Noneho… Nkurikira abantu benshi nimiryango itandukanye kurubuga rusange, inyinshi murizo zikemura ibibazo bijyanye no kurera no kurera.
Birashoboka ko nta guhungabana nyako.
Imwe muburyo bwihariye ikora memes yihariye yo kurera. Kandi ejobundi yasangiye meme ejobundi igira iti: "Hariho ibintu bitatu tutavuga: Fight Club, Bruno nihungabana ryabana bacu kuko ntabwo arinkuru yacu yo kuvuga."
Wow.
Iyo umwana aje kumwitaho kandi akaba ari mushya murugo rurererwa, abo hanze bahorana ibibazo byinshi, byaba umwanya wambere kumuryango urera cyangwa 25.
- Kuki barerwa? Byari ibiyobyabwenge? Ihohoterwa? Kwirengagiza? Indwara zo mu mutwe? (100% yigihe, ibiyobyabwenge burigihe nibitekerezo byambere)
- Ugiye kumurera?
- Azamara igihe kingana iki?
- Ni ibihe bibazo bafite? (Mubyukuri, akenshi usanga bititonda… mubisanzwe bisa nk "Ikibi kibagendekeye?")
Urutonde rukomeza kandi rukomeza.
Kandi ,, ntabwo aribibazo washobora kubaza kubandi bose, none kuki abantu bumva nkaho bikwiye gucengera mubibazo byihariye byumwana uhuye nihungabana ryo gukurwa mumuryango we ubyara?
Ntabwo bikwiye… burigihe.
Ntabwo byemewe… burigihe.
Nkababyeyi barera, igice cyakazi kacu nukurinda abana, kurinda ubuzima bwabo bwite, no kurinda inkuru zabo… cyane cyane mumatwi yumunwa numunwa wabantu badafite ubushake buke bwo gufasha umwana. Akenshi usanga ari abasebanya cyangwa abantu basanzwe babifite mumutwe uko buri mwana urera ameze, nuburyo ibintu byose bimeze, bityo bakaba bashaka amavuta kugirango barusheho kubogama… cyangwa bashaka kumva ko hari ukuntu “Mubimenye”.
Cyangwa ikiruta byose, bashaka kumenya umwanda kuri uyu mwana wumukene. Nibikorwa byumwana nubucuruzi bwumwana gusa; ntabwo ari uwundi muntu kugabana.
Noneho… niba uri umubyeyi urera kandi ukaba wasangiye byinshi (cyangwa niba uzi umubyeyi urera kandi wabajije ibibazo nkibi)… ntukihebe. Ntabwo bitinda gukora ibintu neza… cyangwa byibuze, komeza umunwa wawe ujye imbere. Kuberako nzemera mubwisanzure ko mugitangira urugendo rwacu, nagize ubwoba bwo kurinda abana murubu buryo.
Kandi ni ukubera iki? Impamvu yari inshuro ebyiri: ntabwo byigeze bintekereza ko ngomba kubika amakuru kuri njye ubwanjye, kandi nanone kubera impanuka. Ntabwo nagerageje gutangaza abandi bantu, ariko njye, njye ubwanjye, natangajwe nibyo numvise nibyo abana bahuye nabyo kandi sinshobora kubifunga.
Yikes… ibyo numva binteye ubwoba kuri ubu, ariko sinari nzi ibyo ntari nzi. Ariko NONAHA Ndabizi… niyo mpamvu rwose ndimo kubisangiza nawe, kugirango twizere ko uzirinda inzira mbi.
Kandi nzavuga ko kubwamahirwe twahise tumenya ko amakuru adakenewe gusaranganywa kuko ntabwo aribisobanuro byacu byo gusangira; nubwo twita kubana, twari, benshi cyangwa bake, abari hafi y'ibirori. Kandi ko abantu babaza ibibazo bari gusa.
Ubu rero ko nshobora kugucira urubanza ruke, ndashaka kuguha ubufasha buke muri ibyo bihe abantu BAKORA babaza ibibazo bidakwiye kubyerekeye abana bashinzwe… kuko niyo WIFUZA kuvuga ngo "Ntabwo arimwe mubikorwa byawe ”Ndashidikanya rwose ko benshi muri twe babikora, kabone niyo byaba ari mu burenganzira bwacu bwo kubikora mu rwego rwo kurinda abana.
Ahubwo, hano hari ibitekerezo bike byo gusuzuma no gushira mumufuka winyuma mugihe amahirwe abaye:
Kuki yakuweho?
Ntusobanuke, udasobanutse, udasobanutse. Tuvugishije ukuri, birashoboka ko utazi byinshi, cyane cyane hakiri kare murubanza kandi kugirango udasiga irangi umuryango wibinyabuzima mumucyo mubi, urashobora gusobanura byoroshye kandi byihuse ukoresheje ibintu nkibi, "Ntabwo tuzi amakuru menshi kuri iyi ngingo, ariko kuri ubu azagumana natwe kandi tuzamwitaho uko dushoboye… kandi mugihe hari icyahindutse kuri gahunda iriho, FCM yacu izatumenyesha. ”
Igisubizo nkicyo kirashobora gucecekesha Nellie byihuse. Kandi irashobora no gukoreshwa mubibazo nka "Azogumara igihe kingana iki?", "Amaze igihe kingana iki?", Na "Ni ibiki bimugendekeye?"
Iyo ubajijwe niba uzamurera (kuko UZABAZA), urashobora gutanga igisubizo nkiki, "Ntabwo ari twe twenyine twagira uruhare muri iki cyemezo… kandi kuri ubu gahunda irahuza, ninde? duhitamo gushyigikira. Ariko arashobora kuguma igihe cyose abikeneye. ”
Birumvikana, hariho ibibazo byinshi bishobora kuza inzira yawe; izi ni ingero ebyiri gusa zimwe murimwe zisanzwe. Ariko umurongo wanyuma: gira igisubizo witeguye (uko ushoboye) urinda umwana, ababyeyi be ninkuru zabo. Ndetse ujye no kwibaza mbere yo gusubiza: iki gisubizo kirenze uko nzakirwa cyangwa umwana? Niba kandi bikureba, igisubizo gishobora gukenera guhinduka.
Ihangane niba icyo gitekerezo kibabaza gato… ariko nitwe twinjiye mu nkuru zabo bityo bireba abo bahitamo hamwe nuburyo bahitamo gusangira.
Kandi kugira ngo woroshye igitekerezo cyanjye cyavuzwe haruguru… menya gusa ko hamwe nuguharanira kurinda ubuzima bwite bwabana bashinzwe, bashobora kumva bafite umutekano numutekano murugo rwawe, bishobora kubafasha gukira.
Mubyukuri,
Kris