Uyu munsi ndashaka kuvuga bike mubinyoma bifitanye isano nurugo rwumubyeyi urera. Twese twabyumvise, ibyo nibindi bijyanye nibyo DCS isaba uruhushya rwo kurera; reka rero, reka tujye imbere dushyire ibintu bike hanze kugirango tubisobanure.
Nzatangirana nibintu byoroshye: ugomba gutunga urugo rwawe. SI UKURI. Ntugomba gutunga inzu yawe. Urashobora gukodesha. Urashobora kandi gutura muri kondomu cyangwa mu nzu, mugihe yubahirije ibisabwa kuri buri mwana nkuko biteganijwe na DCS.
Bikaba binzanye kumwanya wa kabiri: abana barera bagomba kugira ibyumba byabo. NUBUNDI NUKURI. Buri mwana agomba kugira metero kare 50 yuburiri bwihariye. Ibyo rero bivuze, kurugero, niba ufite icyumba cyo kuraramo gipima 10 × 10, urashobora gushyira abana babiri muri icyo cyumba. Urashobora no gukoresha ibitanda binini.
Hariho, ariko, ingingo zimwe zerekeye ushobora gusangira icyumba cyo kuraramo. Abana bahuje igitsina kandi bari munsi yimyaka itanu barashobora gusangira icyumba cyo kuraramo. Babiri bavukana bavukana ibitsina bitandukanye barashobora kugabana icyumba kugeza umuntu yujuje imyaka itanu. Nyuma yimyaka itanu, abavandimwe bavukana ntibashobora gusangira icyumba.
Kandi, abana ntibagomba kuba barumuna bavukana kugirango basangire icyumba, mugihe cyose bahuje igitsina. Imyaka (kubwimpamvu zigaragara) ntabwo ikina muriki gihe; icyakora, ndashaka gushyiramo ijambo ryanjye bwite. Kurugero, ntibishobora kuba uburyo bwiza kubabyeyi barera guhuza umwana wavutse hamwe nimyaka 15 gusa kuberako bahuje igitsina. Umuntu wese ufite umwana wavutse kandi / cyangwa ufite imyaka 15 arashobora rwose kumva impamvu iyo kubana itari nziza.
Ingingo ya gatatu: impinja kugeza kumyaka umuntu arashobora kuryama mucyumba kimwe nababyeyi barera. UKURI. Noneho, biragaragara ko hariho amategeko yerekeye ibi. NTA GUSINZIRA. Umwana agomba kuba muri bassinet ye cyangwa kuntebe ye (kandi NTIBISANZWE kuruhande… ibyo ntibyemewe na DCS, kabone niyo baba bafite stabilisateur kugirango itagwa).
Igihe umuhungu wacu yazaga kubana natwe, twatekereje ko kuryama mucyumba cyacu byaba byiza kandi byoroshye ibintu. Ariko twahise tumenya ko yari asinziriye cyane kandi bigaragara ko natwe twari. Rero, akimara kwimukira mucyumba cye twese twatangiye gusinzira neza. Ibi ndabivuze kugirango mvuge ko bishobora kuba byiza ariko kandi bifite ibibi… nko kubura ibitotsi byiza.
Kandi kwimukira kumurongo wa kane: abana barera ntibashobora gusangira uburiri. UKURI. Ndetse bavukana bavukana bahuje igitsina ntibashobora gusangira uburiri. Ibi birasa nkaho ari akarengane niba gusinzira hamwe aribyo byose bamenye kandi birashobora gutanga ihumure mugihe cyo kwimuka kwimuka murugo. Ariko, aya ni amategeko yasobanuwe na DCS kandi agomba kurinda abana bahohotewe kubera ubu buryo bwo gusinzira. Ntabwo ari ikintu dukunda gutekerezaho ariko abavandimwe barashobora guhohotera niba nabo ubwabo barahohotewe.
Kandi ingingo yanjye yanyuma: abana barera bagomba kugira imyenda yabo cyangwa akabati. SI UKURI. Mugihe badashobora gusangira uburiri hamwe, barashobora gusangira umwambaro cyangwa umwanya wo gufunga. Bagomba gusa kugira umwanya wabigenewe (ibishushanyo byihariye, amasuka, nibindi).
Nizere ko ibi bikuraho bimwe mubibazo ushobora kuba ufite kubijyanye nibisabwa murugo kandi bikagabanya bimwe mubiguhangayikishije cyangwa ubwoba. Mubunararibonye bwanjye, kuba abana bashobora gusangira icyumba akenshi usanga bahindura umukino kumiryango ishobora kurera.
Mubyukuri,
Kris