Noneho… Nzemera mu bwisanzure ko umuryango wanjye ushobora kuba atari urugero rwiza rwo kugira imihango myinshi yo muri wikendi, usibye kujya mu rusengero ku cyumweru mugitondo. Ku wa gatandatu mu gitondo birashobora kutubera amahirwe yo gukora imirimo imwe n'imwe ikikije urugo. Nkuko ushobora kuba ubizi mubyanditswe mbere twimutse amezi make ashize rero haracyari imishinga yo gukora. So.many.imishinga.
Kuberako ibi bishobora kuba byinshi, turagerageza kubika ibintu nkibi byo kuwa gatandatu, cyane cyane niba arikintu umuhungu wacu ashobora gufasha. We ku giti cye yishimira gukora gusenya gake kids abana benshi barabikora, ndatekereza. Mubyukuri, byabaye ngombwa ko dusenya amagorofa yangiritse mu mezi make ashize, kandi inzuki zacu zikorana umwete inzuki birashoboka ko yakuyemo 3/4 muri yo. Kandi nubwo byari amahirwe akomeye, ndasenga ntituzongere kubikora ukundi!
Iyi myitozo yo gusenya (kimwe nabandi) yatanze ubundi buryo bwo guhuza no guhuza, ndetse no kumwemerera gukoresha imitsi ye mu guterura ibiremereye, ndetse birashoboka ndetse no kwiga ubuhanga bushya. Ndatahura ko afite imyaka umunani gusa, ariko nkuko benshi muri mwe bashobora kuba barabyiboneye, nubwo bafite ihungabana, abana benshi baturera ni beza cyane kandi bashishikajwe no kwiga. Nubwo amasomo gakondo yishuri atari ko akunda, umuhungu wacu akunda kwiga ibintu bishya kuburyo niba dushobora kubona ayo mahirwe buri gihe, turashaka kumukorera.
Nubwo rero tutagera kumishinga yo murugo buri cyumweru, dukora muri wikendi nyinshi. Ariko ndatahura ko ibyo bidashobora kuba urugero rwiza cyangwa igitekerezo kuri benshi muri mwe. Ahubwo, birashoboka ko bisa nkumubyeyi umwe (niba ari urugo rwababyeyi babiri) asohora abana kubuturo (ibyo mvugishije ukuri ntabwo nkunda iki gitekerezo kuko kiddo yanjye ibona isukari ihagije kandi mubyukuri ntabwo byafasha!) Kandi reka undi mubyeyi asinzire. Ariko ntibigomba kuba amafranga can birashobora kuba ugura ibiribwa cyangwa gukora ikindi gikorwa. .
Ikindi gitekerezo: birashoboka ko hari ba sogokuru cyangwa izindi nshuti zumuryango zishobora kurara abana ijoro rimwe mukwezi. Ibyo bisa nkaho ari byiza kuri buri wese! Nukuri… ntabwo byaba ari umuhango wa buri wikendi ariko birashoboka ko icyumweru gisoza icyumweru!
Nkiri umwana (kandi ndikundana ubwanjye mvuga ibi, nyamuneka ntucire urubanza) ariko kuwa gatandatu mugitondo amakarito yari UMUHANDA murugo rwacu. Ntabwo andi makarito menshi yinyuma-yinyuma yari arimo usibye muriki gihe umwanya kandi narabyungukiyemo! Nahagararaga imbere ya TV amasaha buri wa gatandatu mugitondo. Rimwe na rimwe, mama yakoraga udukariso. Ntabwo ari pancake YOSE… ahubwo shokora ya shokora. Mvugishije ukuri rero igice cyimihango cyibajije niba kizaba mugitondo, kandi niba atari cyo nabisabira. Gusabiriza gake, niba harigihe, byakoraga mubyo nibuka…
Ibyo ari byo byose point igitekerezo cyanjye nuko wenda ushobora kugira ubwoko bwimihango yo kurangiza icyumweru muburyo busa. Cyangwa birashoboka ko buri wa gatanu nimugoroba ari "pizza na firime" kumuryango. Cyangwa firime na popcorn (wari uzi, ko ushobora kugura imifuka minini ya popcorn yamamaye kuri King King? Yego, ndavuga popcorn yumwami wo mucyaro inshuro ebyiri muri post imwe… niba ubizi, urabizi).
Cyangwa ahari ijoro ryumukino wumuryango? Cyangwa bose bajya gufata ifunguro rya mugitondo ku cyumweru? Biragaragara ko ibishoboka bitagira iherezo… ni ikibazo cyo kumenya icyo umuryango wawe wakwishimira KANDI nibishobora kubamo nta gucika intege cyangwa gukina. Kurugero… niba ufite ingimbi zikunda gusohoka hanze nimugoroba, wenda ifunguro rya mugitondo (cyangwa mugitondo, kuko nabo rimwe na rimwe bakunda kuryama!) Byakubera byiza kuruta "urugendo rwagahato" rwo kurya na firime. ku wa gatanu nijoro. Bishobora gusaba akazi gake (hamwe na tweakinging) kugirango ubone umuhango wawe, ariko bizaba byiza rwose imbaraga nimbaraga zo gufasha gushimangira ayo masano nubusabane.
Mubyukuri,
Kris