{"id":9669,"date":"2021-07-29T21:44:42","date_gmt":"2021-07-29T21:44:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9669"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:52","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:52","slug":"kris-corner-pats-praise-accolades","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/sw\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-pats-praise-accolades\/","title":{"rendered":"Kris' Corner- Pats, Sifa na Sifa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kwa hivyo hili ndilo jambo: ikiwa unatafuta pats nyingi mgongoni au sifa na sifa, kuwa mzazi wa kambo (au kazi yoyote katika kazi ya kijamii, kwa kweli) inaweza isiwe kwako.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Ili kuwa sawa, sio kwamba hakuna mtu anayeona unachofanya au kwamba wakati wako, nguvu na juhudi hazionekani\u2026lakini ni kwamba watu wanaogundua mara nyingi hulemewa kama wewe na kwa uaminifu hawachukui wakati kukuambia. .<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Tulia katika ufahamu kuwa unafanya kazi nzuri na ufikirie kuwa wengine wanaona. Unaweza kupata faraja kwa ukweli kwamba utasikia kutoka kwa mtu ikiwa anaona kwamba kuna tatizo; hakika ni kesi ya "hakuna habari ni habari njema".<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Hiyo haimaanishi kuwa hutakubaliwa kamwe\u2026 hakika utakubali (na niseme kwamba Ofisi ya Watoto ni nzuri sana kuwatambua wazazi wao wa kambo!), lakini si kila wakati unapofanya jambo kubwa sana. Ni kama maisha kwa ujumla, sivyo?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Jambo kuu ni\u2026ulinzi wa mtoto ulio chini ya uangalizi wako ndio jambo la maana sana na wewe, kama mzazi wa kambo, endelea tu, endelea kufanya na uendelee kumtetea mtoto.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Wazazi kadhaa wa kambo walisema hivi:<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>"Utahisi kudharauliwa, kutothaminiwa, na nyakati nyingine kutendewa kana kwamba hujui. Endeleeni kuwapigania watoto licha ya haya."<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>"Utafanya mengi ya kutetea. Nilikuwa msukuma zaidi na sasa nina sauti nzuri na ninaweza kujibu hoja yangu bila kutokwa na machozi (kawaida)."<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Sasa, kama wewe si kawaida ya bent kihisia, maoni haya ya mwisho inaweza kuwa na utata\u2026lakini msingi ni kwamba inaweza kuwa hisia, kwa sababu watoto hawa kuwa "wetu". Tunashawishi kwa niaba yao na kwenda kuwapigia kwa sababu kuna mtu anahitaji. Na hakuna anayewajua kama sisi\u2026wakati mwingine hata familia zao za kibaolojia.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Na kwa uaminifu, hivi ndivyo tulivyojiandikisha kufanya. Ikiwa una watoto wa kibaolojia, ni mara ngapi mtu anakuambia kuwa unafanya kazi nzuri? Si karibu mara nyingi unavyosikia kulihusu kunapokuwa na tatizo, sivyo?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kazini, je, mara nyingi unasifiwa kwa umakini wako kwa undani au kuna uwezekano mkubwa zaidi kwamba unabaki tu na pua kwenye jiwe la kusaga, lakini shida inapotokea, ndipo unaposikia kutoka kwa mtu juu ya ubora wa kazi yako?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Sasa\u2026Natumai nimekosea na kwamba unasifiwa sana kwa uzazi wako bora na utendaji bora wa kazi, lakini mara nyingi zaidi, nadhani ni kinyume chake. Sio kwamba pongezi HAZIJI\u2026 hakika zinafanya. Lakini sio mara nyingi kama vile tungependa, au kuhisi kuwa zinathibitishwa.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Jambo kuu ni: malezi ya watoto sio tofauti na kitu kingine chochote unachofanya maishani. Ikiwa uko kwenye mitaro na unaathiri maisha ya mtoto, jua tu kwamba kubadilisha mwelekeo wa maisha ya mtoto kuwa bora ni sifa kubwa na bora zaidi unayoweza kupokea.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kwa dhati,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kris<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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