Mugihe ibiruhuko byegereje, ndashaka gufata umunota wo kubikemura hamwe nimiryango yibinyabuzima.<\/p>\n
Nzaba uwambere kwemeza ko nshobora * kuba * ntarigeze nkemura ibibazo byibiruhuko nkuko nabyifuzaga. Ariko, nizeye ko ushobora (na none) kwigira kubitagenda neza.<\/p>\n
Dore ikintu\u2026 kuri Noheri yacu ya mbere hamwe numuhungu wacu, yari amaze amezi make gusa. Ariko, namaze kumva nkaho ari uwacu. Icyo gihe ntitwari tuzi ko umubano wacu uzarangirana no kurerwa ariko numvaga ntunze cyane. Nababajwe kandi nuko yahawe umwanya nababyeyi babyaranye, cyane cyane kuri Noheri.<\/p>\n
Icyo ntashoboye kumenya ni Noheri yabo ya mbere hamwe nawe. Yari uruhinja rwavutse mu mpeshyi.<\/p>\n
Nyamuneka nyamuneka fata akanya hanyuma uhekenye. Wari Noheri yabo ya mbere nawe. Nigute ibyo bigomba kuba byunvikana gutandukana numwana wabo GUSA kuri NOHELI Yambere?<\/p>\n
Igishimishije, nubwo ntunze, ntabwo nanze gusangira. Mvugishije ukuri, sinzi icyo ibyo byagezeho uko byagenda kose. Ababyeyi babyaranye amasaha menshi yo gusurwa mugihe cya Noheri (kuko aribwo umuyobozi ushinzwe gusura yaboneka). Nagize umugoroba wa Noheri n'umunsi wose wa Noheri\u2026 biragaragara ko nari mfite ibirenze "umugabane wanjye".<\/p>\n
Uyu munsi, nifuzaga ko ibyo nakoze ari ukohereza impano kubabyeyi babyaranye, kuri we. Kandi nifuzaga ko mboherereje ikarita ya Noheri nifoto ye yambaye Noheri. Icyampa nkaba nabahaye ibintu byose ababyeyi bifuza kuri Noheri yambere yumwana wabo. Nubwo batayibitse kandi niyo yaba yararakaye. Mbabajwe nuko ntagaragaje impuhwe nyinshi.<\/p>\n
Kurera umwana birangiye nibwo namenye ikosa mubitekerezo byanjye no mubitekerezo byanjye. Uyu munsi, nishingikirije kuri snail-mail kugirango mumumenyeshe ibyo dukora, cyane cyane mubiruhuko.<\/p>\n
Ndakeka rero ko inkunga yanjye kuri wewe ari iyi: gerageza kwishyira mu mwanya w'ababyeyi babyaranye. Wakumva umeze ute udafite umwana wawe mubiruhuko? Urashobora kwiyumvisha Thanksgiving, Noheri, Umunsi w'Ababyeyi na Pasika udafite abana bawe? Bite ho iminsi y'amavuko\u2026 yaba iyawe n'iy'umwana wawe? Ibi nibihe turi kumwe numuryango, no kubura umwana wawe\u2026 nibitekerezo bibabaza umutima. Ntabwo ishusho, cyangwa ubukorikori, cyangwa impano ishobora kuzuza icyo cyuho. Ariko, byibura bituma ababyeyi bamenya ko batekerejweho, kandi bakunzwe\u2026 nubwo byaba kure.<\/p>\n
Ntabwo ndimo kuvuga ko ibi byoroshye gukora. Aba bana bagize ububabare, ububabare, ihahamuka no kutitabwaho. Kandi rero biragoye gukunda no kwita kubantu bateje ububabare. Ariko, baracyafite isano ya biologiya numwana, niba umwana agumana nawe ibihe byose cyangwa ataribyo. Kandi ukurikije umwana, barashobora kwifuza cyane gukomeza kugira iyo sano numuryango wabo ubabyara. Kubemerera rero kuba mubuzima bwabo (ibyo aribyo byose bisa nawe hamwe numuryango wawe) nuburyo bwiza bwo kubikora.<\/p>\n
Mubyukuri,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
With the holidays rapidly approaching, I want to take a minute to address navigating them with biological families. I\u2019ll be the first to admit that I *might* not have handled our holiday experiences as well as I would have liked. But, I am hopeful that you can (once again) learn from my shortcomings. Here\u2019s the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9019","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"\n