Iyi niyo blog yanyuma muriki ruhererekane (yagombaga kuba nto ariko yarangije kuba inyandiko zigera kuri 6 kurenza uko nabitekerezaga)… kuko hariho ibintu byinshi cyane nshaka ko ubimenya. Ndashaka ko amaso yawe yugurura uko ashoboye. Kandi nubwo utazigera witegura byimazeyo uru rugendo, ndashaka ko byibura ushobora kuvuga uti: "Yego yego… ibi byanteye ubwoba, ariko rero nibutse Kris yabivugiye kuri blog ye."
Ibyo byavuzwe, inama zanjye zanyuma / amakuru niyi: ntuzigera witegura byimazeyo imyanya mishya, nubwo wagerageza gute. Ku rugero runaka, ndatekereza ko uyu mubyeyi urera akubiyemo neza igitekerezo cye: “Witegure guhaha amasogisi n'imyenda y'imbere kuri buri mwanya! ”
Noneho, biragaragara ko ushobora kugira, kumaboko, amasogisi n imyenda y'imbere mubunini bushoboka hamwe no guhuza igitsina… ariko mubyukuri ibyo ni ukuri gute? Ndatekereza ko igitekerezo cye (usibye ikigaragara) nuko burigihe harigihe uzakenera ikintu… kandi gishobora kuba kinini, gishobora kuba gito. Cyangwa birashobora kuba byombi.
Abana bakunze kuhagera nta kintu na kimwe (nkuko twabivuze mbere) bityo bizaba akazi k'umuryango urera gukusanya ibikenewe.
Biragaragara, ibintu bimwe na bimwe bizaba biri hafi. Kurugero, niba uzi ko uteganya kujyana abana bafite hagati yimyaka 0-4, urashobora gukeka ibikoresho (tekereza abamotari, intebe yimodoka, nibindi) uburiri, nibikinisho ushobora gukenera. Ariko ibintu nkamacupa, ibikombe, impuzu, imyambaro, amata, nibindi… .ntabwo byaba ari byiza kugira ubwoko bwose kumaboko. Amacupa cyangwa ibikombe? Nibyo… ariko ntibishobora kuba ubwoko umwana amenyereye arabyanga… bityo ugomba kugura byinshi. Intoki nkeya za buri bunini? Nibyo, ariko uzakenera kubona byinshi.
Kurugero, umuhungu wacu yari afite amezi arenga 3 gusa ariko yari yambaye imyenda nimpinja igihe yazaga bwa mbere. Na super-chill 8mo yashyizwe hamwe twambaraga imyenda y'amezi 18-24. Ingingo yo kuba: ntushobora kumenya kandi ntushobora guhora wibwira ingano uzakenera ukurikije imyaka.
Igitekerezo cyanjye muri ibi byose nuko ushobora kuba witeguye, ariko igice cyiyo myiteguro gishobora kuba muburyo bwurutonde rwibintu uzi ko ugomba kugura umwana amaze kuba murugo rwawe… kuko utazi icyo ntubizi. Kandi ntuzabimenya utarimo. Kandi nibyo!
Mubyukuri,
Kris