Ibi rero ntabwo byanze bikunze Kane Nyakanga byihariye, nubwo bifite umwanya rwose muriki gihe cyumwaka, niyo mpamvu ndimo kubishyiramo ubu. Nkuko twabiganiriyeho mbere, abana barera bahorana ihungabana. Nubwo wakubwira ko badafite ihahamuka, gukurwa mu muryango w’ibinyabuzima ni ibintu byababaje… utitaye kubyo abantu bashobora kugerageza gusaba.
Ariko icyo nshaka kuvuga nuko abana bamwe, nkigice cyihungabana ryabo, bafite sensibilité sensibilité, bivuze ko bifuza ibitekerezo byinshi cyangwa barabyanga… none urabona nyamara aho ngiye niyi nyandiko? Ndabivuze ubu kuko hari amahirwe menshi yo kwinjiza bimwe bikomeye byunvikana kumunsi wa kane Nyakanga.
Iyo rero dusuzumye ibyumviro byinjira, dutekereza kubyifuzo byacu bitanu: kureba, impumuro, kumva, uburyohe, no gukoraho. Ingero zimwe zisanzwe mubintu abana bashaka kandi / cyangwa birinda ibyo byumviro nibi bikurikira (kandi nzashyiramo byumwihariko ingero ya kane Nyakanga):
- Icyerekezo: Ibishushanyo bigaragara, amabara amwe cyangwa imiterere, ibintu byimuka cyangwa bizunguruka, nibintu byiza cyangwa urumuri; ibi birashobora kugaragara ko harimo fireworks haba hasi cyangwa mukirere.
- Impumuro: Impumuro yihariye. Abana bamwe bakunda kunuka ibintu byose, mugihe abana bamwe bashoboye kumenya impumuro abandi batabona… kandi barababazwa nabo. Ku ya kane Nyakanga, iyi ishobora kuba impumuro yumwotsi uturuka ku muriro, cyangwa ibiryo kuri grill. Njye kubwanjye sinshobora kubitekereza, ariko nzi ko arukuri ko abantu bamwe banga iyo mpumuro.
- Kumva: Amajwi aranguruye cyangwa atunguranye nkumuriro wumuriro, cyangwa kuririmba, gusubiramo cyangwa ubwoko bwihariye bwurusaku (nko gukubita urutoki cyangwa gukoma amashyi). Urusaku rwinshi ruvuye kumuriro rwaba rwose muriki cyiciro.
- Uburyohe: Uburyohe bwihariye (nkibirungo, ibirungo, umururazi, cyangwa minty) hamwe nimiterere (nka crunchy, chewy, cyangwa mushy), guhekenya cyangwa konsa ibintu bitari ibiryo (nk'imyenda y'ishati cyangwa amakariso); ibi birashobora kugaragazwa nibiryo bimwe na bimwe bikunze gutangwa muriyi minsi mikuru bidashobora kuba muri menu isanzwe yumwana!
- Gukoraho: Gukoraho kubandi bantu, gukoraho no guhuzagurika nibintu, imyenda ifatanye cyangwa yoroshye, hamwe nimiterere cyangwa ubuso bumwe; ibi birashobora guhora birimo kwanga cyangwa gukurura umuriro / gucana fireworks cyangwa sparkler. Ikigereranyo: ni kangahe ugomba kubwira umwana "ntukoreho!" mugihe cyo gukora kumuriro cyangwa fuse yaka?
Noneho ntabwo abana bose ari abashaka amarangamutima gusa cyangwa birinda amarangamutima gusa. Abana bamwe barashobora kwerekana igisubizo kimwe cyangwa ikindi gisubizo ukurikije imiterere yabo cyangwa ibibakikije. Ibi birashobora guhinduka ukurikije uko batagengwa, nuburyo bashoboye kwiyobora, hamwe nuburyo ibintu byifashe muri rusange… kandi niba utarigeze ugira aho uhurira murugo rwawe ku ya kane Nyakanga, ntushobora kumenya uko azasubiza.
Kurugero, abana bamwe ntibagora muburyo bumenyerewe, ariko barashobora kugira ibyiyumvo bishonga ahantu huzuye abantu cyangwa batamenyereye; kurugero niba uri mumujyi wa fireworks, ibyo bizaba byuzuye, wenda utekereze muburyo umwana wawe akemura ibibazo nkibi hanyuma ukongeraho mubindi byose bishobora guterwa ibiruhuko. Cyangwa umwana wawe arashobora gushakisha cyangwa kwirinda ibitekerezo kugirango afashe gutuza, mugihe mubisanzwe batabikora.
Ikitugarura ku ya Kane Nyakanga. Noneho uhabwa ibiruhuko ibyo aribyo byose birashobora kuba urugamba kumwana uturutse ahantu habi… ariko iyi minsi mikuru byumwihariko (ndatekereza kubwanjye) ifite amahirwe menshi yo gutandukana kuburyo nshaka kubivuga ubu kugirango nawe, nkabishoboye kandi neza- uzi neza ababyeyi barera uri, urashobora kuba kuri A-Umukino wawe muminsi mikuru iri imbere.
Niki wakora kugirango witegure? Nibyiza, niba aribwo bwa mbere uzenguruka hamwe numwana runaka kandi ukaba utazi neza icyo ugomba gutegereza, nashyiraho akabari hasi kandi buri gihe nkagira gahunda yo guhunga. Icyo nshaka kuvuga nukuvuga ko witeguye kuva vuba aho uri hose niba umwana wawe arwana.
Ariko hariho ubundi buryo ushobora gutegura kugirango udashobora kuva. Nkibisanzwe, vugana numwana mbere yigihe aho ugiye, ibyo ukora, ibyo ushobora kubona na / cyangwa uburambe, nibindi.
- Fata urusaku-rusiba na terefone kuri ziriya nduru zikomeye.
- Fata amazi n'ibiryo; buri gihe byari binini kuri twe… niba umuhungu wanjye yaba a) kwinezeza cyane guhagarara no kurya, cyangwa b) gusa ntabwo akunda ubwoko butandukanye bwibiryo kuri picnic / bar-be-que, noneho we ntabwo yari kurya… hanyuma ibintu bigahita bitandukana kuri we (natwe) bimaze kuba.
- Fata umuyaga wihariye, ukoresha bateri; icya kane mumateka afite ubushyuhe bwinshi muri Amerika, kandi byibura mubihe turimo, umuhungu wanjye birashoboka cyane ko atagengwa mugihe ashyushye… kuburyo umufana muto wamufasha kwikonjesha asa nkuwatsinze byoroshye!
Kandi kuri piggy-back muburyo bwo kwitegura… tekereza kuba sawa nukuba umwana wawe adashobora kurya neza kuri uriya munsi hanyuma ukabireka. Ndashaka kuvuga, ntabwo nshaka kuvuga byanze bikunze "isukari yubusa-kuri bose!" ariko isukari irenze ibisanzwe birashoboka ko ari sawa.
Hanyuma, reka reka nguhe igitekerezo cya nyuma: menyesha abandi bana bose murugo rwawe ko ushobora kugenda mugihe undi mwana arwana, kugirango wizere ko uzoroha kurira no guhekenya amenyo asohoka bishobora gutera. Ariko umunsi urangiye, gusa uzi umwana nibibazo kandi ushobora kumenya icyaba / cyaba cyiza; niba gutera izo mbuto bishobora gutuma ibintu biba bibi, noneho biragaragara ko utabikora!
Aho kugirango utondeke ibishoboka byose (kuko ibyo ntibishoboka uko byagenda kose), ndaguha gusa aho utangirira kugirango ngufashe gutangira gutekereza ibintu binyuze MBERE yuko ugera kumugoroba wumuriro aho umwana wawe afite igisimba. gushonga kandi ufashwe utiteguye.
Gusa menya ko ibiruhuko bidashobora kuba mubyo utegereje (cyangwa byanze bikunze ushaka) ariko urashobora gushyira ibyo umwana akeneye imbere yibyanyu kuri uyumunsi / ibirori. Vuga, kurugero, mubyukuri ukunda fireworks kandi iyi niyo shusho yawe buri mwaka kugirango ubone kwerekana kumuntu. Ariko umwana wawe urera ahinduranya umupfundikizo we nyuma ya "boom" ya mbere bityo ugomba gupakira hanyuma ukagenda mbere yuko atandukana rwose (cyangwa mugihe arimo gutandukana). Gusa witegure kubikora… mubyukuri, ibwire mbere yigihe aricyo ugomba gukora… ariko utangazwe cyane niba mubyukuri, utarangije kubikora.
Umurongo w'urufatiro: ntuzafatwa utabizi! Ufite ibi kandi bizaba byiza… nubwo bidasa nkukwa kane Nyakanga mubihe byashize.
Mubyukuri,
Kris