Ndashaka rero kuzenguruka ku kintu navuze mu byumweru bibiri bishize. Abana badahujwe nimiryango yabo yababyaye ntabwo bahita barerwa numuryango urera. Hariho inzira nyinshi zishoboka DCS ishobora kubona ko ikwiye. Ibi birimo ibintu bitandukanye bishoboka: ubuvandimwe, kurera, kubaho kwigenga, no gusaza hanze ya sisitemu.
Muri iki gice, nzavugana na Kinship Placement (Nzakemura abandi mubyumweru biri imbere). Gushyira Kinship akenshi ni ugushyira hamwe nabagize umuryango (usibye ababyeyi babyaranye). Mubisanzwe (ariko ntibigarukira gusa) sekuru, nyirasenge cyangwa nyirarume; birashobora no kuba mukuru wawe ufite imyaka yemewe.
Ubundi buryo bushoboka bwo gushyingiranwa bushobora kuba hamwe ninshuti yumuryango, umuturanyi wa hafi, cyangwa umwarimu wumwana cyangwa undi mukozi wishuri. Icyo aricyo cyose muribi birashoboka, mugihe cyose ishyirwaho ryabavandimwe rihamye, rifite ubuzima bwiza nubukungu rishobora kwita kumwana igihe cyose… nubwo ari kirekire. Birashobora gusa mugihe urubanza rufunguye, cyangwa rushobora guhoraho iteka ryose (ibi byashyizwe mubikorwa birashobora no kurangirana no kurera niba guhura atari amahitamo meza).
Ariko, gushyira mubyara bigomba guhinduka umubyeyi urera wemerewe kubona inyungu zamafaranga ninkunga yikigo yakiriwe nabandi babyeyi barera babifitemo uruhushya. Byongeye kandi, nibatanga uruhushya binyuze mu kigo (nka Biro y’abana), bazahabwa izindi nkunga ikigo cyonyine gishobora gutanga.
Akenshi ubuvandimwe bukurikiranwa na DCS hakiri kare, ariko ntabwo buri gihe; rimwe na rimwe urubanza ruri hafi kurangira mbere yuko ababyeyi babyaranye bavuga abantu bazi bashobora kwita kubana babo.
Mbere yuko njya kure, reka mvuge ibi: niba uri urugo rurera wifuza kurera umwana runaka uri kukurera, ntabwo ngerageza kugushyira muburyo bwubwoba! Ntugahagarike umutima niba DCS itangiye kureba ubundi buryo bwo gushyira; gusa kubera ko izina cyangwa igitekerezo bajugunywe mu mpeta, ntibisobanura ko umwana azimurwa ava murugo. Hariho ibintu byinshi DCS izasuzuma mbere yo kwimuka. Nzi nkurikije ubunararibonye uko byifashe, kandi nubwo bisa nkibinyabutatu, ndi hano mvuga ko ntacyo bikumariye guhangayikishwa nikintu kidashoboka.
Ibyo byavuzwe, rimwe na rimwe kwimuka munzu irera bibaho, kubwimpamvu zitandukanye, inyinshi murizo zitagenzurwa nababyeyi barera.
Igihe gikurikira: Uburinzi.
Mubyukuri,
Kris