{"id":9425,"date":"2021-06-17T21:35:24","date_gmt":"2021-06-17T21:35:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9425"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:53","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:53","slug":"kris-corner-from-the-trenches-what-i-wish-id-know-part-6","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/sw\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-from-the-trenches-what-i-wish-id-know-part-6\/","title":{"rendered":"Kris' Corner- Kutoka Mifereji: Ninachotamani ningejua sehemu ya 5"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nitakupiga kwa nukuu kutoka kwa mzazi mlezi nje ya lango wakati huu: "Kukubali usaidizi haimaanishi kuwa huwezi kufanya hivi."<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Enyi watu\u2026nimesema haya hapo awali na nitayasema tena. Huwezi kuwa mzazi katika silo.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Vizuri kuwa na haki ... unaweza. Lakini itakuwa ngumu zaidi, na nafasi za kuifanya vizuri zitapunguzwa kwa uaminifu. Kwa hivyo unapataje msaada wako?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Nimezungumza kuhusu jumuiya za walezi hapo awali na hizi ni njia kubwa ambazo familia za walezi zinaweza kupokea usaidizi. Iwapo ulikosa chapisho hilo, huu ni usaidizi wa jumla kutoka kwa watu 4 hadi 6 (au zaidi ikiwa familia ya kambo ina watoto wengi) na inaweza kuwa chanzo kizuri na thabiti cha usaidizi kwa familia ya kambo.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Lakini si kila mtu anaweza kufikia Jumuiya ya Utunzaji. Kwa kweli, wazazi wengi walezi hawana\u2026kwa hiyo wanafanya nini?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Ninawahimiza wazazi walezi kuunda mfumo wa usaidizi unaojumuisha wazazi wengine walezi. Sasa, hiyo ilisema, ni lazima ijumuishe pia wazazi wasio walezi, kwa sababu ni nani mwingine utamajiri kwa kuwavuta polepole katika ulimwengu wako?!? Lakini kwa uzito wote, msaada wako unapaswa kujumuisha zote mbili.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kwa hiyo unawapata wapi hawa wazazi walezi? Nilipata yangu kupitia kanisani na kupitia kikundi cha usaidizi cha wazazi wa kambo. Huhitaji kujua mengi sana halafu ni kama milango ya mafuriko inafunguka\u2026kuna WENGI SANA ambayo mara nyingi ni vigumu kuamini kuwa hukuwaona kila mara.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0T<\/span>kupitia miunganisho hii, tafuta watu wako\u2026 wale unaobofya nao, wale \u201cwanaoimba wimbo sawa\u201d, wale ambao wazazi wanakupenda (au jinsi UNATAKA ungefanya). Na kisha tembea tu kando yao\u2026na kuna uwezekano kwamba watajibu.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Familia zisizo za malezi zitakuwa marafiki na familia tayari katika maisha yako ambao wanataka kutembea pamoja na kukusaidia katika sura hii mpya.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kwa hivyo kwa nini, haswa, tunahitaji watu hawa na msaada wao katika maisha yetu?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kwanza, utakuwa na miadi\u2026 miadi mingi, miadi.nyingi. Miadi ya daktari na miadi ya matibabu na vikao vya mahakama na ziara na mambo yote. Plus maisha tu kwa ujumla.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0Y<\/span>utahitaji usaidizi kumleta mtoto hapa, pale na kila mahali\u2026hasa ikiwa kuna zaidi ya mtoto mmoja. Bila kujali kama unafanya kazi muda wote, wa muda, au unaenda shule, au mchanganyiko wowote wa mambo hayo, utahitaji usaidizi.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Sasa, n<\/span>o mtu anaelewa kile unachopitia kama wengine katika mashua moja, kwa hivyo inasaidia kuwa nao kwenye kona yako. Lakini, marafiki na familia (ambao huenda hawako katika mashua moja) bila shaka wanataka kusaidia pia. Huenda wasielewe kila wakati kile kinachotokea katika ulimwengu wako, lakini kuna uwezekano kwamba wanataka kukusaidia. Kwa hivyo, ninakuhimiza kuchukua faida ya matoleo yao. Wakati mwingine, ikiwa utapewa chakula, au kuchukua mboga au kitu kingine dukani\u2026sema ndiyo kwa hilo; siku zote ndio!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ninajua unachofikiria: wakati mwingine inatia aibu, au inaonekana kama huwezi kuishughulikia. Lakini kusema kweli, labda huwezi\u2026angalau si siku hiyo. Au wiki. Na hiyo ni sawa.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kukubali msaada haimaanishi kuwa huwezi kufanya hivyo. Unaweza kabisa, lakini labda unaweza kuifanya vizuri zaidi kwa usaidizi mdogo upande. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kwa hakika chochote unachofanya kinaweza kufanywa kwa urahisi zaidi kwa usaidizi\u2026kwa nini malezi ya watoto yatakuwa tofauti?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kwa dhati,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kris<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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