Noneho bamwe murimwe musoma ibi birashobora kuba bitarera, ibi rero ntibishobora gukurikizwa kugeza ubu, ariko nizere ko haracyari ikintu cyo guhunika kubwo kubatera inkunga kubo bajugunye ingofero mbere.
Umuryango wanjye rero uri muriyi nzira yo gushengura umutima numunezero mwinshi ubu hashize imyaka 10. Ibyo bivuze ko tumaze imyaka 10 tubana nihungabana, twiga kubyerekeye ihahamuka, duhura nihungabana ryacu twiga kubyerekeye gukira, kandi dufite urwego rwo gukira… kandi kuruta ibindi byose, navuga, twabonye ko twese dufite ibibazo byacu bwite kugirango dukore… kandi binyuze muri ibi byose byo kwiga no kwibonera, nahuye nabantu benshi batangaje.
Kubera iyo mpamvu, ngomba kuvuga ko nacishijwe bugufi rwose kandi nubashywe no kubona gusangira inkunga zanjye muri uyu mwanya. Ningomba kwemeza ko akenshi numva ntujuje ibisabwa kuba uwo kugutera inkunga muriyi nyandiko, ariko mvugishije ukuri birashoboka ko ariyo mpamvu nkora ibi… atari kubwawe gusa, ahubwo no kubwanjye; Ndumva natewe inkunga iyo nshishikarije abandi.
Noneho, ntabwo ngiye kubeshya: ibintu murugo rwacu ntabwo buri gihe ari ibintu byiza. Bikunze kugaragara kubabyeyi, cyane cyane ihahamuka ryababyeyi. Biragoye… rimwe na rimwe KOKO… kandi ibyo birashobora gusobanura impagarara munsi yinzu yawe.
Ariko ntitaye ku kuntu ibintu bigoye, nzi ko buri wese muri mwe yisuka muri wewe muburyo bwinshi bwo gushyigikira abandi bantu, ndashaka rero gufata iminota mike yo kugutera inkunga muburyo ushyigikira no gutera abandi inkunga.
Noneho ibimaze kuvugwa… Sinzi neza icyo ukeneye kumva, ariko icyo nashakaga kuvuga ni akamaro k'inkunga.
Kandi mugihe benshi muribo murugendo bafite ibintu bimwe birenze urugero bikorerwa munsi yinzu yawe, birashoboka ko mwese muri ahantu hatandukanye murugendo rwawe, ibyo… dushimire kuzana ubutunzi nimbaraga zimbitse mubufatanye. Niba mwese mwari ahantu hamwe, ntushobora guhora utanga ibyiringiro ninkunga abandi bashobora gukenera. Kandi ubu bwoko buzana hamwe nubwumvikane butandukanye nubwabari hanze yiyi sirusi.
Utitaye aho uri muri uru rugendo, birashobora kumva ushaka kugenda umurongo mwiza… nkuko mwembi mukira kandi mugatanga inkunga. Rimwe na rimwe, umubano ni symbiotic… Njye ku giti cyanjye nsanga iyo mibanire akenshi iba hamwe nabantu begereye ahantu hamwe nanjye (ibi birashobora kuba bijyanye niterambere ryimanza, ubuvuzi cyangwa amarangamutima yumwana, nibindi).
Ubundi busabane bwo gushyigikira bushobora guturuka kubari imbere… urashobora kureba imbere ukareba ibibazo bishobora kubaho, ibigeragezo, imitego cyangwa ufite inyungu zo kwigira kumakosa yabandi.
Kubazamuka inyuma, urashobora gutanga ubwenge wize ukoresheje ntagushidikanya-intambwe-nyinshi-mbi (kuko nuburyo buri wese!), Kandi icyarimwe ubashishikarize gukomeza kurwana urugamba rwiza.
Rero… uru ruziga rwinkunga nizera ko washoboye kwikorera wenyine (kandi niba atari byo, URASABWA kugera kuri Firefly Foster Care… bazagufasha guhuza nabantu bazishimira kugutera inkunga no kugutera inkunga!), abantu babibona, abantu bumva… niwowe ushobora gutera ikirenge mu cyabandi kandi ugafasha gutanga bimwe mubintu bitagerwaho dukeneye rwose.
Nubwo buri wese muri mwe akora cyane, arengerwa, arengana, arengerwa… ni wowe usubiza… kandi ntabwo ari abana bava ahantu habi… ahubwo ni abandi bababyeyi barera kandi barera abana baturutse ahantu hakomeye. Utanga muburyo ntawundi wabishobora.
Ndakubona.
Ndabona buri wese muri mwe.
Nshobora kutakuzi ku giti cyanjye, ariko nzi ko uhari; Ndabona akazi urimo gushiramo.
Ntabwo ushizemo gusa: Gusuka muri… ntabwo ukoresha gusa igitonyanga gito. Ni byinshi.
Ntawundi ushobora rwose kukubwira ibyo. Ariko ndashaka ko umenya ko ugaragara, ukunzwe, kandi ushimwa kandi uhabwa agaciro.
Nzi ko utangaje, kandi ntugahindure ishimwe (kuko nzi ko ukunda kubikora!). Nubwo ntashobora kumenya buriwese, cyangwa inkuru yawe bwite cyangwa urugamba rwawe, nkunda buriwese kubwumutima ugomba gusuka kubakeneye.
Mubyukuri,
Kris