{"id":11563,"date":"2022-06-09T19:00:33","date_gmt":"2022-06-09T23:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/?p=11563"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:15","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:15","slug":"kris-corner-protecting-the-privacy-of-kids-in-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/sw\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-protecting-the-privacy-of-kids-in-care\/","title":{"rendered":"Kris&#039; Corner \u2013 Kulinda Faragha ya Watoto Katika Utunzaji"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kwa hivyo\u2026Ninafuata watu na mashirika mengi tofauti kwenye mitandao ya kijamii, ambayo mengi hushughulikia mada zinazohusiana na malezi na kuasili watoto.<\/p>\n<p>Pengine hakuna mshtuko wa kweli hapo.<\/p>\n<p>Moja haswa huunda memes maalum kwa malezi ya watoto. Na ilishiriki meme siku nyingine iliyosomeka, &quot;Kuna mambo matatu ambayo hatuzungumzi: Klabu ya Vita, Bruno na kiwewe cha watoto wetu kwa sababu sio hadithi yetu.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Lo!<\/p>\n<p>Mtoto anapokuja kulelewa na akiwa mpya katika nyumba ya kulea, wale walio nje huwa na maswali mengi sana, iwe ni mahali pa kwanza kwa familia ya kambo au ya 25.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Kwa nini wako katika malezi? Ilikuwa madawa ya kulevya? Unyanyasaji? Umepuuza? Ugonjwa wa akili? (100% ya wakati huo, dawa daima ni dhana ya kwanza)<\/li>\n<li>Je, utamchukua?<\/li>\n<li>Atakaa muda gani?<\/li>\n<li>Je, wana masuala gani? (Kwa kweli, mara nyingi si mpole\u2026kawaida zaidi kama \u201cWana tatizo gani?\u201d)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Orodha inaendelea na kuendelea.<\/p>\n<p>Na bado, si maswali ambayo kwa kawaida ungeuliza kuhusu mtu mwingine yeyote, kwa hivyo kwa nini watu wanahisi kana kwamba inafaa kuangazia mambo ya kibinafsi ya mtoto ambaye amepatwa tu na kiwewe cha kuondolewa kutoka kwa familia yake ya kibaolojia?<\/p>\n<p>Haifai...kamwe.<\/p>\n<p>Haikubaliki\u2026kamwe.<\/p>\n<p>Na kama wazazi walezi, sehemu ya kazi yetu ni kulinda watoto, kulinda faragha yao, na kulinda hadithi zao\u2026hasa kutoka kwa masikio na midomo ya watu ambao hawana nia ya kumsaidia mtoto. Mara nyingi wao ni wachongezi au watu ambao tayari wanayo kichwani mwao jinsi kila mtoto wa kulea alivyo, na jinsi kila hali ilivyo, kwa hivyo wanatafuta tu kichocheo ili kuendeleza maoni yao ya upendeleo\u2026au wanataka kujisikia kama wako kwa njia fulani. &quot;katika kujua&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>Au mbaya zaidi, wanataka tu kujua uchafu wa mtoto huyu wa maskini. Ni biashara ya mtoto na ya mtoto pekee; sio kwa mtu mwingine yeyote kushiriki.<\/p>\n<p>Sasa\u2026ikiwa wewe ni mlezi na umeshiriki zaidi (au ikiwa unamfahamu mzazi na umeuliza maswali kama haya)\u2026usikate tamaa. Hujachelewa sana kurekebisha mambo\u2026au angalau, funga mdomo wako mbele. Kwa sababu nitakubali kwa uhuru kwamba mwanzoni mwa safari yetu, nilikuwa mbaya sana kwa kuwalinda watoto kwa njia hii.<\/p>\n<p>Na kwa nini ni hivyo? Sababu ilikuwa mara mbili: haijawahi kutokea kwangu kwamba ninapaswa kuweka habari kwangu, na pia kwa sababu ya sababu ya mshtuko. Sio kwamba nilikuwa nikijaribu kuwashtua watu wengine, lakini mimi mwenyewe nilishtushwa na kile nilichokuwa nasikia na kile ambacho watoto walikuwa wamepitia na sikuweza kunyamaza juu yake.<\/p>\n<p>Lo...hilo linanikera sana sasa, lakini sikujua nisichojua. Lakini SASA najua\u2026hiyo ndiyo sababu hasa ninashiriki nawe hili, ili kwa matumaini utaepuka hatua zile zile mbaya.<\/p>\n<p>Na nitasema kwamba kwa bahati nzuri tulijifunza haraka kwamba maelezo hayahitaji kugawanywa kwa sababu hayakuwa maelezo yetu ya kushiriki; ingawa tulikuwa tukiwatunza watoto, tulikuwa, zaidi au kidogo, watazamaji wa tukio hilo. Na kwamba watu waliokuwa wakiuliza maswali walikuwa wabishi tu.<\/p>\n<p>Kwa hivyo sasa kwa kuwa nimekuhukumu kidogo, nataka kukupa usaidizi kadhaa kwa nyakati hizo ambapo watu HUWAULIZI maswali yasiyofaa kuhusu watoto unaowalea\u2026kwa sababu hata kama UNATAKA kusema \u201cHilo halikuhusu wewe. \u201d Ningetilia shaka sana kwamba wengi wetu tungefanya hivyo, hata ikiwa ni katika eneo la haki yetu kufanya hivyo ili kuwalinda watoto.<\/p>\n<p>Badala yake, hapa kuna mapendekezo machache ya kuzingatia na kuweka kwenye mfuko wako wa nyuma wakati fursa itatokea:<\/p>\n<p>Kwa nini aliondolewa?<\/p>\n<p>Kuwa wazi, wazi, wazi. Kusema kweli, labda haujui mengi, haswa mapema katika kesi na ili usiifanye familia ya kibaolojia katika hali mbaya, unaweza kuelezea kwa urahisi na kwa ufupi na kitu kama hiki, &quot;Hatujui maelezo mengi. hatua hii, lakini kwa sasa atakaa nasi na tutampa utunzaji bora tuwezavyo\u2026na wakati kitu kitabadilika kulingana na mpango wa sasa, FCM yetu itatujulisha.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jibu kama hilo linaweza kumnyamazisha Nellie mwenye chuki haraka sana. Na pia inaweza kutumika kwa maswali kama vile &quot;Atakaa kwa muda gani?&quot;, &quot;Amekuwa katika uangalizi kwa muda gani?&quot;, na &quot;Ana shida gani?&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Unapoulizwa kama utamkubali (kwa sababu UTulizwa), unaweza kutoa jibu kama hili, \u201cSi sisi pekee ambao tungehusika katika uamuzi huu\u2026na hivi sasa mpango ni kuunganishwa tena, ambayo tunachagua kuunga mkono. Lakini anaweza kukaa muda anaohitaji.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bila shaka, kuna maswali mengi ambayo yanaweza kukujia; hii ni mifano michache tu ya baadhi ya yale ya kawaida. Lakini jambo la msingi: kuwa na jibu tayari (kwa uwezo wako wote) ambayo inalinda mtoto, wazazi wake na hadithi yao. Hata uende mbali na kujiuliza kabla ya kujibu: je, jibu hili ni la jinsi nitakavyotambuliwa au mtoto? Na ikiwa inakuhusu, basi jibu linaweza kuhitaji kurekebishwa.<\/p>\n<p>Samahani ikiwa maoni hayo yanaumiza kidogo\u2026lakini sisi ndio tunaingia katika hadithi zao kwa hivyo ni juu yao na nani na ni kiasi gani watachagua kushiriki.<\/p>\n<p>Na ili kupunguza uchungu wa maoni yangu hapo juu kidogo\u2026jua tu kwamba kwa kujitahidi kulinda faragha ya watoto unaowalea, wanaweza kupata hali ya usalama na usalama nyumbani kwako, ambayo inaweza kusaidia kuwaponya.<\/p>\n<p>Kwa dhati,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So\u2026I follow many different people and organizations on social media, most of which address topics related to foster care and adoption. Probably no real shock there. One in particular creates memes specific to foster care. 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