Rero, benshi muribo birashoboka ko bumvise ko ibirego byibinyoma rimwe na rimwe bishinja ababyeyi barera. Birashobora kuba impamvu utarajugunya ingofero yawe. Ubwoba bwo kugira "310 bwaguhamagaye" buteye ubwoba kandi burashobora kuba igitekerezo mumitekerereze yawe mugihe urera. Niba utarigeze wumva byinshi kuri ibyo, ndi hano kugirango nkumenyeshe ko yego, rimwe na rimwe bibaho.
Nshimiye ko ntafite byinshi byuzuye (ok ntanumwe wo kuvuga mubyukuri) uburambe bwumuntu ku giti cye ukemura ibirego byibinyoma, ariko nzi nabandi bafite.
Mfite ibi byo kuvuga, ariko. Twari dufite ibirego * bito * hakiri kare (ntacyo byaje) ariko nararwaye rwose munda kubwibyo ndashobora gusa kwiyumvisha uko nzumva meze nkurikije amategeko, ku mpapuro, hamwe niperereza, ibirego 310.
Mu ntangiriro z'umuhungu wacu, yagiye gusurwa n'ababyeyi babyaranye. Umubyeyi yahinduye umupfundikizo we kuri “ibi bishushanyo byose” yabonye ku mubiri we ubwo yahinduraga ikariso. Igihe DCS yamutoraguye ngo amuzane mu rugo (DCS yakoraga transport muri kiriya gihe… nubwo bitari bisanzwe, ni ko ikibazo cyacu cyatangiye), nyina yashimangiye ko DCS yamusuzuma kandi agafotora ibishushanyo. Ariko bose bari barazimiye!
Nibyiza, ni ukubera ko "ibishushanyo" yinubiye (byuzuye hamwe nibisobanuro byabo muri raporo yumuyobozi wabasuye) byari uduce duto duto twuruhu twatewe n imyenda ye nigitambara cye… kuburyo bigaragara DCS idashobora kwemeza raporo ya mama yihohoterwa ryacu kandi umukozi ushinzwe urubanza yashoboye gushyira ibyo birego kuruhuka vuba.
Ariko, ntabwo buri gihe aribyo. Rimwe na rimwe, guhamagarwa ni ibikorwa byo kurakara cyangwa kwihorera, nubwo bigaragara ko atari ababyeyi barera bakuye umwana mu rugo. Ababyeyi babyaranye rimwe na rimwe bumva uburakari cyangwa inzika kubabyeyi barera kuko bafite umwana. Kubera iyo mpamvu, ababyeyi babyaranye rimwe na rimwe bazahamagara umurongo wa telefoni uhohotera abana babeshya ababyeyi barera.
Ibindi bihe, 310s irashobora guhamagarwa mumashuri, abaganga cyangwa abaturanyi. Umuntu uwo ari we wese, mugihe utari ubizi, arashobora guhamagara. Muri Indiana, umuntu wese afatwa nkumunyamakuru utegetswe niba akeka ko yahohoteye cyangwa yirengagije umwana.
Noneho, rimwe na rimwe ibirego birashobora kurangira bigakorwa vuba. Ariko, birashobora kuba amezi mbere yuko ashyirwa kuruhuka rwose. Ibindi bihe, hariho iperereza rirerire, ubuhamya bwatanzwe, ibikorwa byurukiko… metero icyenda zose.
Kubera ko ntafite uburambe bwibanze kuri ibyo, nashakishije ibitekerezo kubabyeyi barera bafite. “Kurera ni urukurikirane rw'imisozi n'ibibaya; iyo 310 yinjiye, ni ikibaya kandi kiri hasi… kandi nubwo wumva uri wenyine, kandi urakaye kandi ufite ubwoba, birangira ugakomeza. A 310 ntabwo ari ikibazo niba ariko ariko, gusa rero ube inyangamugayo ureke ikigo cyawe kikurwanirira kandi kigushyigikire; kuba inyangamugayo ni politiki nziza byanze bikunze, ”ibi bikaba byavuzwe na Beth (izina ryahinduwe ku buzima bwite).
Nkuko Beth yabivuze, inama nziza kuri ubwo bwoko ni ukuba inyangamugayo kandi zeruye; subiza ibibazo, utange icyabajijwe hanyuma wicare utegereze. Umurongo w'urufatiro: Reka iperereza rikore kandi wihangane. Kandi gerageza ntuhangayike. Kenshi na kenshi, ibirego bizagaragazwa ko bidafite ishingiro kandi ibintu bizasubira "mubisanzwe".
Umurongo wo hasi niyi: gira umuntu mugice cyawe kugirango agufashe murwego. Ati: “CB yampumurije cyane kandi itanga amakuru mu kumpa amakuru ajyanye n'iperereza; Ntabwo nigeze ngomba guhiga umuyobozi wumuryango wa DCS kugirango menye ibibaye. Yakomeje kujyana n'igihe kandi yari hafi y'ibintu byose yize. ”, Deborah (izina naryo ryahinduwe).
Ibyo kuvuga byose: yego, ibirego byibinyoma bibaho; ariko, ndagushishikariza cyane kutareka ibyo bigutera ubwoba kure yo gusimbukira mu mpeta yo kurera. Iyo ufite ikigo gifite agaciro kabo (kandi birumvikana ko mvuga kuri Biro ishinzwe abana), inkunga uhabwa mugihe cyo kwibeshya kubeshya igufasha kumenya ko utari wenyine kandi ko ushobora guhangana niyi nkubi y'umuyaga. Deborah yagize ati: “CB yabaye igitangaza. Ati: “Nta kindi mfite uretse kubaha icyubahiro kuri bo. Baritonda cyane, bakomeze kugezwaho amakuru, kandi ntibunganira abana bawe gusa ahubwo bakanakwunganira. ”
Mugihe buri kibazo cyibinyoma kizaba gitandukanye, ndizera ko ibi bigufasha kugabanya ubwoba bwawe kuri "bigenda bite" muri byose.
Mubyukuri,
Kris