Nifuzaga gufata umunota umwe tugasangira igitekerezo: abana barererwa barashobora gufata ifunguro rya sasita ku ishuri. Mugenzi wanjye mugenzi wamureraga kandi urera inshuti yabivuze vuba aha kandi mvugishije ukuri, ikintu nkicyo nticyigeze kintekereza\u2026 birashoboka kuko ahanini nareze abana bato batagejeje kumashuri. Ariko niba narabikoze cyangwa ntabikoze kera, ndabitekerezaho ubu ndatekereza ko ari ibiryo byiza (babarira imbabazi) kubitekerezaho\u2026 reka rero tuvuge kubyerekeye ifunguro rya sasita kumunota.<\/p>\n
Nkuko benshi mubashobora kuba mubizi, abana barera bujuje ibyangombwa bya sasita yubusa. Kandi hejuru bigaragara ko bitangaje rwose kumashyaka yose; kuri bo, kubera ko babona ifunguro rishyushye buri munsi, kandi kuri wewe nkumubyeyi urera, bivuze ko utagomba kwishyura amafaranga ya sasita kandi gupakira ifunguro rya sasita ntabwo bigomba kuba kurutonde rwawe rwo gukora. Ibyo bisa nkuwatsinze! Ariko vuba aha, iyi nshuti yanjye yavuzwe haruguru, irera abana biga mumashuri, yagize icyo ivuga kubyerekeye gupakira ifunguro rya sasita kumwana we wamureze. Undi muntu uri hafi, akaba n'umubyeyi urera, yabajije impamvu yohereje ifunguro rya sasita igihe yujuje ibyokurya bya saa sita. Igisubizo cye cyampumuye ubwenge; yagize ati: \u201cAriko yasabye gufata ifunguro rya saa sita bityo nibyo dukora.\u201d<\/p>\n
Wow.<\/p>\n
Kandi sinshaka kuvuga ko arikintu cyose kimenagura isi cyangwa kimena isi, ariko ubanza ngomba kwerekana ko bishoboka ko byamutwaye byinshi kugirango avuge igitekerezo cye; Ndabizi ko atari ko bimeze kuri buri mwana kuvuga mu bwisanzure ibitekerezo bye, ariko kubana bamwe, cyane cyane abakubiswe nubuzima ndetse n\u2019impinduka zishobora guterwa no kurera zishobora kuba zabahaye, ibi byari kuba ari amasezerano akomeye. Kandi birashoboka ko atumva ko afite ijwi ryinshi cyangwa amahirwe yo gusangira igitekerezo cye. Kandi birashoboka ko mama wamureze yabajije amuha igisubizo cyukuri. Cyangwa birashoboka ko yanze kumubwira ko adakunda ifunguro rya sasita. Uburyo ubwo aribwo bwose ubireba, nkunda ko yunganira ubwe (utitaye kubyo byamusabye gukora) KANDI aratega amatwi!<\/p>\n
Urashobora rero kuba utekereza, \u201cYego, ariko sinakagombye gukora ifunguro rya sasita mugihe abonye ubuntu buza buri munsi! Ntibishobora kuba bibi! \u201d Kandi mugihe ibyo bishobora kuba aribyo, dore ikindi kintu ugomba gutekerezaho: cyane cyane kubana bakuru, nubwo abandi bana babakikije batabizi, birashoboka cyane ko umwana urera aba azi ko babona ifunguro rya sasita kubuntu. Kandi ni ukubera ko barimo kwitabwaho. Ubu ni inzira imwe gusa yumva atandukanye nabandi. Kuberako abandi bana (birashoboka) bazana ifunguro rya sasita\u2026 kandi ibyo birasa nkibisanzwe. Kandi nkabandi bana bafite ijwi, kandi ababyeyi babo bafite icyo bita kubyo bashaka. Ntabwo bisa nkibintu bikomeye kuri twe, ariko kubana bamwe nikintu gikomeye rwose.<\/p>\n
Noneho, ndatahura ko ibi atari ibintu bimwe ariko ndashaka kwerekana ko hari impande zinyuranye, mubyukuri niho nkura impaka zanjye: mugihe abahungu banjye bakuru bari bato bakiga mumashuri ya leta, nahoraga mbatera gufata ibyabo sasita kuko nashoboraga gukora ikintu kumafaranga make ugereranije nigiciro gishyushye cya sasita. Ariko amaherezo, batanze ibitekerezo byabo kuri iki kibazo, cyari inshuro ebyiri: abandi bose babona ifunguro rya sasita zishyushye (ntabwo arukuri, ariko iyo ufite imyaka 7, ubyumva gutya), kandi nabo bifuzaga uburambe. Natangiye rero kubareka bagura ifunguro rya sasita rimwe mu cyumweru. Kandi ibyo byari amasezerano manini kuri bo\u2026 barashobora gusuka kuri menu ya sasita buri cyumweru kugirango bahitemo ayo mafunguro ya sasita atangaje bazagura. Ingingo kuba\u2026 Nabaretse bakagira amahirwe yo guhitamo no kutumva nkaho batandukanye nabandi.<\/p>\n
Noneho, ntukumve ibyo ntavuze\u2026 Simvuze ko ugomba gukora Pinterest-bikwiye bento agasanduku ka sasita. Kandi simvuze ko bigomba kuba buri munsi. Sinzi uko ibi bishobora kuba bimeze murugo rwawe, ariko birashoboka ko utekereza kumureka agafata ifunguro rya sasita rimwe mu cyumweru; muburyo bumwe abahungu banjye basutse kuri menu ya sasita, kiddo yawe yashoboraga kuyisukaho kugirango umenye ifunguro BASIGAYE kandi ureke uwo munsi wumunsi wa sasita. Noneho nibareke bajye mububiko bahitemo gusa icyo bashaka gufata. Birashoboka ko ari Go-Gurt, birashoboka ko ari sandogi ya bologna\u2026 nibaza ko iteye ishozi, ariko abana bamwe barabikunda! Ibyo aribyo byose, ndagutera inkunga yo kugerageza, uko ushoboye kwose, kugirango ubareke bumve ko ari umwana usanzwe\u2026 kandi ntamuntu numwe wigeze ahinduka.<\/p>\n
Mubyukuri,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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