Inyandiko yanjye y'ubushize yaganiriye ku kudakora neza. Gusa kugufata mugihe wabuze, kudakura ni mugihe umwana afite imyaka imwe ikurikirana, ariko imyaka itandukanye rwose (muto); kenshi, ariko ntabwo buri gihe, byagereranijwe ko umwana urwana no kudakura afite gukura kwakabiri cyimyaka yabo. Kurugero, birashoboka ko umwana afite imyaka 10 ariko afite gukura kumyaka umunani. Bishobora gusobanura ko bafite imyaka 10 kandi bafite ubukure bwimyaka ibiri. Cyangwa birashobora kuba mubyukuri hagati mugihe cyo gukura kumyaka itanu.
Ariko hariho irindi suzuma rishobora gusa nkaho rihuye nikintu umwana wawe agaragaza, kandi kivanze no gukura. Gukura bivanze bivuze ko umwana wimyaka runaka yakurikiranye ashobora kwitwara nkumuntu muto cyane mubihe bimwe na bimwe no mubindi bihe nkumuntu mukuru.
Noneho, kugirango byumvikane neza, abantu benshi bavanze gukura kurwego runaka… ushobora kuba ufite ibice byimiterere yawe aho ukuze cyane nabandi ntibabe. Ntabwo aribyo mvuga. Icyo nshaka kuvuga ni mugihe hari itandukaniro ryo gutandukana mubukure kumwana umwe, ukurikije uko ibintu bimeze. Iyo umwana yagize ihungabana, gukura kwabo birashobora kubangamira guhuza ubushobozi bwabo bwo kumva, kumenya no mumarangamutima mubikorwa byose. Ihahamuka rishobora kugira ingaruka ku bwonko bw'umwana muburyo bugoye kandi ubwoko hamwe nigihe cyo kutitaho cyangwa guhohoterwa bishobora kugira ingaruka kumikurire yubwonko bwabo.
Uru ntabwo arurutonde rwose, ariko hano hari ibimenyetso bike byerekana gukura:
- Amarangamutima Kutagabanuka ni igihe umwana yumva (kandi agakora bikurikije) ababaye, ahangayitse cyangwa atagengwa nta mpamvu igaragara. Harashobora kuba imbarutso, baba babizi cyangwa batabizi system sisitemu yimitsi yabo irabizi.
- Ibimenyetso byumubiri / Somatic Ibimenyetso bidasobanutse cyangwa bisa nkaho bibaho nta mpamvu (ariko bifitanye isano nigisubizo cyo guhangayika / igisubizo cyihungabana. Ibi bishobora kuba birimo (ariko ntibigarukira gusa) kudasinzira, umutwe, fibromyalgia, syndrome de montage, migraine idakira, cyangwa umunaniro udashira.
- Imyaka isubira inyuma ni igihe imyitwarire yumwana isubiye mubukure buto kubera ihahamuka cyangwa igisubizo. Ibi ni nkibintu bidakabije, ariko bikubiyemo ibindi bimenyetso bizana munsi yumutwe uvanze.
- Iterambere rya psychologiya ryafashwe nigihe umwana adashoboye gukura mumarangamutima cyangwa atinda cyane gutera imbere kubera ihahamuka cyangwa uburangare bahuye nabyo.
Sinzi niba hari kimwe muri ibyo kizakureba haba ubu cyangwa ejo hazaza, ariko burigihe nikintu cyo gushakisha no gutekereza mugihe ufasha umwana mukurera gukira no gukora kugirango babe beza.
Mubyukuri,
Kris