Iyi nyandiko rero irashobora kuba ngufi kurenza ibisanzwe… kubwimpamvu ebyiri: ni ibiruhuko kandi abantu barahuze kandi birashoboka ko atari benshi muribo niba ushaka kwicara ugasoma inyandiko ndende.
Icya kabiri, icyo ngomba gutanga ni cyoroshye kandi cyoroshye.
Noneho menye ko, kuri bamwe muri mwe, mufite bike kugirango mutabonana na gato numuryango wibinyabuzima. Kandi ndabyumva rwose. Ntakintu ushobora, cyangwa udashobora gukora. Byose mubibero byabo. Ariko kubo mufite aho bahurira, cyangwa byibuze ufite umukozi wa dosiye ya Firefly cyangwa umukozi wa DCS cyangwa umugenzuzi wasuye ufite ubushake kandi bushoboye gusangira ubutumwa cyangwa ibintu hagati yawe mwembi, ibi birakureba.
Icyo nshaka kuvugaho (muri make) uyumunsi ni uguhuza umuryango wibinyabuzima mugihe cyibiruhuko… mugihe ari umutekano kandi ufite ubuzima bwiza kumwana.
Noneho nzi neza ko mwese mwigeze mwumva igitekerezo cyo kuzigama ubukorikori cyangwa bubiri umwana wawe akora mwishuri kugirango aha umuryango wibinyabuzima, cyane cyane mubiruhuko nibindi. Kandi icyo ni igitekerezo cyiza. Amashusho, kopi yinzandiko kuri Santa, ubwo bukorikori bwose bwo gucapa intoki, nibindi
Ariko ikintu nasomye vuba aha kivuga kubyibuka ibiryo bimwe na bimwe bitera. Njye n'umuryango wanjye kubwanjye dufite ibintu byinshi twibuka bifitanye isano nibiryo nibiruhuko kuburyo byumvikana ko abandi baba bafite ibintu nkibyo kwibuka. Kuri njye, Tariki ya Kane Nyakanga ijyana na ice cream yo mu rugo; urugo rwakozwe na bombo ya bombo buri gihe itaka Noheri; na Thanksgiving na mincemeat kuki gusa ntishobora gutandukana. Noneho kururugero rwanyuma… Simvuze ko NKUNDA kuki ya mincemeat, ariko nyogokuru yahoraga ayikora kuri Thanksgiving kuburyo ngereranya bombi hamwe.
Dore rero impamvu nkubwira ibisa nkamakuru arenze kuri njye ubwanjye: Icyo nasomye cyerekanaga ko bishoboka rwose ko ari bimwe mubibazo intimba imiryango yibinyabuzima hamwe nabana bumva hafi yibiruhuko nuko batizihiza nkuko babifite mu myaka yashize… kandi ibiryo bimwe na bimwe byibiribwa rimwe na rimwe bihuzwa nibyo.
Sinzi ibyanyu ariko guhumuriza ibiryo nibyingenzi kuri njye. Ntabwo nigeze mpitamo ibirori byumuryango nzitabira nkurikije umuntu uzaba afite ibiryo byiza byiza, ariko byakubiswe mubiganiro.
Ibyo rero byavuzwe, byasa bite mugihe ababyeyi barera babajije umuryango wabana wumwana umwe (cyangwa resept nyinshi) bo (ababyeyi cyangwa basogokuru) bishimira nkabana ubwabo, cyangwa ikintu bahoraga bakorera abana babo ubu barimo ubwitonzi. (Hanyuma nibabisaba, ababyeyi barera barashobora kubaha resept umwana wabo yishimira iki gihembwe).
Kandi mbega ukuntu byaba ari byiza kubabyeyi bavutse kumenya ko batishimira gusa pome ya pome bakunda kugira mugihe cyibiruhuko, ariko nabana babo nabo… ariko kuberako ababyeyi barera bafashe umwanya wo kubaza.
Kandi kuruhande rwa flip: abana babo nabo bishimira shokora ya shokora oatmeal kuki kandi nabo barahari, kuko umuryango wabareze wasangiye nabo resept.
Mu rwego rwo kugerageza ibi mbere yuko mbisaba mwese… Njyewe ubwanjye nabikoze ubwanjye muri iki cyumweru gishize. Noneho, ntabwo nabonye resept ifatika, nkuko nabyifuzaga, ariko kandi ntabwo natunguwe cyane (ntabwo aribyo kumunegura, ariko ndakubwira ngo utange igitekerezo ko mubyukuri utagomba kugira resept kugirango iyi sano ibeho). Nubwo ntabonye resept, mama wumuhungu wumuhungu yashoboraga kumbwira icyo aricyo bahora barya mugihe cyibiruhuko. Ni cheri cheesecake, yaguzwe mububiko bw'ibiribwa.
Noneho niba unzi nagato, uziko nkunda imbuto kandi nkunda dessert ariko sinkunda imbuto muri dessert yanjye mubyukuri, igitekerezo cya cheesecake ya cheri ituma igifu cyanjye gihinduka gato.
Ariko gusetsa kuruhande, ndumva ko ibi bitandeba; ibi bireba umwana wanjye n'umuryango we wavutse. Kandi nubwo atigeze agira cheri cheesecake (hamwe na nyina wamubyaye cyangwa ukundi), kumenya ko arikintu akunda kuri Noheri bishobora gufasha gukora iyo sano hagati yabo bombi.
Ibindi yavuze birashoboka ko mubyukuri nzabikora: imipira yinyama hamwe na barbecue na jelly mumasafuriya, hamwe nibiteke bya buto. Ibyo birashoboka rwose, kandi ndi 100% rwose umwana wanjye yabishaka. Ashobora kandi gukunda foromaje, ariko sinzi neza ko kugeza ubu tugomba gukora ibyo uko ari bitatu… yakuweho akiri uruhinja kandi ntabwo yigeze asangira na kimwe muri ibyo, kugirango atazagira ibyo “kwibuka”.
Kandi na none… kubera ko ntafite ibisubizo kuri kimwe muri byo, ngiye gukoresha Pinterest kandi nizere ko nzabona hafi. Ibisobanuro ntabwo aribyo rwose… ni igitekerezo cyacyo, nicyo imbaraga zikora mubucuti.
Ibyo ari byo byose, nashakaga kubishyira hanze nkibiryo byo gutekereza, guhana, kugirango uburyo bumwe (cyangwa byibuze urutonde rwibiribwa ukunda kuruhuka) bishobora kuba inzira yo gufasha guhuza umuryango wawe nuwumwana wawe umuryango ukomokamo, kimwe hagati yawe n'umwana wawe urera; byibuze, ushobora kuyiha akayaga ukareba uko bigenda.
Mubyukuri,
Kris