Kugirango dukomeze urukurikirane rwacu mugihe cyo kurera, ndashaka gufata umwanya uno munsi nkaganira kubyerekeye amatsinda atera inkunga.<\/p>\n
Kubwamahirwe, kubera icyorezo, usanga ari virtual. Ariko baracyatandukanye nitsinda ryunganira kumurongo muburyo ushobora kubona no kuvugana nabantu. Urashobora kubamenya, kumva inkuru zabo, kumva inama zabo no guhitamo niba ushaka kubifata cyangwa kubireka.<\/p>\n
Kugira ngo ubyemeze neza, hari byinshi muribi bihari. Ariko akenshi ni ikibazo cyo kubona kimwe gihuye nibyo ukeneye, ushaka, ibyo ukunda nibyo wanga.<\/p>\n
Rimwe na rimwe, ayo matsinda atangwa binyuze mu matorero; rimwe na rimwe baba banyuze muri DCS, ibigo cyangwa indi miryango; kandi rimwe na rimwe ni agatsiko k'ababyeyi barera basanze undi bagatangira itsinda ryabo ryunganira.<\/p>\n
Byongeye kandi, amatsinda yo gushyigikira aratandukanye muburyo bwabo. Bashobora kuba bafite gahunda yibiganiro hamwe na \/ cyangwa gahunda kuri buri nama, cyangwa birashoboka ko bafite ubwoko bumwe bwo kwiga ibitabo. Andi matsinda arashobora kugira abavuga baza, kandi ibyo birashobora guhinduka mumasaha yo guhugura kugirango wongere uruhushya.<\/p>\n
Amatsinda amwe atanga uburere bw'abana, bushobora gufasha, cyane cyane kubabyeyi barera abana; rimwe na rimwe kubona uwicaye birashobora kutubera ikibazo.<\/p>\n
Ibindi bihe, amateraniro ni ubuntu-kubwoko bwose\u2026 bivuze ko umuntu wese ugaragara, agaragara, kandi muganira ku kintu cyose kiri kumutima wabantu muricyo gihe.<\/p>\n
Nzaba inyangamugayo\u2026 itsinda Ndi igice cyizingo nkiyi. Nkuko nkunda imiterere na gahunda, ngomba kwemerera ko hariho ihumure mukumenya ko aba badamu bahari kuri njye, ntakibazo icyo nshaka kuvuga KANDI Ntabwo numva nshishikajwe no kuganira kumutwe gusa kuri gahunda ya nimugoroba. . Ntabwo dufite gahunda, nta ngingo yashyizweho kandi nta kurera abana. Tuje gusangira, gushyigikirana, kugisha inama no rimwe na rimwe kurira hamwe. Kandi nubwo tudafite uburere bw'abana, twese twagiye duhinduranya tunyura hafi y'urukundo ruto ruto rimwe na rimwe rwitabira amateraniro.<\/p>\n
Icyo nkundira cyane mumatsinda yumuntu, byibuze muburambe bwanjye, nuko mubyukuri ushobora kubona no kuganira nabantu. Urabamenya kumurongo wibanze, urwego rwibanze, rushobora kutabaho hamwe nitsinda rya interineti. Urashobora kumva inkuru zabo, (umva amajwi yabo!), Wumve icyabatera kurwara, kandi wenda wige kubo bari mbere yo kurera (rimwe na rimwe usanga ari umuntu utandukanye!). Abo twaribo mbere yuburyo bwo kurera no kubumba abo turi bo nkababyeyi barera, nibyiza rero kumenya "uwo" umuntu mbere.<\/p>\n
Na none, urashobora kubahobera niba ikintu nkicyo gikenewe (nta mpungenge\u2026 ntabwo abantu bose ari "guhobera" rero kuberako uri mumatsinda yumuntu ntabwo bivuze ko ugomba guhobera umuntu\u2026 Ndavuga irashobora kuzamuka nubwo, itegure, cyane cyane niba atariyo jam yawe).<\/p>\n
Amatsinda-yumuntu arashobora kugufasha kureka izamu ryawe, kureka ugakanda mubibazo byawe byihishe inyuma, impungenge, ibikenewe kandi ukumva (kandi ushyigikiwe) mumarangamutima. Nibyo, ibyo birashobora no kubaho mumatsinda yo kumurongo, ariko kubwanjye ndumva bigoye guhuza no kumva umutekano wo gufungura "ibintu byose."<\/p>\n
Hariho ikintu cyo kuvuga cyo kwicara kumeza no kuganira imbonankubone\u2026 no gutanga tissue mugihe bikenewe.<\/p>\n
Ariko, itsinda ryumuntu umwe ntirishobora gukora neza kuri wewe, imiterere yawe, cyangwa gahunda yawe, kandi nibyiza rwose. Ntishobora gukora kubuzima bwawe cyangwa urwego rwiza. Niyo mpamvu hari ubundi buryo buboneka bushobora kugufasha muburyo ukeneye.<\/p>\n
Ibikurikira: amatsinda yo gushyigikira kumurongo.<\/p>\n
Mubyukuri,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
To continue our series on supports while fostering, I\u2019d like to take some time today and talk about in-person support groups. Unfortunately, due to the pandemic, they are often virtual. But they still differ from online support groups in that you actually can see and talk to people. You can get to know them, hear […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9169","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"\n