{"id":10189,"date":"2020-11-16T15:58:46","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T20:58:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/?p=10189"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:22","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:22","slug":"conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/rw\/resources\/news-library\/conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table\/","title":{"rendered":"INAMA Z&#039;IKIGANIRO KUBONA UMUNSI MUKURU"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nubwo ibiruhuko bishobora kugaragara ukundi muri uyu mwaka kubera COVID-19, birashobora kuba igihe cyo kwizihiza. Mugihe wegereye ibiganiro byibiruhuko kumeza, nyamuneka wibuke ko 2020 yabaye umwaka ukomeye mumarangamutima kandi menshi kuri benshi. Noneho, niba ibirori byumuryango wawe bibera kumuntu cyangwa mubyukuri, birashoboka rwose ko ingingo zamacakubiri ziri mumitekerereze yabantu. Ibiganiro byuzuye amarangamutima akenshi bituma ikirere gihinduka kandi gishobora gutera amakimbirane hamwe nabo twegereye.<\/p>\n<h6><strong>DORE INAMA ZIMWE ZO KWIRINDA IKIGANIRO GISHYUSHYE KANDI UKOMEZE GUKURIKIRA UMUNYAMAKURU WIZA.<\/strong><\/h6>\n<ul>\n<li>Gerageza kutajya mu giterane cyumuryango cyangwa Zoom guhamagara witeguye kurugamba. Nyuma ya byose, ntabwo arimpamvu yo guhurira hamwe, kandi ibitekerezo ntibishobora guhinduka mubiganiro bishyushye.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Urashobora kuba ufite ibyiyumvo bikomeye kubintu bimwe na bimwe kandi ugashaka kubitangaza, ariko wumve ko kunyurwa mukanya kubikora bishobora kuza kubiciro byumunsi ushimishije. Nibyiza gushyira ingingo nini kumunsi hanyuma ukemerera abandi ubuntu.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Reba impamvu zawe zo kwishora mu kungurana ibitekerezo. Urashaka guhuza numuntu? Cyangwa urashaka &quot;gutsinda&quot;? Ibiganiro byo kurwana bikunda gutuma abantu barushaho gushinga imizi mubyo bizera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ahubwo, gerageza winjire mubiganiro ufite intego yo kwiga. Kuki umuntu yumva ameze? Kuki ingingo runaka ari ingenzi kuri bo? Uburyo bwamatsiko bworoshya gusobanukirwa.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Mugihe usangiye ibitekerezo byawe, tanga inkuru yerekana impamvu wumva inzira runaka kubyerekeye umwanya cyangwa ingingo. Koresha imvugo &quot;I&quot; kugirango usobanure uko waje gufata ibitekerezo byawe.<\/li>\n<li>Irinde imibare. Umuntu wese afite gahunda ye ihuje intego.<\/li>\n<li>Ntukabishyire muri rusange, kandi ntukibwire ko kuberako umuntu yumva inzira runaka kubyerekeye ingingo A, uhita umenya uko bahagaze kumutwe B, C, na D.<\/li>\n<li>Ntuzigere usuzugura.<\/li>\n<li>Niba ubizi mbere yigihe hariho abantu bakunda kuzana ibibazo bivuguruzanya, gira ingamba zo kuyobora ibiganiro kure. Nibyiza kugira imipaka ikikije ingingo zituma utoroherwa. Niba umuntu azanye politiki ukaba udashaka kwishora, urashobora kugerageza &quot;Nukuri ko ari igihe gishimishije mugihugu cyacu.&quot; Niba bakomeje, ushobora kugerageza &quot;Nishimiye ishyaka ryawe, ariko bisa nkaho ibi bishobora gutera kutumvikana. Turashobora kuvuga ku kindi kintu? \u201d cyangwa \u201cNifuza cyane kumva uko abana bawe bameze.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Urashobora kandi kwumviriza<a href=\"https:\/\/www.familiesfirstindiana.org\/podcast\"><em>\u00a0Gukomeza Politiki Mubitekerezo, kuri Family Family Podcast,<\/em><\/a>\u00a0kumpanuro zo kuganira no gushyiraho imipaka hafi y&#039;ibiganiro bya politiki.<\/p>\n<p>Reba iminsi mikuru nk&#039;akanya ko gucukumbura ineza n&#039;impuhwe, aho \u201cgucukurira mu mwobo,\u201d kandi ushobora gutangira kugabanya ibibazo byawe by&#039;ikiruhuko.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nubwo ibiruhuko bishobora kugaragara ukundi muri uyu mwaka kubera COVID-19, birashobora kuba igihe cyo kwizihiza. Mugihe wegereye ibiganiro byibiruhuko kumeza, nyamuneka wibuke ko 2020 yabaye umwaka ukomeye mumarangamutima kandi menshi kuri benshi. Noneho, niba ibirori byumuryango wawe bibera kumuntu cyangwa mubyukuri, birashoboka rwose ko ingingo zamacakubiri ziri mumitekerereze yabantu. Ibiganiro byuzuye amarangamutima akenshi bituma ikirere gihinduka kandi gishobora gutera amakimbirane hamwe nabo twegereye. <\/p>","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family-childhood-development"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>CONVERSATION TIPS FOR THE HOLIDAY TABLE - Firefly Children and Family Alliance<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/rw\/resources\/news-library\/conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"rw_RW\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"CONVERSATION TIPS FOR THE HOLIDAY TABLE - Firefly Children and Family Alliance\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Even though the holidays may look different this year due to COVID-19, they can still be a time for celebration. 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