Bamwe rero muri mwebwe bari hanze bashya kurera, cyangwa no kubitekerezaho gusa, barashobora kwibaza uburyo uhitamo ubwoko bw'imyanya ugomba gufata. Tuvugishije ukuri, akenshi biterwa na zone yawe nziza, uburambe bwawe n'umwanya wawe uhari. Ariko haribindi byinshi bishobora gukina mubyemezo… ibintu utigeze utekereza kandi bishobora kuganisha kumera neza kurenza uko wabitekerezaga.
Tuvugishije ukuri, igihe twatangiraga urugendo rwo kurera, twashakaga kurera ingimbi. Twese twari twarakoze muri minisiteri yisumbuye kandi twari tuzi umunezero n'ibyishimo ingimbi zishobora kuba. Akenshi, babona rap mbi, ariko birashimishije cyane… wongeyeho ko twari tuzi ko hakenewe cyane amazu yo gufata ingimbi; by the way, mugihe umuntu wese afite amatsiko, harahari BIRACYAHA gukenera cyane amazu yiteguye gufata ingimbi.
Ariko ku giti cyanjye, twari tuzi ko abahungu bacu babyaranye binjiye mumyaka yingimbi, kandi ntitwashakaga kuzana abana bazahindura gahunda yo kuvuka. Ndabizi kuri bamwe muri mwe basa nkubuswa, kandi abantu benshi bavanga gahunda yo kuvuka kandi ntabwo arikibazo, ariko ibyo nibyo twifuzaga.
Byongeye kandi, icyarimwe, nari mfite uburambe bwimyaka irindwi nkora mumashuri abanziriza ishuri kandi numvaga merewe neza cyane hamwe niyi myaka. Ubwo rero, ubwo twabanje kuvuga ko tuzajyana abana babiri bari hagati yimyaka 2 na 4, bigiye kuba jam yanjye rwose. Byongeye ibi kandi byemeje ko tutagomba guhangayikishwa no kubajyana ku ishuri, byibura mu ntangiriro, kandi byasaga nkaho ari byiza ku muryango wacu.
Kandi burya nuburyo twashizeho ibipimo byacu mugitangira. Kubwimpamvu zitandukanye, iyindi miryango ntizigera ishaka umwana utarajya kwishuri… bifuza gusa imyaka yishuri. Cyangwa ushaka gusa uruhinja.
Kuruhande, twari tuzi mubyukuri ntitwashakaga uruhinja.
Tumeze nkibitotsi byacu kuburyo twazungurutse kugirango tumenye iyo gari ya moshi isaze munzu. Ariko, tumaze kubona igihe twategereje duhitamo gufungura ibipimo bike, aho kugirango dukuze, twagiye muto… turangiza dufite amezi atatu.
Byadushimishije cyane yararaga nijoro, ariko kubera ko yananiwe gutera imbere kandi akaba akeneye kurya buri masaha atatu, byabaye ngombwa ko dushiraho induru kugira ngo tuzamuke kandi tumugaburire kuri gahunda… ibiryo byatwaraga isaha imwe kandi imwe yararyamye. Nibura HE yaruhutse neza.
Ndasetsa (ubwoko), but bikomeye… nubwo tutabashaga kubibona icyo gihe, tumaze kumenyera gahunda, yari akomeye rwose mumuryango wacu… kandi ibyo ntibyari byitezwe rwose. Abahungu banje bakuru barigaga murugo, kandi bari bakuze bihagije kugirango bahabwe akazi kabo n'amahirwe yo gukora bigenga; ikiyiko gito cyane-kugaburira akazi kuruhande rwanjye, niba ntayindi mpamvu kuko ntamwanya nabonye.
Kandi byarangiye bitubereye umugisha kuri twese, kuko abahungu bakuru bari biteguye neza mumashuri yisumbuye na kaminuza kuruta uko bashobora kuba barabaye ukundi.
Noneho, icyo nshaka kukubwira ibi byose nuko ushobora kubigira mumutwe wawe icyaba gikwiye, kandi ushobora kuba ufite ukuri. Ariko hariho ubundi buryo bushoboka bushobora guhura neza rwose, cyane cyane utigeze utekereza.
Ku mpapuro, uruhinja rworoshye cyane, kunanirwa-gutera imbere ntabwo rwasaga nkaho rwinjira mu muryango wacu. Ariko ntitwari tuzi ko twibeshye rwose.
Gira rero ibipimo byawe, gira icyerekezo cyawe, intego yawe, nigitekerezo cyawe cyo gushyira ahantu heza hashobora kuba, ariko mugihe utanzwe nikindi kintu kitari ibyo, gerageza ntugahite ubirukana. Tekereza kubireka, kuko ntushobora kumenya aho byakugeza.
Mubyukuri,
Kris