikoresho twamanutse kugirango gifashe gutunganya ibyokurya byacu birimo gukina umukino wubwoko runaka. Ushobora kuba utekereza ko iki ari igitekerezo cyasaze rwose… kandi gishobora kuba… cyangwa ni umusazi kuburyo gikora?!? Nibyiza, ntibishobora kugukorera, ariko iyi mihango iradukorera.
Ikintu kimwe nkeneye gusobanura: kuberako kumeza hariho amasahani, ibikombe hamwe nibirahure kumeza, mubisanzwe turangiza tujya gukina umukino wikarita yoroshye… kandi biragaragara ko atari ikintu cyiza nka "ibiyiko". Niba hari batatu gusa muri twe (bikunze kugaragara), dushobora gukora umukino wubuyobozi. Ariko kenshi na kenshi ibyo ntabwo, dukina umukino hamwe namakarita.
Kuruhande, twabonye igitabo cyimikino yamakarita kubana ushobora gukina gusa hamwe namakarita 52 asanzwe. Turasimburana duhitamo umukino; kandi mubisanzwe uwatsinze kuva ijoro ryabanjirije kujya mbere mwijoro rikurikira. Iki kintu cyose gitanga amahirwe yo kwishora, gusabana, kandi muri rusange gushimangira gusobanukirwa amategeko nubuyobozi bukurikira… kandi kuruta ibindi byose, ibiganiro bijyanye no kutabeshya.
Tuvugishije ukuri, turacyakora kuriya.
Umugambi wo kugoreka: Ningomba kwemeza ko twatangiye iyi mihango mumyaka yashize, natekereje ko byafasha gusa gutsimbataza ingeso kandi amaherezo tuzashobora guhagarara. Ariko ntitwahagaritse. Mubyukuri, guhitamo imikino yamakarita byiyongereye cyane… ninde wari uzi ko hari amahitamo menshi hanze?!? Kandi ibirenze ibyo, nkumuntu wakuriye murugo tutakinnye imikino myinshi, nsanga ntegerezanyije amatsiko buri mugoroba… nuko rero hariho gutungurwa kwiza.
Noneho ibitekerezo bike byongeweho kumihango yo kurya: umuntu ashyira ameza mbere yo kurya cyangwa buriwese afata ibye? Niba ako kazi katari uw'umuntu, birashobora kuba byiza kuguha (cyangwa kukizunguruka) kwemerera abantu bose gukorera umuryango wose muri ubu buryo? Ninde woza ibyombo nyuma? Ninde usukura igikoni cyangwa akuramo imyanda? Birashoboka ko buriwese akuraho ibyombo, kandi umuntu yashinzwe guhanagura ameza. Umuntu (cyangwa barenze umwe) afasha gusukura aho batekera. Na none kandi, gushiraho injyana yo guhanagura no gushiramo inshingano bitanga amahirwe yo guhuza… kandi (ukeka ko) bihinduka umuhango.
Mubisanzwe, ibi ni bike mubitekerezo byanjye kubijyanye niki gihe cyigihe nuburyo binyuze mumihango ushobora guha umwanya kubaka umubano no gukiza ihahamuka.
Mubyukuri,
Kris