CW: Ihohoterwa rishingiye ku gitsina, ihahamuka
Ari warokotse ihohoterwa rishingiye ku gitsina, yagize ati: "Natakaje ubushobozi bwanjye bwo kuvuga iminsi mike nyuma yibi bibaye, kandi byabaye insanganyamatsiko ndende yo kugerageza kongera kubona ijwi ryanjye, kandi ngerageza kugira abantu babereye mu buzima bwanjye kugira ngo bamfashe kongera kubona ijwi ryanjye."
Ari yumvise arengewe n'impapuro zose hamwe nubutunzi yabonaga ubwo uwunganiraga ubushake wa Firefly yamuhaga umupira uhangayitse, yicarana nawe mugihe cyose cyakorwaga.
Icyari kigamijwe kwari ukumuha ikintu gihumuriza kugumya, kumwibutsa ko atari wenyine kandi ko agishoboye kubona inkunga binyuze muri Firefly, hakurya y'imiryango y'ibyumba byihutirwa.
Umuvuzi Ari yabonaga mbere yigitero ntiyashoboye kumufasha mubyo yahuye nabyo. Yabonye ko gahunda ye isanzwe yo kumufasha hanze yubuvuzi nayo idafasha cyane.
Ari yavuganye nitsinda ryamuhaye umupira wamaganya nyuma yicyumweru gito nyuma yigitero. Ihamagarwa rya terefone ryamuteye kuvugana nuwunganira Firefly washoboye kumushyigikira ubwo yatangiraga kongera gushaka ijwi rye.
Umwunganizi wa Ari agira ati: "Ibyo twaganiriyeho ni ukugerageza kumenya neza ko Ari azi amahitamo ye n'icyo gishobora kuvamo ayo mahitamo." Ati: “Igice kinini cy'ubuvugizi ni ugufasha umukiriya kumenya icyo yishakiye.”
Ari ntiyigeze yumva ko ashobora kuba umunyamuryango wumuryango nyuma yibyabaye. Ijwi rye ryabaye igikoresho gikenewe cyane cyo kugarura imbaraga. Nyuma y’ubuvugizi ku muntu umwe, ndetse no kuvura amatsinda, Ari avuga ko uko muri iki gihe, muri rusange “byari byiza cyane.”
Ari yabisobanuye agira ati: “Numva nshobora kuvuga (ubu).
Abajijwe icyo Ari yabwira umuntu ushobora gutinyuka gushaka inkunga nyuma yo guhohoterwa rishingiye ku gitsina, arasangira:
“Ububabare bwawe bufite ishingiro, uko bwaba bwarateye kose. Ukeneye ubufasha.”
Serivisi zita ku ihohoterwa rishingiye ku gitsina rya Firefly hamwe n’ubuvugizi zagenewe gufasha abarokotse gushakisha inzira, kumenya umutungo, kubona inkunga no kwishora muri serivisi ziteza imbere gukira.
Kubindi bisobanuro: https://fireflyin.org/programs-services/recovery/sexual-assault-counseling-advocacy/