Kwimuka uva munzu ujya mubindi ni ibintu bitesha umutwe cyane, muri byo ubwabyo. Ibyo aribyo byose bisa… hasi-nini, hejuru-nini, kwimuka kuringaniza… biva munzu ijya mubindi kandi birahangayitse.
Buri gihe uhangayitse.
Kandi uko wacamo kabiri, hari ibikoresho byinshi… ibisobanuro byose byiminota bishobora kukumira niba utitonze.
Bitangirana na decluttering (kurutonde rwinzu), hanyuma gupakira no guhanagura ibyo bintu byose wabitse utigeze wibuka ko ufite (kandi biragaragara ko udakeneye).
Byongeye kandi, kwimuka bisobanura gufatwa ningendo munsi yibuka mugihe ukuramo alubumu yamafoto cyangwa urwibutso mu ngendo, ibyabaye cyangwa kubantu badasanzwe mubuzima bwawe. Ndetse no gutekereza ku kwibuka wibutse mu rugo ugenda…
Hejuru yibyo bintu byamarangamutima ugomba kunyuramo, ugomba no gutondekanya ibikoresho byo kubona ibintu byose (nabantu bose) kuva ahantu hamwe ujya ahandi… Urasaba inshuti numuryango kugufasha? Ukoresha abimuka? Ukoresha Pod hanyuma ukimura ibintu gahoro gahoro kumuvuduko wawe mububiko hanyuma bakabasaba kwimurira ahantu hashya? Ahari koresha combo yinzira zirenze imwe yibikorwa? Hariho uburyo bwinshi bwo gusuzuma.
Birashobora kuba birenze.
Ariko iyo wongeyeho umwana kuva ahantu hakomeye murubwo buvange, birashobora kongera imbaraga zo guhangayika. Kuri buri wese.
Kandi kugirango bisobanuke: ntabwo arikosa ryumwana. Biragoye cyane kumwana wahuye nihungabana kunyura muribi. Muburyo bwinshi, nikindi gihombo kandi gishobora kumva kibabaza cyane kandi gitanga uburakari.
Niba rero bigoye cyane kwimukana numwana wahuye nihungabana, abantu bamwe bashobora kwibaza impamvu twabikora. Ariko hariho impamvu nyinshi zo kwimuka… rimwe na rimwe kwimuka nikintu cyiza ushobora gukora urebye uko ibintu bimeze ubu. Ahari ni kwimukira munzu nini, cyangwa inzu ifite ibikoresho byiza kumwana cyangwa umuryango muri rusange. Ahari ni kwimuka kumurimo mushya ugiye kuzana amafaranga menshi azafasha neza umuryango. Birashoboka ko kwimuka kumurimo uzatanga umwanya wubusa kugirango umuryango ubane. Birashoboka ko ari intambwe yo kuba hafi yumuryango. Hariho amajana, niba atari ibihumbi, byimpamvu umuryango wimuka, kandi ihahamuka ntabwo byanze bikunze bigomba kuba impamvu yo kutimuka.
Kugira ngo tubyumve neza, turi ku mpera yimbere yuru rugendo rugenda hamwe numuhungu, bityo bimwe mubyo nzabagezaho nubunararibonye bwanjye. Ibisigaye nibyo nakuye mubandi bari imbere yanjye muriyi nzira.
Ndashobora kukubwira ko kugeza ubu, twagiye tuvuga BYINSHI kuburyo ibintu byacu byose nimiryango yacu byose bizimukira munzu nshya. Nibihe bintu bizaba bimwe mumazu ashaje nayashya, nibishobora kuba bitandukanye.
Kandi twagiye tuvuga bimwe mubintu twizera ko tuzagira mumwanya mushya (aribyo, kugeza ubu, bitaramenyekana)… .inkoko, kurugero. Turi "twese" (ok, mvugishije ukuri, umuhungu wanjye muto na njye ni byiza cyane, ariko twigira nkabantu bose) twishimiye cyane igitekerezo cyo kugira inkoko.
Tutitaye kubyo tuvuga uko bizagenda, igikorwa cyo gupakira ibintu kugeza declutter no gushyira inzu kumasoko cyamuteye impungenge. Kubwamahirwe, ibi ntabwo byantangaje, kuko njye (mubyukuri) nzi icyo ntegereje… kurwego runaka, birumvikana; nkuko ushobora cyangwa utabizi, ihahamuka rikunda gutera ikarita yishyamba hari igihe.
Twagiye rero no kureba andi mazu. Mvugishije ukuri naganiriye kuri iki kibazo… ndamutse mfashe umuhungu wanjye muto kureba amazu cyangwa ngomba gutegereza kugeza igihe dufite “mu ntoki” hanyuma nkamujyana kukireba.
Nibyiza, nahisemo kumujyana munzu nyinshi kandi ntabwo byari biteye ubwoba cyane (birashoboka ko ntabigurisha hano, ariko niba ubana numwana wahuye nihungabana, ngira ngo uzamenya icyo nshaka kuvuga.) Kandi rimwe na rimwe byakoraga ko dushobora kugira uwicara kandi nabyo byabaye byiza.
Ntabwo bitangaje, inzu yose tureba, bisa nkaho umuhungu wacu akunda byimazeyo kandi niho ashaka kwimukira. Ibyo rero byabaye ingorabahizi gato kuko biragaragara ko tutazaba muri aya mazu YOSE. Kandi kugeza ubu, NTAWE mu mazu. Kugeza ubu, ntabwo tuzi neza icyo tuzakora… usibye gukomeza kureba.
Ndabizi kujya imbere inzu imaze kuba ku isoko, tuzagira ihungabana kuri gahunda yacu mugihe dufite ibyerekanwa munzu. Turizera ko tuzagira byinshi buri munsi muminsi yambere kugirango dushobore kuva munzu kumunsi kandi ntitugomba kuza no kugenda, kugaruka, gutura, hanyuma tugomba kongera kugenda muminota 20. Kuberako, kubwimpamvu zigaragara, ibyo ni ugutandukanya… kuri twese.
Turabizi ko umunsi wo kwimuka nyirizina bizamutera guhangayika cyane. Azajyana rero nuwitanga kuruhuka cyangwa inshuti yumuryango kumunsi. Cyangwa birashoboka ndetse no kugabanya umunsi mubice bibiri hagati yabashakanye ahantu hatandukanye.
Kumufasha rero kumenyera umwanya mushya byoroshye, mfite gahunda ihari (kandi nkurikije kumva abandi "bagiye imbere" muribi, birasa nkaho bigomba gukora.)
Ibintu bye (uburiri, amashuka, inyamaswa zuzuye, nibindi) bizaba ibintu byanyuma byo kujya mumamodoka munzu ishaje kugirango babanze babanze bave mumamodoka ahantu hashya-kuri-ahantu. Ubu buryo, dushobora kubona icyumba cye gipakurura, uburiri bukozwe kandi ibintu byose bikemurwa mugihe ageze murugo. Nta kindi kintu kigomba kuba mu nzu, usibye icyumba cye.
Birumvikana ko byaba byiza inzu isigaye ikurikirana igihe yagerayo, kuko ibyo (nibyiza) byafasha mumabwiriza ye, ariko biragaragara ko ataribyo. Tuzakora ibyo dushobora gukora kandi nibyo byiza dushobora gukora.
Turabizi ko mubice byose, tuzakenera gukomeza gahunda. Tugomba gukomeza guhumuriza. Tuzakenera kumwemerera gutembera munzu inshuro nyinshi (kandi byongeye), kugeza igihe azasobanurira ko ariho tuba ubu, kandi ibintu byacu birahari, kandi umuryango wacu urahari. Kandi nubwo hari impinduka nini mubuzima bwe, abantu nubusabane, bakomeje kuba bamwe.
Ibi bivuze ko ibintu byose bizagenda neza nkubudodo? Oya rwose.
Ntabwo aribwo rodeo yanjye yambere ifite ihahamuka rero niba hari ibyo nize ni ugutegereza ibitunguranye. Hazabaho gushonga, hazabaho uburakari, hazabaho guhangayika, bityo akazi kanjye, nkumwe mubarezi babiri bambere, ni ukuguma mu bwonko bwanjye bwo hejuru kandi nkagumya gutegekwa. Ninabikora, azashobora kongera gutegeka vuba vuba.
Ariko, kimwe nibintu byinshi hamwe numwana wanjye, ndumva bizakomeza kugorana… ariko ntibishoboka. Nubwo hari ibibazo biri imbere, turategereje kugenda muri aya mahirwe hamwe na we, kandi tukabona amahirwe yo kwiga kuri buri wese muri twe mugihe dukomeje gukunda, no kwiga no gukura hamwe, hamwe.
Mubyukuri,
Kris