{"id":8245,"date":"2020-05-14T12:09:42","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T12:09:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=8245"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:50","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:50","slug":"biological-parents-are-the-underdogs-we-should-cheer-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/rw\/resources\/news-library\/biological-parents-are-the-underdogs-we-should-cheer-for\/","title":{"rendered":"Kris &#039;Corner - Ababyeyi bibinyabuzima ni underdogs dukwiye kwishimira"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-8248 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/stock-photo-mom-and-baby-300x200.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/>Sinzi ibyawe, ariko nkunda inkuru nziza &quot;underdog&quot;. Uzi ibyo mvuga, sibyo? Twese twarababonye (cyangwa birashoboka ko byibuze twigeze kubyumva): &quot;Urutare&quot;, &quot;Hoosiers&quot;, na &quot;Imikino Yinzara&quot; kuvuga amazina make.<\/p>\n<p>Kuberiki, none, tunanirwa kunezeza abayoborwa mugihe cyo kurera? Ababyeyi babyaranye akenshi ni abayoborwa na buri nkuru yo kurera. Nibo bahura nibibazo byinshi, akenshi (nubwo atari buri gihe) bahura nibiyobyabwenge, ihohoterwa, kutitabwaho, kutagira aho baba, uburwayi bwo mumutwe, nibindi.<\/p>\n<p>Kuki twumva byemewe gutekereza ibintu nka &quot;ni abantu babi ku isi kandi niba bakuyemo umwana wabo, ntibagomba na rimwe kumugarura. Ikiringo. \u201d Ndatahura ko ibi bisa nkaho bikabije, ariko ku giti cyanjye numvise abantu barenze umwe bavuga ibintu bisa\u2026 ndetse bikaba bibi kuruta ibi.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Nibyiza, kurera ntibikora gutya, kandi nubwo ntari umufana igihe natangiraga urugendo rwanjye rwo kurera, igihe kinini nashoboye gushimira kubikorwa.<\/p>\n<p>Igihe umuhungu wacu yazaga kubana natwe bwa mbere, numvise kubyerekeye ababyeyi babyaranye numukozi wa DCS. Ntabwo ari igitekerezo cye kuri bo, ahubwo ni amakuru y&#039;ibanze nari nkeneye kugirango nite kuri uyu mwana wumuhungu uryoshye, wamezi 3 akeneye ubuvuzi bukomeye. Kandi kubera ko ntari nzi byinshi kubabyeyi babyaranye, ahanini nujuje ibisabwa maze nza gufata umwanzuro wanjye kuri bo. Yego\u2026 kurenganya cyangwa kurenganya (uwangiza: Nzakomeza nkubwire ko byari akarengane rwose), nibyo nakoze.<\/p>\n<p>Ariko, mu rukiko rwa kabiri, umucamanza yemeje ko niba ababyeyi bashaka kongera kurera umuhungu wabo, bagomba kwitabira gahunda zose z\u2019abaganga. Kandi ndi hano kugirango nkubwire ko hari byinshi byavuzwe kuri uwo muhungu uryoshye (ntabwo ari abana bose, ndetse nabana benshi bafite gahunda nyinshi zo kwa muganga\u2026 ariko kuri we, hari benshi).<\/p>\n<p>Sinari narigeze mpura n&#039;ababyeyi mbere yibyo, mubyukuri mvugaga ubwoba. Nari numvise inkuru zukuntu ababyeyi babyaranye akenshi barakarira ababyeyi barera kuko bababona nkabatwaye umwana wabo (biragaragara ko atari ko bimeze, ariko byumvikane ko bashakaga umuntu ubiryozwa). Kandi sinarimo ndatitira ngo ndwane. Ibinyuranye rwose, mubyukuri.<\/p>\n<p>Ariko gahunda yambere, nubwo iteye isoni, ntabwo yari iteye ubwoba nkuko nabitekerezaga. Noneho gahunda yakurikiyeho yarorohewe. Nta na rimwe <em>byoroshye<\/em>Sinzabeshya. Ariko byoroshye kandi bitoroshye cyane kuruta uko wabitekereza. Njye ku giti cyanjye nizera ko igice kinini cyacyo ari uko mugihe cyanjye cyose namaranye na biomom, naje kubona ko nawe yari umuntu gusa. Yakundaga umuhungu we, nkuko namukundaga, nubwo atashoboraga kumwitaho.<\/p>\n<p>Ntabwo yari igisimba kibi naremye mubitekerezo byanjye. Yari yarakoze ibyiza yari azi kumukorera. Kandi mvugishije ukuri, ibyo aribyo byose buri wese muri twe ashobora gukora\u2026 ni uko bamwe muri twe bafite amahirwe menshi yo gusobanukirwa ibyo abana bakeneye, hamwe nubushobozi, amahitamo, ninkunga yo gutanga.<\/p>\n<p>Iyo rero umwana ahuye nababyeyi babyaranye, kandi nibyiza kandi bizima kandi byuje urukundo, nibintu rwose twakagombye kwishimira.<\/p>\n<p>Mubyukuri,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t know about you, but I love a good \u201cunderdog\u201d story. You know what I\u2019m talking about, right? We\u2019ve all seen them (or have probably at least heard of them): \u201cRocky\u201d, \u201cHoosiers\u201d, and \u201cThe Hunger Games\u201d to name a few. 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