Ku cyumweru, tariki ya 10 Gicurasi ni umunsi w'ababyeyi. Uyu munsi wo kwizihiza no kumenyekana watangiye mu 1876 ubwo Anna Jarvis yumvaga nyina, Ann Jarvis, asenga mu isomo ryo ku cyumweru. Yasenze asaba ko umunsi umwe umuntu yashyiraho umunsi wo kwibuka urwibutso kandi ko uyu munsi waba umunsi wo kwibuka serivisi ababyeyi bakorera inyokomuntu mubice byose byubuzima.
Ku ya 10 Gicurasi 1908, Anna yohereje karnasi 500 yera mu rusengero rwe mu rwego rwo guha icyubahiro nyina wapfuye nk'urwibutso. Uwo munsi wafatwaga nkumunsi wambere wumunsi wumubyeyi. Nyuma, ku ya 9 Gicurasi 1914, Perezida Woodrow Wilson yashyize umukono ku itangazo ritangaza ku cyumweru cya kabiri Gicurasi “kwerekana mu ruhame urukundo rwacu no kubaha ababyeyi b'igihugu cyacu”. Ibimenyetso byerekana ko igitekerezo cyambere cyumunsi wumubyeyi kwari ukuba umunsi kubabyeyi muri rusange, aho kuba umunsi kuri nyina. Igitekerezo cyambere cyari uko ababyeyi bahurira kumunsi wakazi kugirango bafashe abandi babyeyi batishoboye kurusha bo.
IYO UTEKEREZA IJAMBO NYINA, NINDE UZE KUBONA? ESE NI NYINA WA BIOLOGIKI, NYINA WA NYINA, UMWARIMU, INCUTI, UMUTuranyi…?
Mugihe tugeze kuri uyu munsi w'ababyeyi, birashishikarizwa ko abantu bose bakurikiza aya mahame ya mbere. Nuhimbaze kandi wubahe ba mama mubuzima bwawe, nawe ubwawe niba bibaye ngombwa, fasha abandi babyeyi, kandi utange serivisi. Iyo utekereje ku ijambo mama, ninde uza mu mutwe? Numubyeyi ubyara, umubyeyi urera, umwarimu, inshuti, umuturanyi, nibindi? Ninde watanze ibikorwa byisubiramo, byizewe, byiringirwa byo kukwitaho, gukunda, no kukwitaho kandi muburyo ki? Hariho uburyo wimenyereza ko witaye kubandi? Umunsi w'ababyeyi ni igihe dushobora kwishimira ayo masano mubuzima bwacu.
Habayeho ubushakashatsi bwinshi bwanditse bwubushakashatsi bwatweretse the akamaro ko guhuza nabandi. Ubushakashatsi butubwira ko inyungu zirimo kongera umunezero, ubuzima bwiza, no kuramba. Guhuza nabandi biduha ubufasha, inkunga yamarangamutima, inama, icyerekezo, kwemeza, kwishimisha, nibindi byinshi.
Byongeye kandi, mugukomeza ibitekerezo bya Ann Jarvis n'umunsi w'ababyeyi, ni ngombwa kubaka umuganda hafi yawe hamwe nabana bawe. Wubake uruziga rw'inkunga, binyuze mumuryango, inshuti, umuryango, abaturanyi, abayoboke b'itorero, nibindi, bishobora kuguha numwana wawe inkunga, ubufasha, ubwitonzi, ibikoresho, ubusabane, nubumenyi. Uru ruziga rushobora gutanga ibintu bishimishije, ibitekerezo, imbaraga, umutungo, amahirwe yimibereho, gusobanukirwa, kubabarana, nibindi byinshi. Byongeye, muri iki gihe cya karantine no kuguma murugo, umuganda ni ngombwa kuruta mbere!
Hano hepfo urutonde rwimiryango ikora kandi ifunguye abanyamuryango bashya muri Indy (kanda kumurongo kugirango wige byinshi kandi wiyandikishe):
- -Amatsinda atandukanye ya MOPS, MOMSnext, Ingimbi MOPS, M Bishyize hamwe (umujyi wose)
- –Indy Papa Itsinda
- –Ababyeyi Bakuru / Ubusabane hamwe nitsinda ryita kubarera
- –Amatsinda menshi ya Mama, Amatsinda ya Papa, hamwe nitsinda ryita kubabyeyi