Uyu munsi ngiye gusubiramo ingingo ya ACE Quiz, nayibagejejeho mumyaka mike ishize, ndetse no kongeramo ibikoresho (PACEs) namenye kuva.
Ubwa mbere tuzatangirana na ACE Ikibazo. "ACE" bisobanura Ubunararibonye bwabana bato kandi amanota ya ACE ni umubare wubwoko butandukanye bwo guhohoterwa, kutitaweho, nibindi biranga umwana bishobora kugorana. Ukurikije ubushakashatsi bwa ACE, bwateje imbere ikibazo, uko bigoye cyane mu bwana bwawe, niko amanota yawe ashobora kuba menshi; ibi birashobora guhinduka mubitekerezo byamarangamutima mugihe gito kandi kirekire, ariko kandi ibyago byinshi kubibazo byubuzima nyuma. Kugirango urusheho kugufasha kumva ikibazo cya ACEs, hano ni:
Mbere yimyaka 18 y'amavuko:
1. Ese umubyeyi cyangwa undi muntu mukuru murugo kenshi cyangwa kenshi: Kurahira, kugutuka, kugushyira hasi, cyangwa kugusuzugura? Cyangwa, kora muburyo bwaguteye ubwoba ko ushobora gukomeretsa kumubiri?
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2. Ese umubyeyi cyangwa undi muntu mukuru murugo kenshi cyangwa kenshi: Gusunika, gufata, gukubita inshyi, cyangwa kugutera ikintu? Cyangwa, wigeze kugukubita cyane kuburyo wagize ibimenyetso cyangwa wakomeretse?
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3. Ese umuntu mukuru cyangwa umuntu byibuze ufite imyaka 5 kukurusha: Gukoraho cyangwa kugukunda cyangwa wigeze ukora kumubiri wabo muburyo bwimibonano mpuzabitsina? Cyangwa, gerageza cyangwa mubyukuri ufite imibonano, umunwa, cyangwa ibyara?
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4. Wigeze wumva kenshi cyangwa kenshi cyane ko: Ntamuntu numwe mumuryango wawe wagukunze cyangwa wibwiraga ko ufite akamaro cyangwa udasanzwe? Cyangwa, ko umuryango wawe utarebaga undi, ukumva uri hafi, cyangwa ngo ushyigikire?
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5. Wigeze wumva kenshi cyangwa kenshi cyane ko: Ntabwo wari ufite ibyo kurya bihagije, ugomba kwambara imyenda yanduye, kandi ntanumwe wagukingira? Cyangwa, ko ababyeyi bawe bari basinze cyane cyangwa hejuru kuburyo batakwitaho cyangwa bakakujyana kwa muganga niba ubikeneye?
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6. Ababyeyi bawe bigeze batandukana cyangwa baratandukanye?
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7. Nyoko wawe cyangwa nyoko wawe yaba yarasunitswe kenshi, agafatwa, akubitwa urushyi, cyangwa hari ikintu yamuteye? Cyangwa, rimwe na rimwe, kenshi, cyangwa kenshi cyane gukubitwa imigeri, kurumwa, gukubitwa agafuni, cyangwa gukubitwa n'ikintu gikomeye? Cyangwa, wigeze gukubita inshuro byibura iminota mike cyangwa ukangishwa imbunda cyangwa icyuma?
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8. Wabanaga numuntu wese wanyoye inzoga cyangwa inzoga, cyangwa wakoresheje ibiyobyabwenge kumuhanda?
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9. Umwe mu bagize urugo yarihebye cyangwa arwaye mu mutwe, cyangwa umwe mu bagize urugo yagerageje kwiyahura?
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10. Umwe mu bagize urugo yagiye muri gereza?
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Noneho ongeraho ibisubizo byawe "Yego": ___ Naya manota yawe ya ACE.
Nashakaga kuvuga kuri ibi kuko abana benshi barera bafite amanota menshi ya ACE. Mubyukuri, hafi 50 ku ijana byabana muri gahunda yimibereho yumwana bafite ACE enye cyangwa zirenga; ugereranije, 13 ku ijana gusa byabana hanze yita kubana bafite ACE enye cyangwa zirenga. Byongeye kandi, nk'uko ubushakashatsi buherutse gukorwa bubigaragaza, “Abana barererwa nibura inshuro eshanu bashobora kugira impungenge, kwiheba ndetse / cyangwa ibibazo by'imyitwarire kurusha abana batarera.” Igihe kirekire, abantu bafite amanota menshi ya ACE nabo mubisanzwe bafite ubwiyongere bwuburwayi bwumubiri nabwo, bimwe bikaviramo gupfa mbere.
Ubu ibyo byose bivuze iki kuri wewe nkumubyeyi urera? Nibyiza, birashobora gusobanura ko umwana wawe azagira ibibazo byinshi n'inzitizi zo gutsinda. Ariko igitekerezo cyanjye muriyi nyandiko ntabwo ari "umwijima n'amakuba." Wibuke ko nubwo ari ikimenyetso cyibihe byashize, ikibazo cya ACE ntabwo byanze bikunze byahanuwe. Ntabwo bivuze ko ibyo * bishobora * kubaho * bizaba *; abantu bafite amanota menshi ya ACE barashobora gutsinda cyane kandi bagakora neza mubuzima, ndetse barashobora no guhangana nimwe mumitego ishobora guterwa nihungabana ryabana bato.
Umurongo w'urufatiro: amanota yose ya ACE akora nukubwira ubwoko bumwe bwibintu bishobora guteza ibyago muri benshi. Ntabwo izirikana genetiki yumwana cyangwa imirire. Ntabwo izi niba umwana (tugiye gufata umwangavu ufite iyi myitwarire ariko ikibabaje nuko ntabwo byunvikana kubana bato) anywa cyangwa anywa itabi birenze urugero, cyangwa akora ibiyobyabwenge bitemewe, ibyo byose byagira ingaruka kumagara no mumubiri.
Ariko cyane cyane wibuke ibi kandi: amanota ya ACE ntuzirikane uburambe bwiza mubuzima bwambere bushobora gufasha kubaka imbaraga no kurinda umwana ingaruka zihahamuka. Aha niho PACE ziza gukina; PACE isobanura Uburambe bwo Kurinda no Kwishyura (Nabonye kandi nka PCEs, kandi bisobanura Ibyiza Byabana Byabana - ni ikibazo kimwe kandi gifite ingaruka zimwe, ni izina ritandukanye).
Dore ikibazo cya PACEs:
Mbere yimyaka 18 y'amavuko:
1. Ese umubyeyi cyangwa abandi bantu bakuru murugo bagukunze bitagabanije (ntiwashidikanyaga ko bakwitayeho)?
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2. Wari ufite byibuze inshuti imwe magara (umuntu ushobora kwizera no kwinezeza)?
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3. Wigeze ukora ikintu buri gihe kugirango ufashe abandi (urugero, kwitanga mubitaro, inzu yita ku bageze mu za bukuru, itorero) cyangwa wakoze imishinga idasanzwe mu baturage kugirango ufashe abandi (gutwara ibiryo, Ingeso yubumuntu, nibindi)?
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4. Wigeze ugira uruhare mumatsinda ya siporo yateguwe (urugero, umupira wamaguru, basketball, inzira) cyangwa indi myitozo ngororangingo (urugero, impundu zo guhatanira amarushanwa, imikino ngororamubiri, imbyino, itsinda ryamamaza)?
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5. Wari umunyamuryango wibikorwa byibuze byibuze itsinda ryabasivili cyangwa itsinda ryimibereho itari siporo nkabaskuti, itorero cyangwa itsinda ryurubyiruko?
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6. Wari ufite ibyo ukunda, cyangwa imyidagaduro yubuhanzi cyangwa ubwenge haba wenyine cyangwa mumatsinda (urugero, club ya chess, itsinda ryimpaka, ibikoresho byumuziki cyangwa itsinda ryijwi, ikinamico, inzuki zanditse, cyangwa wasomye byinshi)?
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7. Hari umuntu mukuru (ntabwo ari umubyeyi wawe) wizeraga kandi ushobora kwiringira mugihe ukeneye ubufasha cyangwa inama (urugero, umutoza, minisitiri wabarimu, umuturanyi, umuvandimwe)
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8. Inzu yawe yari isanzwe ifite isuku KANDI ifite umutekano hamwe nibiryo bihagije byo kurya?
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9. Muri rusange, amashuri yawe yatanze ibikoresho nuburambe bwamasomo ukeneye kwiga?
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10. Mu rugo rwawe, hari amategeko yasobanutse kandi yatanzwe neza?
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Noneho ongeraho ibisubizo byawe "Yego": ___ Naya manota yawe ya PACE.
Nkuko ushobora kubivuga uhereye kubibazo bya PACEs, bitewe gusa no kugira umubyeyi ugukunda, umwarimu ugusobanukirwa kandi akakwemera, cyangwa umuturanyi wizewe ushobora kubwirana bishobora kugabanya ingaruka nyinshi z'igihe kirekire. ihahamuka ryo mu bwana; umubano umwe gusa wita, ufite umutekano hakiri kare mubuzima biha umwana uwo ari we wese ishusho nziza yo gukura neza.
Byongeye kandi, uruhare rwabaturage, ibyo kwishimisha no kugira uruhare mubikorwa byo kwishora nabyo byongera amanota ya PACEs. Iyi mikoranire myiza hakiri kare yerekanwe no gufasha abana kwiga nyuma no gusoma. Icy'ingenzi cyane, bizamura abana kwihangana, mubafasha kubaka imigereka itekanye… ubwo ni ubuhanga bazajyana nabo kandi bagakoresha mubuzima bwabo bwose.
Twizere ko ibi bibazo bigufasha kumva neza ihahamuka ningaruka bigira ku bana imbere… hamwe ninyungu zumubano mwiza.
Mubyukuri,
Kris