Niki ukeneye kugira ngo wemere umwanya? Nibyiza, ibi biterwa nurwego rwimyaka (niba ufite imyaka ukunda, akenshi abantu babikora), nuburinganire. Biragaragara, ntabwo nzigera nshobora gutondeka ibintu byose, kuko buri mwana aratandukanye kandi ibyo bakeneye biratandukanye.
Ariko haribintu bimwe byibanze ugomba gutekereza kuba ufite kubiganza, cyane cyane niba ufunguye ahantu byihutirwa. Kandi niyo waba udafunguye ahantu hihutirwa, rimwe na rimwe ibintu bigenda byihuse, kandi ntushobora kubona umwanya wo kwitegura cyane.
Noneho… biragaragara, bimwe muribi bintu ntibishobora kukureba, bitewe nimyaka ukunda, bityo rero biragaragara ko uzirikana ibyo nkuko usuzuma urutonde. Niba ntakindi, ndashobora kukugezaho ibintu bimwe utari gutekereza mbere; kandi zishobora gufasha gukora inzibacyuho yoroshye kumwana no murugo rwawe.
Ntabwo rero muburyo bwihariye cyangwa imyumvire yibanze, dore urutonde rwibintu ushobora gutekereza kugumana, mugihe utegereje aho uzashyirwa (imyaka yose ikwiranye, birumvikana):
- Uburiri n'uburiri (birashoboka ko ufite igenamigambi ryumuhungu cyangwa umukobwa, niba udafite icyifuzo cyo gushyira; cyangwa icapiro ridafite aho ribogamiye cyangwa imirimo ikomeye nayo, kandi irashobora gutwikira byinshi); biragaragara ko iki gitanda cyaba akazu k'uruhinja, cyangwa uburiri buto hamwe na gari ya moshi kuruhande rwumwana muto.
- Isogisi nshyashya n'imyenda y'imbere (ibi birashobora kuba amacenga make… ushobora gukenera kugira paki nyinshi zifite ubunini butandukanye… kubera ko umwana afite imyaka 4 y'amavuko ntibisobanura ko bambaye ubunini bwa 4; umuhungu wanjye, urugero, ni 7, ariko yambara ubunini10/12, ntabwo aribyo wakwitega, ariko ntibisanzwe rwose.)
- Hejuru, ishati, ipantaro n'ikabutura mubunini butandukanye, uzenguruka imyaka ukunda niba ufite imwe; niba udafite imyaka ikunzwe, noneho birashoboka ko mubunini butandukanye. Ububiko bwuzuye bwaranzwe na buri bunini nuburinganire bituma byoroha "gufata no kugenda" mugihe kiddo igeze ifite integuza nke.
- Pajama nshya… na none, mubunini butandukanye nuburinganire, kuko amahirwe aruko umwana azahagera ntacyo, kandi birashobora kuba nimugoroba cyangwa hagati yijoro. Mwijoro ryambere ryabo ahantu hadasanzwe, jammies nshya irashobora guhumuriza.
- Amatara yijoro yo kuryama nubwiherero / koridoro children abana benshi barahohotewe kandi bashobora kubona umwijima uteye ubwoba. Itara rya nijoro (cyangwa 3) rirashobora kubazanira amahoro make no gutuza mugihe cyo kuryama.
- Bombo yo kwiyuhagira na / cyangwa kwiyuhagira bubble… ibi birashobora gufasha abana bashobora kwanga (cyangwa nubwoba) bwo kwiyuhagira cyangwa kwiyuhagira. Bashobora kuba barahohotewe mubihe bisa, ibi rero birashobora kubafasha kuruhuka no kuba biteguye gushiramo byibuze iminota mike. Wongeyeho kuvugwa kubana bakuru: ubereke ko bashobora gufunga umuryango kugirango biha ubuzima bwite (ibyo bashobora kuba batarigeze bahabwa murugo rwabo bakomokamo… ariko hamwe nubuvumo: wowe nkumubyeyi urera ugomba guhora wizeye neza ko ubizi uburyo bwo gufungura hanze, haramutse habaye ikibazo cyihutirwa!
- Ibiringiti… imyaka ikwiranye nukuri; guswera cyangwa ibiringiti byabana bato, nibiringiti binini kubana bakuru. Emera guhitamo kandi birashoboka ko wemera ibirenze umwe niba bafite ikibazo cyo gufata icyemezo. Kandi birashoboka ko ushobora no gutekereza kugira igipangu gito kiremereye kiboneka kugirango gifashe umwana gutuza, cyane cyane mbere yo kuryama.
- Brush nshya… cyane cyane kubana bakuru. Kandi kujyana nibyo, imisatsi mishya.
- Kandi hamwe nibyo, ibikoresho byinshyi can birashobora kubaho kubantu bose, burigihe rero nibyiza ko umuntu agira ukuboko niba ubikeneye. Ntabwo arikintu ushaka ko wiruka ukagera mu gicuku!
- Ubwiherero bukwiranye n'imyaka… kureba neza ko ufite uburoso bw'amenyo hamwe no koza amenyo kubana bato niba utegereje abana bato; cyangwa ibishishwa bitandukanye bisanzwe hanyuma ushireho abana bakuru, birashoboka ndetse no kureka umwana agahitamo muburyo butandukanye bw'icyitegererezo / flavours.
- Akabati k'imikino… ibi ntibishobora kuba ijoro ryambere byanze bikunze, ariko byaba byiza igitekerezo cyo kugira imikino itandukanye kurwego rwimyaka kugirango utange amahirwe yo gusabana, ariko ntabwo byanze bikunze ugomba "kuvuga" ubwabo.
- Udukoryo two gufunga / agaseke / igikurura… ibi birashobora gufasha cyane cyane abana baturuka mubukene kandi bafite ubwoba bwo kutabona ibiryo bihagije.
- Udukoryo two kuryama… ibi bijyana no gufunga ibiryo / agaseke / igikurura, ariko bigatera intambwe imwe kumwana ufite ubwoba bwashinze imizi. Akenshi ibiba muribi bihe nuko amajoro make umwana azarya ibintu byose mubiseke, kandi igihe nikigera azarya bike, kugeza amaherezo bamenye ko badakeneye kubirya, kuko bizahora bihagije kuri bo kurya mu nzu yawe.
- Guhindura amabara n'ibitabo… ibi birashobora kumyaka itandukanye, kuko birashobora kuruhura abana benshi (cyangwa nabakuze) kwicara gusa.
- Imashini y urusaku rwera… akenshi abana baturuka ahantu hafite urusaku ruhoraho; ntabwo rero bamenyereye gutuza bashobora gusanga murugo rurerera, cyane cyane iyo bagiye kuryama. Imashini y urusaku rwera irashobora kubafasha kubaha urusaku kugirango bahagarike "guceceka cyane" cyangwa amajwi yose atamenyerewe bashobora kumva murugo rurererwa, ariko nyamara ukabaha "kwinjiza urusaku" ubwonko bwabo bwifuza.
- Vinegere na / cyangwa kuvanaho impumuro mu kumesa… kubana bato ntugomba byanze bikunze kubaza, ariko kubana bakuru nibyiza kubasaba uruhushya rwo kubakorera imyenda. Bashobora kuba bafite imyenda bambaye gusa, ariko ntibashobora kuba bogejwe mugihe gito kandi biremewe kuzunguruka. Ikigeretse kuri ibyo, niba hashize igihe gito uhereye igihe baheruka gukora isuku, barashobora kugira impumuro mbi yo kuvanaho, aho niho hakoreshwa vinegere cyangwa kuvanaho impumuro yubucuruzi, hamwe na detergent, byaza bikenewe.
- Cinnamon izunguruka… byihuse kandi birashoboka cyane mugitondo cya mugitondo; biroroshye kubika amabati abiri afunguye muri firigo kugirango ugire ukuboko, kandi nubwo bidashobora kuba byiza nkuko ubishaka, uzamenye ko umwana yariye.
- Ibikinisho bikwiranye nimyaka
- Inzira imwe / amacupa may birashoboka ko formula ufite atari ubwoko umwana amenyereye, cyangwa icyo umwana akeneye; kugira ingaragu (cyangwa amabati mato) ku ntoki bikuraho imyanda.
- Ibibindi bike byibiribwa byabana / ibinyampeke
- Bibs hamwe n'ibitambara
- Impapuro (bike gusa mubunini ndetse nijoro ryose mubunini bunini)
Noneho maze gutondekanya ibyo byose, nzi ko ibi bitarimo byose; hari byinshi, byinshi USHOBORA kugira kugirango ube witeguye, ariko mvugishije ukuri, ndashidikanya ko ufite ububiko murugo rwawe byaba ngombwa kuri byose! Icyo rero wagombye kugira aho, ni izina ryikariso irera (cyangwa irenze imwe niba ufite amahirwe yo kuba mukarere gafite byinshi) ushobora kuvugana kugirango igufashe kubona ibintu ukeneye igihe kirekire- igihe cyo gushyira.
Kandi nibutse gusa: nkuko twabivuze mbere, ababyeyi barera babona urupapuro rwa $200 rwuruganda rwa Burlington Coat uruganda mugihe umwana mushya wo kwitaho ashyizwe murugo rwawe; ariko niba umwana avuye murundi rugo rurererwa cyangwa akaba ashyizwe mubuvandimwe, ntamafaranga yatanzwe nishami rishinzwe serivisi zabana (DCS) kubwibyo.
Byongeye kandi, birashobora gufata igihe kugirango iyo voucher igere… kandi niyo bigeze, ntushobora kubona ibyo ukeneye byose muruganda rwa Burlington Coat.
Ingingo kuba iyi: uzashaka kugira ibintu bimwe mukuboko kugirango witegure bishoboka mugitangira.
Mubyukuri,
Kris