{"id":10189,"date":"2020-11-16T15:58:46","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T20:58:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/?p=10189"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:22","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:22","slug":"conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/sw\/resources\/news-library\/conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table\/","title":{"rendered":"VIDOKEZO VYA MAZUNGUMZO KWA JEDWALI LA SIKUKUU"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ingawa likizo zinaweza kuonekana tofauti mwaka huu kwa sababu ya COVID-19, bado zinaweza kuwa wakati wa sherehe. Unapokaribia mazungumzo ya meza ya sikukuu, tafadhali kumbuka kuwa mwaka wa 2020 umekuwa mwaka wenye hisia kali na wa kusisimua kwa wengi. Kwa hivyo, iwe sherehe za familia yako hufanyika kibinafsi au karibu, inawezekana kabisa kwamba mada za migawanyiko ziko kwenye akili za watu. Majadiliano yenye hisia mara nyingi hufanya anga kuwa ya wasiwasi na inaweza kusababisha mifarakano na wale tulio karibu nao.<\/p>\n<h6><strong>HAPA NI BAADHI YA VIDOKEZO VYA KUEPUKA MAJADILIANO KALI NA KUWEKA MAZUNGUMZO YA LIKIZO YA KIRASIRI.<\/strong><\/h6>\n<ul>\n<li>Jaribu kutoingia kwenye mkusanyiko wa familia au simu ya Zoom tayari kupigana. Baada ya yote, hiyo sio sababu ya kukusanyika, na akili haziwezekani kubadilishwa katika majadiliano ya joto.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Huenda ukawa na hisia kali kuhusu mada fulani na ukapendelea kuzipeperusha, lakini elewa kwamba kuridhika kwa muda kwa kufanya hivyo kunaweza kukugharimu siku fulani yenye kupendeza. Ni sawa kuweka mada kubwa kando kwa siku moja na kuruhusu wengine neema.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Angalia motisha zako za kushiriki katika kubadilishana. Je, unataka kuungana na mtu? Au unataka &quot;kushinda&quot;? Mazungumzo ya ugomvi huwa yanawafanya watu wajikita zaidi katika imani yao.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Badala yake, jaribu kuingia kwenye mjadala kwa nia ya kujifunza. Kwa nini mtu anahisi jinsi anavyohisi? Kwa nini mada fulani ni muhimu kwao? Mbinu ya udadisi hurahisisha uelewa.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Unaposhiriki maoni yako mwenyewe, toa hadithi inayoonyesha kwa nini unahisi kwa njia fulani kuhusu msimamo au mada. Tumia kauli za \u201cI\u201d kueleza jinsi umekuja kushikilia maoni yako.<\/li>\n<li>Epuka takwimu. Kila mtu ana mpangilio wake wa kukidhi malengo yake.<\/li>\n<li>Usijumlishe, na usifikirie kuwa kwa sababu tu mtu anahisi kwa njia fulani kuhusu mada A, unajua kiotomati msimamo wake kuhusu mada B, C, na D.<\/li>\n<li>Usidharau kamwe.<\/li>\n<li>Ikiwa unajua kabla ya wakati kuna watu wanaopenda kuleta maswala ya ugomvi, kuwa na mkakati wa kuepusha mazungumzo. Ni sawa kuwa na mipaka karibu na mada zinazokufanya ukose raha. Ikiwa mtu ataleta siasa na hutaki kujihusisha, unaweza kujaribu &quot;Hakika ni wakati wa kuvutia katika nchi yetu.&quot; Ikiwa wataendelea, unaweza kujaribu &quot;Ninathamini shauku yako, lakini inaonekana kama hii inaweza kusababisha kutokubaliana. Tunaweza kuzungumza juu ya kitu kingine?&quot; au \u201cAfadhali nisikie kuhusu jinsi watoto wako wanavyoendelea.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Unaweza pia kusikiliza<a href=\"https:\/\/www.familiesfirstindiana.org\/podcast\"><em>\u00a0Kuweka Siasa katika Mtazamo, kwenye Podcast ya Jedwali la Familia,<\/em><\/a>\u00a0kwa vidokezo vya kuzungumza na kuweka mipaka kuhusu mazungumzo ya kisiasa.<\/p>\n<p>Tazama sikukuu kama fursa ya kuchunguza fadhili na huruma, si &quot;kuchimba shimo,&quot; na unaweza kuanza kupunguza baadhi ya mkazo wako wa likizo.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ingawa likizo zinaweza kuonekana tofauti mwaka huu kwa sababu ya COVID-19, bado zinaweza kuwa wakati wa sherehe. Unapokaribia mazungumzo ya meza ya sikukuu, tafadhali kumbuka kuwa mwaka wa 2020 umekuwa mwaka wenye hisia kali na wa kusisimua kwa wengi. Kwa hivyo, iwe sherehe za familia yako hufanyika kibinafsi au karibu, inawezekana kabisa kwamba mada za migawanyiko ziko kwenye akili za watu. Majadiliano yenye hisia mara nyingi hufanya anga kuwa ya wasiwasi na inaweza kusababisha mifarakano na wale tulio karibu nao. <\/p>","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family-childhood-development"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>CONVERSATION TIPS FOR THE HOLIDAY TABLE - Firefly Children and Family Alliance<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/sw\/resources\/news-library\/conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"CONVERSATION TIPS FOR THE HOLIDAY TABLE - Firefly Children and Family Alliance\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Even though the holidays may look different this year due to COVID-19, they can still be a time for celebration. 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