Ubushize twaganiriye kubintu / impano zijyana nabana iyo batashye mumuryango wibinyabuzima cyangwa kurundi rugo rurerera.
Uyu munsi ngiye kuvuga kubintu byinyongera ushobora gushaka gutekereza kohereza mugihe umwana ahuye numuryango bakomokamo.
Noneho, twese Tuzi ko guhura ari gahunda kuva urubanza rutangira. Nibura muri 99.99% yimanza ni. Ariko ibyo ntibisobanura ko ntaho bihurira hagati yumuryango urera numwana. Mubyukuri, ni umugereka uzafasha umwana mugukiza kwe kubera ihahamuka.
Umugereka nicyo aricyo, birashobora rimwe na rimwe kugorana cyane gutekereza kohereza umwana inyuma. Wowe, nk'ababyeyi barera, uzagira ibihe bitoroshye ariko umwana nawe. Kandi kubera ko icyo ushyira imbere ari umwana ukamufasha guhangana namarangamutima mugihe cyinzibacyuho, ndashaka gutanga ibitekerezo bike kubintu byinyongera ushobora kohereza hamwe numwana kugirango bigende neza bishoboka.
Usibye ibintu byaguzwe hamwe namafaranga ya DCS nimpano zitangwa numuryango wibinyabuzima, ushobora no gutekereza kohereza hamwe muribi bikurikira:
• Imyenda yose iracyakwiriye, kandi birashoboka ndetse na bike mubunini bukurikira hejuru
• Humura ibintu (inyamaswa zuzuye, ibiringiti, nibindi… hafi yibyo bashobora gukoresha murugo rwawe, cyangwa ibintu nyirizina ubwabo bafite ibikoresho byo gukuramo)
• Ibikinisho ukunda (niba uzi mbere ya Noheri cyangwa isabukuru y'amavuko ko guhura biri hafi, saba kwigana ibintu ukunda umwana kugirango umuntu agumane nawe kandi umuntu ashobora kujyana numwana)
• Igitabo cyangwa igikinisho gishobora kwandika amajwi yawe kugirango umwana akine mugihe akubuze
• Impapuro zerekana abaganga bashiraho, abavuzi, ishuri, nibindi, hamwe namakuru yamakuru kuri bose
• Ibaruwa ifite gahunda isanzwe yumwana nurutonde rwibintu akunda, ibiryo, ibikorwa, nibindi.
• Bimwe mubiryo akunda kurya, kugirango ababyeyi batangire bio; ibi byaba byiza cyane kandi bitanga mugihe imari ishobora kuba urugamba kumuryango.
• Amafoto… byombi igitabo cyamafoto yumwana hamwe nabantu bo mumuryango urera (hashobora no kubamo umuryango mugari, inshuti zumuryango, nibindi), ariko urashobora kandi kohereza amafoto arekuye yumwana gusa mama we bio akora nkuko abibona. bikwiye.
• Numero yawe ya terefone cyangwa aderesi imeri, ntabwo nigeze mbikora kubwanjye kuko amahirwe ntabwo yigaragaje; ariko, nzi abandi babyeyi barera bafite. Ibi biha umuryango wibinyabuzima inkunga yinyongera kandi barashobora kuba bagusaba ubufasha mukurera abana nkuko babikeneye. Noneho, nzi ko ibi atari ibya bose. Ariko, nuburyo bwo gushyigikira ababyeyi, kandi ugakomeza umubano numwana wakuze ukunda… kandi ukemerera uwo mwana gukomeza kugirana nawe nawe. (byinshi kuriyi ngingo ubutaha!)
Uru biragaragara ko atari urutonde rwuzuye. Mugihe unyuze murugendo rwawe rwo kurera imyanya yihariye izakenera ibintu bitandukanye; uzashobora guhuza buri mwana kugirango umenye icyashobora gukora inzibacyuho yoroshye.
Mubyukuri.
Kris