Uyu munsi, ndashaka kuvuga kubyerekeye amahugurwa ahoraho / gukomeza amashuri kubabyeyi barera kuko birakenewe kubabyeyi barera. Ntushobora kugumana uruhushya rwo kurera niba udahwema kwiga ibintu bishya bijyanye no kwita kubana bashinzwe.
Kugirango usubize inyuma intambwe, kubantu bashya muriki gikorwa, nkigice cyuruhushya rwawe, cyane cyane niba ubifitemo uruhushya binyuze mu bana 's Biro, uruhushya rwawe nubuvuzi kandi uzakenera amasaha 20 yimyitozo kumwaka kugirango ubungabunge. Kugirango byumvikane neza, aya ni amasaha 20 BURI WESE niba hari babiri murugo murugo babifitemo uruhushya.
Kurenga kimwe cya kabiri cyamasaha (byibuze 12) bigomba gukorwa binyuze mumahugurwa yumuntu. Amahugurwa yakiriwe na Biro yabana (biratangaje mugutanga amahitamo menshi mumwaka wawe) hamwe nandi mahugurwa uziga kubimenya mugihe ugenda murugendo rwawe. Amasaha asigaye arashobora gukorwa mugusoma igitabo cyangwa kureba firime ifite insanganyamatsiko yo kurera hanyuma ukuzuza urupapuro rwo kwerekana ko wajyanye. Niba ushaka ibitekerezo byibitabo, urashobora kureba inyandiko yanjye kuva kumasoko ubigiranye ubuhanga: Ibyifuzo byibitabo.
Icyiza mumahugurwa mato ni uko ufite amahirwe yo guhura nabandi babyeyi barera no gukora amasano yawe bwite amaherezo ashobora kuganisha muburyo bwimikorere ya sisitemu yo kugufasha. Ikigeretse kuri ibyo, irashobora kugufasha gukora amahuza kubatanga uburuhukiro mugihe ugomba kuba ukeneye ibyo. Urugo urwo arirwo rwose rwemewe na CB rwaba rwiza mugutanga ikiruhuko kumwana wawe; ariko byumvikane nibyiza rwose kumenya ababyeyi barera hakiri kare kandi bakagira icyo bafitanye nabo.
Ibindi bintu byiza byerekeranye namahugurwa mato, ingingo-imwe ni uko ushobora kuba ufite amahirwe yo "gucukumbura" kuriya gato kurenza uko wabishobora ukundi. Urashobora kuvaho ukumva ufite ibikoresho byiza cyangwa ubumenyi kubintu cyangwa ibihe uhura nabyo murugo rwawe.
Ariko, hari ikintu cyo kuvugwa kubyo ushobora gukuramo byose inama.
Noneho nzaba inyangamugayo… Nkunda inama nziza. Hariho ikintu gitera imbaraga kubana nabandi bantu bashishikajwe nibintu bimwe urimo kandi bahari biga. Nibyo, nzi neza ko benshi muribo bahari gusa kuko nibisabwa uruhushya rwo kubarera, ariko rimwe na rimwe urashobora gutsitara kuri mugenzi wawe mugenzi wanjye, nkanjye, wishimira kwiga, gusa kubwiga.
Ndashishikariza abantu kujya mu nama hamwe nuwo bashakanye cyangwa abandi bakomeye nabo babifitemo uruhushya… cyangwa mvugishije ukuri abandi babyeyi barera. Camaraderie ninziza ariko kugereranya inyandiko kuva mugice kimwe nubushishozi cyane.
Kandi, birashimishije kuganira nabitabiriye andi masomo bakumva ibyo bize. Kurugero, Nagiye mu nama mu mpeshyi hamwe ninshuti zanjye umwe muribo yagiye mukiganiro ku kintu cyitwa "Umunaniro wimpuhwe" (nanone bita Care Block). Ntabwo nari nzi icyo aricyo kuburyo ntatekerezaga ko byangiriye akamaro. Ariko, nyuma yo kumva ibyo abivugaho nyuma yamasomo, nifuzaga ko NAZitabira; ariko kubwamahirwe, nashoboye gufata igihe nkakireba wenyine. BTW, kubera ko ari ikintu ntari narigeze numva, ariko nahise mbona ko ari ngombwa ko ababyeyi barera babimenya, mubyukuri ngiye kubagezaho amakuru kubyerekeye mwese mu nyandiko iri imbere.
Igitekerezo cyanjye muribi byose nukomeza urugendo rwawe hanze ya silo. Ntushobora kuba umubyeyi urera wenyine, ukeneye inkunga, kandi hamwe niyi nkunga haza amahirwe yo kwiga… ntabwo ari wowe ubwawe ahubwo ni abana bashinzwe kandi nuburyo ushobora kubakorera neza.
Noneho, dore umwanya wanjye w'isabune-agasanduku kuriyi: nubwo bitasabwaga, twese dukwiye gukomeza kwiga no gukura no guharanira gutanga ibyiza byuzuye kuri aba bana kuva ahantu hakomeye. Bose bakwiriye umuntu ubatsindira, kandi niba batabonye ibyo mumiryango yababyaye, noneho bagomba kubibona mubyanyu… kandi inzira nziza yo kubikora burigihe nukwiga.
Mubyukuri,
Kris