Mu rwego rwo kumenyekanisha byuzuye, nashakaga gusangira amakuru yukuntu ibintu bigenda bikurikira urugendo rwacu.
Ariko mbere yuko nkubwira ibyo, ngomba kubabwira ibi: Usibye rero kuba dufite ubufindo na byinshi (na byinshi) byo gukora isuku no gusiga amarangi kugirango dukore, twagize ubundi buryo bwo gusana / guhindura byinshi byakorewe aho hantu (ni urugi shyira mu bwiherero bukuru aho nta muryango wigeze ubanza… ni iki ku isi, sibyo?!?; igorofa itunguranye yashwanyaguritse mu byumba bitatu… hanyuma irasimburwa; abafana b'igisenge barashiraho; chimney irasanwa; itanura n'imiyoboro isukurwa… n'ibindi n'ibindi )
Ibyo bivuze kubura gahunda yo kwiga murugo… kandi dukunda gahunda nziza. Nzi neza ko benshi muri mwe (babaho kandi batabana nihungabana) bashobora kubana.
Kandi igice cyibi cyasobanuye abantu benshi (bamwe muribo umuhungu wanjye yari abizi mbere nabandi atabizi) munzu no hanze kugirango bafashe mugusukura, gushushanya no gusana.
Byongeye kandi, hari ibihe bidasanzwe bishobora gutera ubwabo ubwabo… umunsi wamavuko yumuryango (kandi sinzi ibyakubayeho ariko umunsi wamavuko urimo utera umuhungu wanjye… ntabwo ari umunsi we w'amavuko.) Hanyuma tugira Thanksgiving. .
Noneho Noheri iregereje vuba kuri twe, izanazana impinduka nyinshi mubikorwa, ibiteganijwe, nibindi… kimwe nigitero cyibyishimo byinshi, isukari nibintu byose.
Nibyinshi.
Byongeye… abahungu bacu bakuru bombi bari murugo bava muri kaminuza kubwo gushimira, hanyuma basubira mwishuri… kandi bazongera gutaha vuba hafi ukwezi… nibyiza (mubyukuri bose bakundana kandi muri rusange babanye neza nkuko abavandimwe babishobora ). Ariko nanone inyuma na gahunda zabo baba mu nkambi y "indi mpinduka / igihombo" nkuko ushobora kuba ubizi, ihahamuka ntirishobora gukemura neza.
Ibi byose rero byabaye (kandi yego, byumvikana nkurwitwazo rwinshi, kandi mubyukuri birashoboka ko biri murwego runaka), usibye kwimuka.
Ariko kubo mukurikirana murugo, tumaze amezi arenga abiri dukurikira kwimuka kwacu, kandi nifuzaga rwose kubaha amakuru yerekana niba inama zanjye za mbere zari zikomeye… ariko navuga ko inteko y'abacamanza ikiri ubwoko. hanze.
Nifuzaga rwose ko navuga ko nayishyizeho imisumari… nkurikiza inama zanjye zose, ntagize ibibazo bitunguranye mu nzira kandi ibintu byagenze neza.
Ariko iyi ni ihahamuka, sibyo? Kandi ni n'inzu yari ifite abana 6 bayibamo mbere kandi ntibigaragara ba nyirayo babanje gutunga mope, vacuum cyangwa igikarabiro. Ibyo birasobanura bihagije, sibyo?
Mubyukuri rero birashoboka ko joriji idasohoka rwose nubwo.
Bimwe mubyo nasangiye mu nyandiko yanjye yambere ndizera ko byafashije inzira yinzibacyuho: kumenyera aho hantu byafashije cyane umuhungu wanjye.
Ariko, nkuko benshi mubizi, abana bava ahantu habi barwana nimpinduka. Sinzi umwana wagize ihungabana ariko NTIBIGANIRA guhinduka. Cyangwa witwaze ubwoba bwo guhinduka. Cyangwa ugire impungenge zimpinduka.
Tuvugishije ukuri rero, kwimuka ubwabyo byagenze neza. Ijoro ryabanjirije kwimuka, umuhungu wanjye, wasaga nkuwishimye kandi akaba yarasezeranye igice kinini kijyanye no kwimuka, yarampobeye, maze ncecetse, ijwi ritoyi mu ijwi rye, arambaza ati: "Kuki tugomba kuva muri ibi? inzu? ” Kandi umutima wanjye wacitsemo ibice miriyoni, kuko bwari ubwambere mugihe cyose cyimikorere yose yerekanaga ibitekerezo byose bihangayikishije.
Ariko tumaze kwimuka, ntabwo yigeze (byibuze n'amagambo) asubiza amaso inyuma kandi ibintu byari byiza… ibi bihe byose bidasanzwe kuruhande, birumvikana.
Nzongera kohereza kubyerekeye umwaka mushya (rwose ntabwo ari muri Mutarama, kuko iyo minsi mikuru izaba ikiri nshya). Ariko ndizera ko watewe inkunga yo kumva ko ihungabana ridakemura neza igihombo cyiyongereye, kandi nubwo washyizeho umwete, kwimuka nihahamuka bishobora kurangira ari urutare ruto.
Mubyukuri,
Kris