{"id":15391,"date":"2023-02-02T19:00:44","date_gmt":"2023-02-03T00:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/?p=15391"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:02","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:02","slug":"kris-corner-after-school-rituals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/rw\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-after-school-rituals\/","title":{"rendered":"Kris &#039;Inguni - Nyuma y&#039;imihango y&#039;ishuri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tugenda mubikorwa byacu binyuze mumihango murugo rwacu, tuza kuruhande rwimihango Yishuri.<\/p>\n<p>Noneho, nzi ko ibi bizatandukana kuri benshi muribo. Bamwe mu babyeyi barera bakorera hanze y&#039;urugo amasaha yose, bamwe bakora amasaha make abandi bakaguma murugo amasaha yose (BTW Ndumva ko buri umwe muribi ari akazi k&#039;igihe cyose hanyuma bamwe!). Bamwe mu babyeyi barera ni abaseribateri abandi ntibabe. Ingingo ni: akazi hamwe ningaruka zumuryango bizaba bitandukanye nurugo murugo, kandi nzi ko gushyira mubikorwa iyi bishobora gutandukana cyane\u2026 nkuko rero ndaguha ibisobanuro rusange, nyamuneka umenye ko ari ibiryo byo kubitekerezaho no kwihutira gusuzuma uko ibintu bimeze bikorerwa mu rugo rwawe. Menya kandi ko NTAWE ushobora kuba akora iyi mihango yose kandi rero niba hari umwanya wigihe cyo kuganiraho ndaganira kandi ukaba udashobora kubikora, ntakintu na kimwe kigaragaza kubabyeyi bawe batangaje!<\/p>\n<p>Ndi hano gusa kubatera inkunga!<\/p>\n<p>Ibintu byose byavuzwe\u2026 kubantu murugo kwakira umwana nyuma yumunsi mwishuri, ndashaka gutanga ijambo rito ryo gusuzuma. Nyuma yimihango yishuri ntigomba kuba ikintu kinini cyangwa kinini\u2026 birashobora kuba byoroshye nko kwicara hamwe no kurya. Kandi ninde udakunda ibiryo?!?<\/p>\n<p>Biha amahirwe umwana wo gusangira umunsi wabo (niba babishaka) cyangwa nawe byibura ukabaza ibibazo birenze \u201cUmunsi wawe wari ute?\u201d Cyangwa \u201cNi iki wize uyu munsi?\u201d. Niba kandi ibyo bidasa nkaho bibashyushya, birashoboka, niba bivuganye numwana, gukora byinshi byasomwe mu ijwi riranguruye niba aricyo kintu wakoze mugitondo. Cyangwa gukora gusa gusoma mu ijwi riranguruye aho kugerageza kubikora mugitondo. Ahari gukina umukino cyangwa gukora puzzle.<\/p>\n<p>Hanyuma, nyuma yo kurya no kongera kwiyobora, undi muhango urashobora kohereza umwana hanze gutwara igare ryabo cyangwa gusimbuka kuri trampoline muminota mike. Nzi ko ibi bisa nkibitangaje, ariko nigeze kumenya mama ufite igiti cyinkwi umwana we yimukaga burimunsi nyuma yishuri\u2026 umunsi umwe yabimurira iburyo bwikibuga akabishyira. Bukeye yabimurira ibumoso. Ntabwo byari bijyanye n\u2019aho inkwi\u2026 byari bijyanye no kumuha akazi gakomeye ko kumufasha gutuza no kumwitaho\u2026 kugirango akore ibintu byose byemewe agomba gukemura nyuma yumunsi umwe yicaye mwishuri.<\/p>\n<p>Kandi nubwo inzira yo kwimura inkwi ishobora gusa nkaho idasanzwe kuri benshi muri mwe (rwose birankorera!), Byakoreye umuryango wabo kandi bimufasha gutsinda nimugoroba. Wari umuhango wabo!<\/p>\n<p>Kimwe muri make kuruhande kubyerekeye: Mubice byinshi, buri mwana utaha agiye gukora umukoro nijoro. No mu ishuri ry&#039;incuke! Nyuma rero yo kwicara mwishuri umunsi wose, kenshi na kenshi, abana bava ahantu hakomeye bakeneye kugira umwanya wubusa, vitamine D zimwe, niba bishoboka, numwanya wo gukora iyo mitsi. Bamaze iminsi bahangayitse cyane.<\/p>\n<p>Rimwe na rimwe, ibyo ni byo bibandaho ku manywa: gusa ufite kwifata bihagije kugirango ubeho umunsi mwishuri\u2026 kwiga rimwe na rimwe ni ibya kabiri. Niba kandi umuntu abonye uburyo bufasha umwana we, njye, kubwanjye, ndavuga ngo genda kubyo! Niba kwimura inkwi aribyo bibakorera, ntabwo ndi hano ngo mbacire urubanza!<\/p>\n<p>Ariko ntabwo aribyo ngerageza kuvuga.<\/p>\n<p>Igitekerezo cyanjye nukwemerera abana umwanya muto nigihe cyo guhura nawe mbere yuko batangira umukoro. Ifunguro hamwe na poroteyine zimwe na zimwe nigitekerezo cyiza kimwe. Noneho igihe runaka cyo gukora izo mbaraga.<\/p>\n<p>HANYUMA haza umukoro\u2026 aribyo, mubyukuri, andi mahirwe yo gukora umuhango. Umukoro wo mu rugo umeze ute ku mwana wawe? Bashaka kuba hafi yawe? Niba ukorera mu rugo, ufite ahantu mu biro byawe ushobora kwemerera umwana gushinga iduka kandi akakwegera? Ntibishobora no kuba bakeneye ubufasha bwawe; bashaka gusa kuba hafi yawe.<\/p>\n<p>Cyangwa niba umwana akuze kandi ashaka gukora wenyine, bafite umwanya uhagije mubyumba byabo? Canke kumbure mumuryango aho basohokera kumugaragaro nyamara bagakomeza kuba hafi yabantu\u2026 ariko nanone birashoboka ko utumva ko bahora munsi yijisho?<\/p>\n<p>Ubundi\u2026 ibi nibitekerezo byamahirwe yo guhuza no gukiza kubana murugo rwawe. Buri muryango ukora muburyo butandukanye, ariko nyamara buri mwana (kandi mubyukuri buri mubyeyi nawe) akeneye kugira amahirwe yo guhuza nabandi\u2026 muburyo bwiza kandi burera.<\/p>\n<p>Mubyukuri,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Moving along in our work through rituals in our homes, we come next to After School Rituals. Now, I know this will differ for many of you from case to case. 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