{"id":9253,"date":"2021-03-25T21:17:23","date_gmt":"2021-03-25T21:17:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9253"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:05","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:05","slug":"kris-corner-unanticipated-guests","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/rw\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-unanticipated-guests\/","title":{"rendered":"Kris &#039;Inguni - Abashyitsi batateganijwe"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>None ndashaka kuvuga iki mubyukuri nabashyitsi batateganijwe? Ndashaka kuvuga, twese birashoboka ko dutegereje ko umwana ashobora kuhagera afite bike kubintu. Birashoboka ko bakeneye kwiyuhagira cyangwa kwiyuhagira. Ariko mubyukuri hari ibintu byinshi umwana ashobora kuhagera bitateganijwe (cyangwa byibuze bitifuzwa). Kandi kubera ko ndimo kubapfukirana hano, twizere ko batazagufata neza nibigera bagaragara kumuryango wawe!<\/p>\n<p>Ku kaga ko kuvuga ibigaragara, amakosa nikintu cya mbere gishobora kuza mubitekerezo. Kandi nubwo udashobora kuba umuntu worohewe cyane nudukosa, nkumubyeyi urera ushobora, rimwe na rimwe, kugira &quot;amahirwe&quot; yo guhangana nabo. <\/p>\n<p>Ibirayi n&#039;ibibabi, birababaje, ntibisanzwe cyane mwisi yo kurera. Iyo abana bacumbikiwe mubuzima bubi, cyangwa batagira aho baba, isuku irashobora kuba ingorabahizi. Iyo bakuweho rero, barashobora kugira parasite ugomba gukemura. <\/p>\n<p>. by&#039;isuku ntabwo buri gihe ari ikibazo.)<\/p>\n<p>Menya kandi ko kuba umwana amaze igihe gito murugo rwawe ntibisobanura ko uri mubisobanutse. Niba barimo gusura umuryango wibinyabuzima, barashobora kugarura ibintu nkibyo murugo rwawe. Gusa rero umutwe.<\/p>\n<p>Amakuru meza, inyo ZISHOBORA byoroshye kuvura NIBA witonze kandi ushishikaye; kandi urayifata hakiri kare niba bishoboka. Ibyo byavuzwe, Ndasaba ko wagira ibikoresho byintoki ku ntoki, mugihe ufashe ikibanza gikeneye kuvurwa ako kanya. Ndagushishikariza kandi kubika ibintu byoroshye (harimo ariko ntibigarukira gusa kubiringiti, umusego, inyamaswa zuzuye, nibindi) mumufuka wa pulasitike muri garage muminsi myinshi (abahanga bamwe bavuga nkibyumweru 2). Inda ntishobora kubaho igihe kirekire idafite uwakiriye (bita umuntu) kugirango abeho.<\/p>\n<p>Ubuvuzi bumwe bujya kuburiri, nubwo bufite umutima kuruta inyo; ibitanda byabakuze, kurugero, birashobora kubaho umwaka utagira uwakiriye. Nibito kandi birashobora kwihisha mubice hamwe nuduce duto byoroshye. Kubera ibi bintu byombi, biragoye gato kurandura kandi birashobora gusaba isosiyete yo hanze gufasha mubuvuzi. Ntukikubite rero niba ukeneye kuzana imbaraga zibyo!<\/p>\n<p>Ibyo byavuzwe, niba abana bafite ibibabi cyangwa ibitanda bahageze nibintu byabo byose, byanze bikunze byandujwe nudukoko..ariko uwo mwana birashoboka cyane ko azatsimbarara kuryamana nayo, atitaye. Kugirango uhe uwo mwana ihumure akeneye, cyane cyane mwijoro rye rya mbere kure yurugo, igisubizo cyihuse ushobora gukoresha nukujugunya mumashanyarazi kumuzingo wuzuye kubushyuhe bwinshi. Nibyo, niba umwana yaranduye, inyamaswa zuzuye, igitambaro, umusego, nibindi ntibizakomeza kugira isuku igihe kirekire, bityo rero witegure guhora uvura icyo kintu kugeza igihe umwana adafite ibisebe cyangwa bidafite uburiri.<\/p>\n<p>Noneho udukoko ntabwo aricyo kintu cyonyine umwana ashobora kuba ufite ugomba kuvura. Urugero, umuhungu wacu yaje iwacu afite ikibazo cyo kurwara impiswi. Ibyo ntabwo bisa nkaho biteye ubwoba, usibye ko twagombaga gukora ingendo nyinshi kwa muganga kubijyanye, tugakoresha imiti idasanzwe, kandi umwana wumukene mwiza ararira igihe cyose byabaye ngombwa ko tumuhanagura. Byari biteye ubwoba kandi bimara ibyumweru. Tuvugishije ukuri, ikibabaje cyane ni uko nyina wamubyaye yagerageje kudukubita, ariko ku bw&#039;amahirwe kuva twamutwara mu bitaro, bari bazi ko ayifite ageze. .<\/p>\n<p>Ibindi bibazo muburyo busa birashobora kubamo ariko ntibigarukira gusa:<br \/>\n\u2022 umusatsi wuzuye \/ umusatsi wuzuye,<br \/>\n\u2022 inzoka,<br \/>\n\u2022 eczema ikabije, kandi<br \/>\n\u2022 ingofero yumutwe \/ dandruff \/ yumye &amp; igihanga. <\/p>\n<p>Ibi biragaragara ko bidasenya isi muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose, kandi ntibishobora no gusaba ubufasha bwinzobere mu buvuzi, ariko ni ibintu ugomba guhita ukemura\u2026 kandi ntabwo byanze bikunze byari kuri radar yawe.<\/p>\n<p>Ubwanyuma, ndashaka kuvuga ko rimwe na rimwe umwana agera afite ibintu bitifuzwa bitari amakosa kandi atari &quot;kumuntu&quot; ariko ushobora kuba utari ubyiteze. Kandi icyarimwe, ugomba guhangana nacyo. <\/p>\n<p>Kuri iki gice cya nyuma, nageze kuri bamwe mubabyeyi barera bareba ubwoko bwibintu bahuye nabyo; dore ibyo basangiye:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Mfite imyenda yitabi itabi bigoye cyane kugira isuku no kunuka. Gukaraba no kongera gukaraba ibintu niwo muti wonyine, kandi niyo mpumuro rimwe na rimwe izatinda.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Nabyaye umwana umwaka ushize aho mama yagiye mubitaro DCS yampaye isakoshi ye yose hamwe numufuka wimpinja! Umufuka we, fagitire, imiti, na terefone ngendanwa.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Nari mfite umukozi ushinzwe imibereho myiza yemerera mama mama kohereza imyenda yose abana bafite, harimo imyenda yari nini cyane kandi itajyanye n&#039;igihe! Ikibazo gikomeye kwari ugukaraba byose ukabibika.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Nari mfite mama bio wohereje udupaki twinshi twamata yonsa, nta matariki, ariko nari niteze ko nzakoresha ibyo kugaburira umwana.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Twari dufite abana bazanye imifuka y&#039;ibikinisho bishaje n&#039;imyenda\u2026 bari umwanda cyane kandi ibintu bidasanzwe. Ariko nagombaga kubitondekanya no kubitondekanya kuri DCS.<\/p>\n<p>Kugira ngo bisobanuke neza, ntabwo nsangiye ibi bintu kugirango bigutere ubwoba, ariko kugirango ndusheho kugutegurira ibishoboka, bityo rero uzi neza ko bishobora kubaho hamwe na hamwe. Niba urera umwanya muremure, ntuzabura kwiruka byibuze kimwe muribi (cyangwa ikindi gisa), nkuko biri (birababaje), par kumasomo. <\/p>\n<p>Niba ntakindi, tegereza gusa ibitunguranye.<\/p>\n<p>Mubyukuri,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So what exactly do I mean by unanticipated guests? 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