Nshya nyuma yukwezi kwahariwe Kumenyekanisha Kurera kwa Gicurasi, Nzi ko bamwe muri mwe bashobora kuba barwana no guta cyangwa kudatera ingofero mu mpeta y'ababyeyi barera. Ndashaka rero guhagarara ngashyira akantu gato hanze: ntabwo abantu bose bagomba kuba umubyeyi urera.<\/p>\n
Nibyo, mwisi nziza, ni guhamagarira umuntu wese nabantu bose kandi tra-la-la ntabwo ari byiza? Ariko ntituri mu isi nziza (kandi kuruhande, iyaba isi yari nziza, ntihakenewe kurerwa\u2026 Mfite ukuri?)<\/p>\n
Rimwe na rimwe, abantu ntibashobora kurera (kubwimpamvu zitandukanye, mubyukuri benshi cyane kuvuga amazina, inyinshi murizo zishobora kuba zihariye mubihe runaka), cyangwa ntibagomba kurera (kubwizindi mpamvu zitandukanye, nanjye sinzabishyira kurutonde ). Cyangwa birashoboka ko udashaka kuba umubyeyi urera\u2026 kandi reka mvuge ko niba udashaka kuba umubyeyi urera, birashoboka ko atari wowe.<\/p>\n
Ibyo byavuzwe, Ndi hano kugirango nkubwire ko utagomba kurera niba udashobora \/ udakwiye \/ udashaka; Ndaguhaye uruhushya (waba warawushakaga cyangwa utarimo).<\/p>\n
Ariko ibyo bidusiga he? Iratuzanira kuriyi nyabutatu, ariko nukuri, interuro: ntabwo abantu bose bashobora kurera, ariko buriwese arashobora gukora ikintu.<\/p>\n
Niki, umuhigo ubwira, twakora iki niba tutari ababyeyi barera? Muraho, urakoze kubaza!<\/p>\n
Mbere ya byose, niba ufite inshuti z'ababyeyi barera, wegera ubabwire ko wifuza gufasha. NTIBAZE \u201cNiki Nakora kugirango mfashe?\u201d kuko bazabeshya bakakubwira bati "Ntacyo!"<\/p>\n
Ahubwo, tekereza ku mpano zawe\u2026 urusha iki? Ni ubuhe buryo ufite? Kanda muri ibyo kandi bizakuyobora muburyo ushobora gufasha.<\/p>\n
Uri umutetsi? Bwira inshuti zawe ko uzazana ifunguro rimwe mu kwezi (cyangwa kabiri, cyangwa ikindi kintu cyose cyiza gukora). Keretse niba hari impamvu yimirire ituma bigorana, byanze bikunze, wumve ko niba bafashe inzira ikomeye.<\/p>\n
Waba mwiza nabana? Abana bato? Abiga mbere y\u2019ishuri? Bwira inshuti zawe uzaza rimwe mu cyumweru amasaha abiri kugirango bashobore gukora ibintu hafi yinzu mugihe ufasha gutongana umwana \/ abana.<\/p>\n
Waba mwiza mumasomo imwe (cyangwa menshi)? Bwira inshuti zawe ko uzaza ugakora umukoro hamwe nabana babo barera rimwe mu cyumweru, cyangwa kabiri mukwezi, cyangwa ikora muri gahunda yawe (na).<\/p>\n
Waba uzi akazi keza? Jya munzu yabo ukuremo ibyatsi & guca nyakatsi.<\/p>\n
Waba ufite imashini? Tanga gukosora ibintu hafi yinzu yabo ikeneye gusanwa, cyangwa gutanga igitekerezo cyo kurangiza umushinga "kora wenyine" batabonye umwanya wo gukora cyangwa kurangiza kuko, urabizi, kurera kurera.<\/p>\n
Ihangane, tekereza kubyo ushoboye, kandi ubikore! Kandi icy'ingenzi: ntukemere "oya" muri bo. Bazakwemeza ko badakeneye ubufasha, ariko ndahamya ko babikora\u2026 nubwo batabimenye icyo gihe. Ababyeyi barera bafite inkunga birashoboka cyane ko bakomeza kurera kurusha abadafite umudugudu.<\/p>\n
Noneho niba utazi ababyeyi barera, wegera ikigo cyangwa ibiro bya DCS hanyuma ubaze uko ushobora kubigiramo uruhare utajyanye abana murugo rwawe. Ndahamya ko DCS cyangwa ikigo (nka Biro y'abana) bazishimira ubufasha.<\/p>\n
Mubyukuri,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>\n
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