Kera iyo abana banjye babyaranye bari bato, umuntu uzi ubwenge cyane yambwiye ko mugihe abana batagengwa (akenshi mumadirishya nyuma yo gusinzira ariko mbere yo kurya) ugomba kubajyana hanze cyangwa kubashyira mumazi. Kugira ngo byumvikane neza, ntabwo yakoresheje ijambo "dysregulated" kuko icyo gihe ntabwo cyari muri verbiage yacu. Ariko numvise iyi nama, natekereje ko bidasanzwe kuburyo ntabigerageje nkana, kugeza umunsi umwe ubwo twasohokaga hanze nyuma ya saa sita (kubera ko ntagishoboye kwihanganira kuba mu nzu ukundi!), Nabonye imbaraga zo hanze.
Yarafashije. Nk ,, byarafashijwe rwose! Natangiye rero kubigerageza muburyo butandukanye: ikirere gikonje, ikirere gishyushye, ibihe bishyushye, imvura cyangwa izuba. Byose byarafashije! Kandi ntanubwo bigomba kumara amasaha n'amasaha. Rimwe na rimwe, iminota 15 irahagije kugirango ibintu bihinduke.
Nabonye kandi ko bidakorera abana banjye gusa, byangiriye akamaro. Gufata imbwa gutembera, cyangwa kujya gutembera cyangwa gutwara amagare, kwita ku busitani bwanjye, cyangwa no kwicara hanze… hari ikintu gisubiramo. Ntabwo ngiye kwinjira muburyo bwuzuye bwumwuka, ariko mvugishije ukuri, sinkeka ko twagenewe kumarana umwanya munini murugo nkuko tubikora.
Mubyukuri, ubushakashatsi bwakozwe bwerekanye ko hariho isano no kuba hanze no kugabanuka guhangayika no guhangayika, ibyago byo kwiheba, ndetse no kongera kwibanda no kwibanda.
Ariko biragaragara ko udasoma ibi kugirango umenye ibyanjye nabana banje; ushobora kuba wifuza kumenya niba ibi bikora kubana kuva ihahamuka. Kandi ndi hano kugirango menyeshe ibyo nabonye kuva mubunini bw'icyitegererezo kimwe: byafashije na kiddo yanjye kuva ahantu hakomeye, hamwe na caveat - kuri we, byibura, hanze ifite aho igarukira.
Igice kinini cyibi gifitanye isano nuko uyu mwana afite imisatsi NZIZA nabonye mubuzima bwanjye, kandi rwose ifata ubushyuhe. Nubwo rero ari byiza iyo ari birebire (afite ibibyimba bitangaje nabyo), nko muri Mata, dukora "gukata icyi," kikaba ari intambwe imwe uvuye ku gisirikare cyanjye, kandi ibyo bikamufasha gukomeza gukonja. Niba ntabikora, azashyuha vuba vuba kandi ni umukino urangiye kandi dysregulation ye ishobora kuba (soma: bizaba) kurushaho. Rero, idirishya ryacu kubikorwa byo hanze usanga akenshi ari bike (keretse niba birimo amazi, nzabiganiraho ubutaha.)
Biragaragara ko ntazi ko ibyo bizabera kiddo yawe, ariko ndimo kubikoresha gusa nk'impanuro yo kuburira; mubunararibonye bwanjye, abana bafite ihungabana bafite umurongo muto muri rusange kandi kuba hanze nabyo ntibisanzwe bityo uzakenera guhanga amaso ibintu nkibi kugirango umenye ubushobozi bwa kiddo wawe kwihanganira ubushyuhe.
Kuruhande, umuhungu wanjye AKUNDA imbeho na shelegi kandi akenshi bigaragara ko atambaye neza, ariko na none, kuko akenshi "yiruka ashyushye" ntabwo yumva akonje nubwo haba hakonje.
Urashobora rero kwibaza icyo bagomba gukora hanze. Tuvugishije ukuri, icyo bashaka cyose (mubitekerezo, birumvikana). Ariko hano hari ibitekerezo bike bidahiganwa kugirango ubitekerezeho:
- Gutwara igare cyangwa ikinyabiziga
- Hisha ibituba
- Shushanya na chalk (cyangwa gukora chalk y'amazi hanyuma ushire irangi kumuhanda search gushakisha byihuse google bizakubwira uko wabikora!)
- Simbukira mu byuzi (haba mugihe cyangwa nyuma yimvura)
- Kubaka igihome
- Ishimire ibibuga byaho
- Komeza gutembera kubidukikije cyangwa guhiga ibidukikije (urashobora kubona urutonde rwakozwe mbere kuri Pinterest)
- Kurya ifunguro cyangwa ibiryo hanze
- Kurwanira urubura (cyane cyane birashimishije mugihe cyizuba niba ushobora guteganya mugihe cyitumba ukabika urubura muri firigo yawe. Ndabona ko arikibazo gikomeye kandi sinigeze nshobora kubyibuka ubwanjye, nubwo ndi CERTAIN umuhungu wanjye yabikunda!)
- Kubaka igihome
- Abamarayika b'urubura
Uru biragaragara ko atari urutonde rwuzuye, ariko nashakaga kuguha bike byihuse kandi byoroshye (kandi birashoboka kubuntu cyangwa bihendutse!) Kwari ukubona kiddo idakwiye hanze kandi twizere ko izasubira mumabwiriza.
Mubyukuri,
Kris