{"id":17740,"date":"2023-08-01T11:30:51","date_gmt":"2023-08-01T15:30:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/?p=17740"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:01","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:01","slug":"kris-corner-sensory-input-and-the-fourth-of-july","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/rw\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-sensory-input-and-the-fourth-of-july\/","title":{"rendered":"Inguni ya Kris: Iyinjiza rya Sensory na Kane Nyakanga"},"content":{"rendered":"
Ibi rero ntabwo byanze bikunze Kane Nyakanga byihariye, nubwo bifite umwanya rwose muriki gihe cyumwaka, niyo mpamvu ndimo kubishyiramo ubu. Nkuko twabiganiriyeho mbere, abana barera bahorana ihungabana. Nubwo wakubwira ko badafite ihahamuka, gukurwa mu muryango w\u2019ibinyabuzima ni ibintu byababaje\u2026 utitaye kubyo abantu bashobora kugerageza gusaba.<\/p>\n
Ariko icyo nshaka kuvuga nuko abana bamwe, nkigice cyihungabana ryabo, bafite sensibilit\u00e9 sensibilit\u00e9, bivuze ko bifuza ibitekerezo byinshi cyangwa barabyanga\u2026 none urabona nyamara aho ngiye niyi nyandiko? Ndabivuze ubu kuko hari amahirwe menshi yo kwinjiza bimwe bikomeye byunvikana kumunsi wa kane Nyakanga.<\/p>\n
Iyo rero dusuzumye ibyumviro byinjira, dutekereza kubyifuzo byacu bitanu: kureba, impumuro, kumva, uburyohe, no gukoraho. Ingero zimwe zisanzwe mubintu abana bashaka kandi \/ cyangwa birinda ibyo byumviro nibi bikurikira (kandi nzashyiramo byumwihariko ingero ya kane Nyakanga):<\/p>\n
Noneho ntabwo abana bose ari abashaka amarangamutima gusa cyangwa birinda amarangamutima gusa. Abana bamwe barashobora kwerekana igisubizo kimwe cyangwa ikindi gisubizo ukurikije imiterere yabo cyangwa ibibakikije. Ibi birashobora guhinduka ukurikije uko batagengwa, nuburyo bashoboye kwiyobora, hamwe nuburyo ibintu byifashe muri rusange\u2026 kandi niba utarigeze ugira aho uhurira murugo rwawe ku ya kane Nyakanga, ntushobora kumenya uko azasubiza.<\/p>\n
Kurugero, abana bamwe ntibagora muburyo bumenyerewe, ariko barashobora kugira ibyiyumvo bishonga ahantu huzuye abantu cyangwa batamenyereye; kurugero niba uri mumujyi wa fireworks, ibyo bizaba byuzuye, wenda utekereze muburyo umwana wawe akemura ibibazo nkibi hanyuma ukongeraho mubindi byose bishobora guterwa ibiruhuko. Cyangwa umwana wawe arashobora gushakisha cyangwa kwirinda ibitekerezo kugirango afashe gutuza, mugihe mubisanzwe batabikora.<\/p>\n
Ikitugarura ku ya Kane Nyakanga. Noneho uhabwa ibiruhuko ibyo aribyo byose birashobora kuba urugamba kumwana uturutse ahantu habi\u2026 ariko iyi minsi mikuru byumwihariko (ndatekereza kubwanjye) ifite amahirwe menshi yo gutandukana kuburyo nshaka kubivuga ubu kugirango nawe, nkabishoboye kandi neza- uzi neza ababyeyi barera uri, urashobora kuba kuri A-Umukino wawe muminsi mikuru iri imbere.<\/p>\n
Niki wakora kugirango witegure? Nibyiza, niba aribwo bwa mbere uzenguruka hamwe numwana runaka kandi ukaba utazi neza icyo ugomba gutegereza, nashyiraho akabari hasi kandi buri gihe nkagira gahunda yo guhunga. Icyo nshaka kuvuga nukuvuga ko witeguye kuva vuba aho uri hose niba umwana wawe arwana.<\/p>\n
Ariko hariho ubundi buryo ushobora gutegura kugirango udashobora kuva. Nkibisanzwe, vugana numwana mbere yigihe aho ugiye, ibyo ukora, ibyo ushobora kubona na \/ cyangwa uburambe, nibindi.<\/p>\n
Kandi kuri piggy-back muburyo bwo kwitegura\u2026 tekereza kuba sawa nukuba umwana wawe adashobora kurya neza kuri uriya munsi hanyuma ukabireka. Ndashaka kuvuga, ntabwo nshaka kuvuga byanze bikunze "isukari yubusa-kuri bose!" ariko isukari irenze ibisanzwe birashoboka ko ari sawa.<\/p>\n
Hanyuma, reka reka nguhe igitekerezo cya nyuma: menyesha abandi bana bose murugo rwawe ko ushobora kugenda mugihe undi mwana arwana, kugirango wizere ko uzoroha kurira no guhekenya amenyo asohoka bishobora gutera. Ariko umunsi urangiye, gusa uzi umwana nibibazo kandi ushobora kumenya icyaba \/ cyaba cyiza; niba gutera izo mbuto bishobora gutuma ibintu biba bibi, noneho biragaragara ko utabikora!<\/p>\n
Aho kugirango utondeke ibishoboka byose (kuko ibyo ntibishoboka uko byagenda kose), ndaguha gusa aho utangirira kugirango ngufashe gutangira gutekereza ibintu binyuze MBERE yuko ugera kumugoroba wumuriro aho umwana wawe afite igisimba. gushonga kandi ufashwe utiteguye.<\/p>\n
Gusa menya ko ibiruhuko bidashobora kuba mubyo utegereje (cyangwa byanze bikunze ushaka) ariko urashobora gushyira ibyo umwana akeneye imbere yibyanyu kuri uyumunsi \/ ibirori. Vuga, kurugero, mubyukuri ukunda fireworks kandi iyi niyo shusho yawe buri mwaka kugirango ubone kwerekana kumuntu. Ariko umwana wawe urera ahinduranya umupfundikizo we nyuma ya "boom" ya mbere bityo ugomba gupakira hanyuma ukagenda mbere yuko atandukana rwose (cyangwa mugihe arimo gutandukana). Gusa witegure kubikora\u2026 mubyukuri, ibwire mbere yigihe aricyo ugomba gukora\u2026 ariko utangazwe cyane niba mubyukuri, utarangije kubikora.<\/p>\n
Umurongo w'urufatiro: ntuzafatwa utabizi! Ufite ibi kandi bizaba byiza\u2026 nubwo bidasa nkukwa kane Nyakanga mubihe byashize.<\/p>\n
Mubyukuri,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
So this isn\u2019t necessarily Fourth of July specific, although it absolutely has its place at this time of year, which is why I\u2019m including it now. As we\u2019ve discussed before, kids in care always have trauma. Even if you\u2019re told that they don\u2019t have trauma, simply being removed from biological family is a traumatic experience\u2026regardless […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10,21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17740","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner","category-news"],"yoast_head":"\n