“M.ubutare burenze imyaka itatu mbere Siyoni C.hristopher yavutse, narose inzozi zisubiramo ko umuntu yatwizeza umwana wabo w'umuhungu. ” S.halonda, an umubyeyi urera hamwe Firefly ati.
S.halonda na J.ames bashakanye imyaka 25 kandi barera abana 6 hamwe. Baneose abana kuba biologiya, na babiri bato kwinjira umuryango binyuze mubyitaho.
Kwita ku bavandimwe bikubiyemo gushyira umwana hamwe na mwene wabo - nka sekuru, nyirasenge, nyirasenge, nyirarume, cyangwa undi muntu wo mu muryango - igihe ababyeyi bavutse batabishoboye.
Mugihe bizihiza ibyabo intambwe isabukuru yuyu mwaka, abashakanye batekereza kumyaka itanu ishize nurugendo bakoze kugirango barere abana babo kumugaragaro, Siyoni Christopher na Desirae.
Iyo mbere yakiriye guhamagarwa n’ishami rishinzwe serivisi z’abana (DCS), bo vuba yemeye kubyemeza abavandimwe wByaguma hamwe. Kuri S.halonda, byumvaga ari intambwe yo gusohoza inzozi ze za mbere, nubwo twumva ibibazo bitandukanye biri imbere.
“Kuyobora kwita ku bavandimwe, kurerwa, no kurera ntabwo rwose ari intege nke z'umutima,“ ati.
Shalonda asangira akanya n'umukobwa we, Desirae (ibumoso).
Nubwo hari izo ngorane, umuryango uremera ko abana babo bashobora kuba bahuye nibindi bitandukanye kandi bidashidikanywaho nta gutabara hanze nka many abagize umuryango bari kenshi yagize uruhare muri gahunda ya gereza kandi arwana no kunywa ibiyobyabwenge.
Bumvise akamaro ko guca ukubiri nimiryango yabo.
Ibikorwa byasabye imbaraga zihamye no kwihangana, ariko Shalonda na James bavuze ko abana babo bakuru bagaragaje gukura no kumva ko bafite inshingano, batanga inkunga kandi babatera inkunga murugendo rwabo.
Ati: "Urabizi, igihe twatekerezaga kujugunya mu gitambaro abana, abana bacu bakuru barazamutse rwose, kuko na bo bakuze babakunda".
Abana babo babyaranye, bamaze kugirana umubano ukomeye na barumuna babo kandi bahuza neza nimiryango mishya.
Shalonda yashimangiye ati: "Kwihangana kw'umuryango wacu guturuka ku gufatanyiriza hamwe - kwizera, gufasha abaturage, ndetse n'itsinda ryitanze ryatumye iyi mibanire ishoboka."
Mugihe cyo kuruhuka, uyu muryango ukunda kumara umwanya uruhutse no kureba firime hanyuma ukabiganiraho hamwe. Ibi bihe byoroshye bifasha abantu bose kwiyumvamo hafi. Basura inzu ndangamurage y'abana bakajya gukina, bamarana n'umuryango kandi bajya gusengera hamwe, bishimira ibihe byiza bashobora kubona.